This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Divorce can be a deeply challenging experience, especially for individuals within the Christian community where marriage is often viewed as a lifelong commitment. For Christian singles who are navigating the waters of divorce, the journey can feel isolating and fraught with emotional and spiritual turmoil. However, this period also presents an opportunity for personal growth, renewed faith, and a deeper understanding of one’s path. This article offers practical advice for divorced Christian singles, providing strategies to heal, rebuild, and thrive…
There are tons of articles out there about rebound relationship dating advice. But what exactly is a rebound relationship? Rebound relationship dating is an intense dating relationship that begins very soon after a long-term relationship goes south. As one experienced single person described it: “A rebound relationship is kinda like jumping from one moving train to another. There’s no time for thinking about what you are about to do. Rebound dating is both exciting and dangerous at the same time.”…
Wondering how to deal with a Christian single Break Up? Dealing with a relationship breakup can be an incredibly challenging experience, especially for Christian singles who often view relationships through the lens of faith and long-term commitment. In this article, we’ll explore practical and faith-based strategies for navigating the emotional landscape of a post-breakup period. How to Deal with a Christian Relationship Breakup In Christian dating, there’s often a strong emphasis on seeking a lifelong partner and maintaining purity and…
Whether you’re waiting for that special someone or currently in a relationship, understanding and addressing common relationship problems faced by Christian singles can lead to healthier and more fulfilling interactions. Let’s delve into some prevalent relationship problems faced by Christian singles and explore how scriptural insights can offer guidance and comfort. 1. Finding Someone with Similar Values One of the foremost challenges Christian singles face is finding a partner who shares a similar depth of faith and values. In a…
Let’s get right to the point: Dating an ex’s friend can be a messy affair. Dating within a circle of friends can sometimes lead to unexpected romantic connections. This scenario poses unique challenges and opportunities, especially for Christian singles who aim to navigate these relationships with integrity and respect for all parties involved. Below, we explore the pros and cons of such relationships from both a Christian woman’s and man’s perspective. Dating an ex’s friend From a Christian Woman’s Viewpoint:…
Need advice on how to break up a Christian dating relationship? A famous 50s break-up song gives us this little bit of dating advice on how to break up: “Breaking up is hard to do.” No, ya think? Whether you are a Christian single couple in a courtship or an online dating relationship, how you break up a relationship will be emotionally painful for both of you. If you are contemplating a break up of your dating relationship, considering the…
Wondering what things guys do that girls love? In the world of dating and relationships, compatibility plays a significant role in forming lasting connections. For Christian couples, shared values and beliefs are often the cornerstone of a strong and fulfilling relationship. Christian guys who embody certain qualities and actions can be particularly attractive to Christian girls. In this article, we will explore ten things that Christian guys do that girls love, while also highlighting the importance of faith and virtue…
The term ” do not be unequally yoked” might sound archaic to those not familiar with its origins, but it’s still relevant, particularly within the context of Christian dating. Stemming from the Bible, specifically 2 Corinthians 6:14, the phrase reads: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”. In contemporary language, this relates to forming partnerships with those who don’t share the same faith and values. We…
Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Are you single, shy and looking for love? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with…
Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find a…
I hate the feeling of being taken advantage of. This becomes especially so when dealing with situations where a date takes advantage. Using the teachings of 1 Thessalonians 4:6, this article will explore effective strategies to handle such challenging scenarios with grace and assertiveness. Understanding 1 Thessalonians 4:6 Before delving into solutions, it’s vital to understand the biblical perspective provided by 1 Thessalonians 4:6, which cautions believers not to “wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.” This scripture…
Are you dating a pathological liar? Pathological liars are so good at lying that I pity the poor soul who is dating one, whether through an online Christian service like eHarmony, or some other way. What makes a pathological liar so different from every other big fat liar in a dating relationship? Psychologists feel the answer is found in a paradox: Pathological liars may actually believe the twisted stories they tell their dates, but at the same time know that…
In the search for love, Christian singles often navigate complex waters, balancing faith and feelings. This article explores the top 20 dealbreakers in Christian dating relationships from a biblical perspective. Understanding these dealbreakers is crucial for those looking to build relationships rooted in faith and mutual respect. We’ll delve into scriptural insights and practical advice to guide Christian singles in their dating journey. 1. Unequally Yoked Relationships 2 Corinthians 6:14 cautions against being unequally yoked with non-believers. This misalignment in…
What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What are signs of a healthy relationship when dating? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. signs you are in the right Dating Relationship Your dating interest (we assume he or she is a Christian) is growing more…
There are many fears that keep women and men single. Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from that very goal. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some of the top fears single women and men face? A survey of several hundred singles revealed the following: Top 3 Fears of Single Women…
How do you know when a guy is flirting with you? What’s his body language when flirting? Understanding body language flirting is essential for Christian singles. What exactly is alpha male body language flirting? It’s basically a collection of all the nonverbal clues a guy (whether he be a Christian or not) gives out when he’s interested in a woman. Just to be clear, not all body language flirting is a conscious decision on the part of the single guy,…