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Comment on Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart by Michael Cordima

Michael Cordima — Sun, 22 Apr 2012 23:53:06 +0000

There is waaaay too much sexual immorality on this blog. Women, take it from me, if a man has cheated he will do it again and again until he is broken completely by God and I don’t mean he will come to you crying, I mean he will go to God crying because you are long gone from his life. DON’T BELIEVE HIM! HE IS A SLAVE TO HIS SIN AND WILL ALWAYS BE UNTIL YOU ARE GONE AND HE HAS NO ONE ELSE TO TURN TO BUT GOD OR ANOTHER WOMAN TO SATISFY HIS LUSTS. I too have needs but I also have self control. I am single, but I am beginning to believe that women even in the church (this blog is not helping) only want men who lie and cheat because they say the right things and make women feel good. I can do those things too, but women don’t give me the chance because I generally don’t come on to them or flirt in a sexual way with them. Please for the literal love of Christ make better decisions and be a better example for this world. Choose men who are serious about Christ more than about you EVEN IF YOU DON’T GET ALL OF THE ATTENTION. At least they won’t cheat.

Comment on Sexual Feelings of Christian Single Women by Love

Love — Sun, 22 Apr 2012 20:54:46 +0000

Am feeling so terrible,guity and sinful.i’v been in this relationship for the past 7 years.we’r both virgins,we’ll be 30 yrs old by may.but we’v been intimate and we foreplay.if not for His grace we would hav had sex.i really want to stop but i keep finding myself in it.and we cant continue sin and grace should abound.pls help me out.

Comment on Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date by ibrahim bukwa

ibrahim bukwa — Fri, 30 Mar 2012 22:28:08 +0000

anyway its not easy for some one to stay happly without some one near him or in his mind for love. i mean single life is not easy, some times you get stressed up, some ladies end up forcing themselves on your way, you can fail to have a clear picture of your tommorow, but all this can only be settled by our father in HEAVEN. THE GOOD MATE COMES FROM GOD.may the Lord give peace, hope and patience to all christian single and dirrect them to their long waited mates. be blessed

Comment on Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart by katie

katie — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 23:21:54 +0000

ok well i’m only 14 ok well my boyfriend is dating my bff now after we broke up for no reason he just said me and him needed to end the relationship since he loved someone else but it’s so hard for me bc i see him with my friend and i love him so much i know i’m just a kid but this is more then just kid love i mean i really really love him and still haven’t got over him for a long time and i just feel like crying when i see them together i’ve tried so hard to get him back even though i know if i truely loved him i would want him to be happy but i just want him back so bad.here is a quot i found “YOU KNOW YOUR IN LOVE IF HE MAKES YOU CRY AND YOU STILL WANT HIM, YOU KNOW YOUR IN LOVE IF HE IGNORES YOU BUT YOU STILL LOVE HIM, IF HE MOVES ON AND YOU TELL HIM YOUR HAPPY FOR HIM EVEN IF YOU JUST WANT TO CRY”

Comment on Christian Penpals for Christian Singles by Mim

Mim — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 12:57:47 +0000

I love the message from Kevin, Kevin in all situations, let the name of God be glorified because he is the one incharge of your life. i would love from time to time to share the word of God with you. your email pliz.

Comment on Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers by go2

go2 — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 04:42:01 +0000

Well to Ophelia:

You are going against God’s will by LIVING with and being with a non believer. You’re not dating him you’re living with him without the benefit of marriage.
God didn’t put you there for a reason. Satan put you there for a reason. It’s easy to delude ourselves when the Bible is clear on this subject. I would check my own motivations for being with a non believer never mind Living with one or living with anyone without the benefit of marriage.

Comment on Christian Singles Black Dating Services and African-American Personals by Hans N.

Hans N. — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:11:22 +0000

I am Hans Ngala,a 20 year old Cameroonian high school student studying History,Literature and Philosophy.I am looking for a good Christian friend who can encourage me in my Christian walk.I am also looking for a Christian girl around my age to date seriously especially from Canada,Latin America,Jamaica or an African American girl.
I love drawing,friends,cooking,reading,writing,picnics,adventure,cracking
jokes and lots more.I will send a photo of me later and my address.E-mail me at hansngala92@yahoo.ca or text or call(+237)79 92 92 75 for a start.
Hans.

Comment on Christian Penpals for Christian Singles by Hans N.

Hans N. — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:00:03 +0000

I am a 20 year old Cameroonian high school student looking for a good Christian friend to exchange mail with,preferably snail mail.It has a more personal feel,don’t you think?!
I love drawing,cooking,singing,reading,writing,movies,friends,picnics,
cracking jokes and lots more.I will send a photo and address when we are better acquainted.I have never dated before but hope to find a beautiful lady about my age to start a serious relationship with.I will prefer a lady from Canada,Latin America,an African American lady or a Jamaican.You can also write if you just want us to be friends and I hope we can meet someday.
Hoping to read from you soon.I can be called or text at(+237)79 92 92 75 or e-mailed at hansngala92@yahoo.ca
Take care and write soon.
Hans.

Comment on Sexual Feelings of Christian Single Women by Rach

Rach — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 06:51:32 +0000

Sharon, God didn’t attend for you to be alone.Just because you didn’t find someone yet,doesn’t mean you never will.Many women I know didn’t find marriage til they were 50.No kids but marriage doesn’t have to be about having kids.Don’t give up.:) There’s someone out there for you,just keeping trying.

Comment on Sexual Feelings of Christian Single Women by Rach

Rach — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 06:44:30 +0000

Connie,whow are you right! It’s a problem with most churches.I’ve come to my witts end with the Christian male attitude that sex is just for males because they believe women are a sexless childish weaker vessel who needs love but not sex.There’s nothing in the Bible which gives me any notiion that women need sex too.The whole “love your wives ” thing is blah and boring to me and I find it rather insulting,because it gives me a notion that the Bible thinks women are empty love junkies with no sex drive.

In chatts online the Christian males are always whining about women not being dressed modestly enough,but men should be modest too! Then the guys whine about how they can’t controll themselves but women can.No it’s just as tough for women to controll ourselves.This just frustrates me to no end!