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Comment on Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart by nana

nana — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 04:49:39 +0000

this is to all especially denise:

He heals the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds psalm 147:3
so trust in him and pour out your heart to him he is close to those with a contrite spirit.
As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us. psalm 103:12
you are forgiven once you asked and repented so forgive yourself he forgave you.

There’s no condemnation in Christ Romans 8:1
don’t let the past hold you from your future seek the lord and his love and it will be more than enough he loves you and knows every detail of you

Matthew 6:33 states,”But seek ye first the kingdom of God,and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
let him be the man in your life and once it is time he will give you what your heart desire. Have faith and don’t give up or impatient because it’s not right when you want it.

“A woman’s heart should be so close to God that a man has to seek God to find it.”

peace and blessings you are loved and worth much more to the lord than you’re current situations.

Comment on Signs of Flirting-How to Tell She is Flirting with You by Crew

Crew — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 12:23:07 +0000

How #@%ed up is this? I’m 29 and still single because I was waiting for a christian girl to come along. I was always a little shy, and that didn’t help much, also I didn’t want to drop my standards and just “settle” for some cheap hook-up slut, beacause stupidly, I always assumed God had someone he’d made just for me and was going to bring her across my path somehow in his divine timing and we would get married and live happily ever after..
Then one day I woke up and I was 29, most of my friends were married or in long term relationships and decent suitable single christian girls had gone the way of the dinosaur. Most of the availabe women my age left now are either messed-up, divorcees, too young or ex hook-up sluts.
My advice to you young guys reading this? Find the girl of your dreams and marry her whilst your still young and love is still magic! DO IT NOW! Don’t wait.. I did, and will regret it for the rest of my life.

Comment on What Christian Guys Need in a Wife by sally

sally — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 06:32:51 +0000

Just a tip….. Yes, men do enjoy sex (love making), as do women. HOWEVER, there are times in the lives of women AND MEN when sex actually isn’t the FIRST thing on one’s mind. Keep that in mind after you get married.

Comment on Fear of Commitment and Men by Traci Toguchi

Traci Toguchi — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 05:10:47 +0000

Thank you for the great tips!

Totally agree with #10.

Totally.

I just blogged my thoughts about the concept of commitment and how it translates to being transparent…

Comment on Overcoming Jealousy: Jealous Dating by vickie

vickie — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 01:01:07 +0000

I read all the signs and I never realized I was so bad please help as I love my boyfriend and I really dont want to loose him.

Comment on Christian Singles Secrets by Liz

Liz — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 20:52:29 +0000

I am a 19 year old girl whose faith is the most important thing in my life. However, the sin of masturbation has had a hold on me for a long time. It has come and gone, but I really desperately want to be free of it. I don’t have anyone in this new city that keeps me accountable for anything and it feels like I am alone in fighting this, especially since I am a girl and girls aren’t supposed to struggle with this. I want to stop. I want God’s love to be enough to make me stop, but I keep coming back to this.

Comment on Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart by Simon

Simon — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 17:14:32 +0000

I was with the girl of my dreams for over a year. I honestly thought she would be the last girl for me, we talked about marriage and kids and stuff like that and we were both looking forward to it. I went abroad on my gap year for 6 months, and found that a few months in she started seeing another guy. I found out when she came out to see me, and it crushed me. When we were back in England I was going to going to pop the question, but instead I broke it off with her. I am struggling to forgive her for what she did to me, I have never been so open to anyone or have trusted anyone as much as her. I really hate her for what she did, and for destroying the life we could have had. She has changed a lot since I’ve come back, I can’t stop thinking about her, but its all bad thoughts, like what I would do to her if I saw her again. I don’t want to feel like this anymore, I want to forgive her and move on, but I am really struggling. Please help me.

Comment on Overcoming Jealousy: Jealous Dating by Nathan

Nathan — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 15:09:55 +0000

I have problems with jealousy and when I realized it and began to work on it my partner still thinks she is hurting my feelings when I have stopped being jealous. Therefore it still turns into a bad situation. I dont get it. I really love her and she loves me I just want her to trust when I tell her I TRUST her.

Comment on Christian Penpals for Christian Singles by Ebenezer

Ebenezer — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 13:51:18 +0000

My name is Ebenezer a Ghanaian living in a town called Tema near the capital city of Ghana Accra. 23 years of age, a christian. I am here to meet someone who know what a love is and No Games very serious lady i don’t care who ever you are all what i care about you is your heart, To have a good herat and God fearing person I will love you forever write and know more about me God bless you… write me and i will reply to you. my email: ebenlinking@aol.com

Comment on Rebound Relationships Dating Advice by Insanity

Insanity — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 17:47:39 +0000

In regard to rebound dating relationships, I was in a 9 year relationship and found out my ex had cheated on me once while drunk. He didn’t tell me about it for a long time, but I couldn’t forgive him and we separated. While we were separated, I started hanging out with a guy from work, and things got serious. I got a divorce and soon after, I got remarried. Now I keep thinking I have wronged my ex, that I should have been there for him, and that I don’t know what I am doing. I love my husband, but at times my love for my ex outweighs that love. I know that my husband loves me very much, and is afraid that I am going to leave him, and at this point I have thought about it so much that I have a hard time believing myself when I tell him I am not going anywhere. He has done nothing wrong except for wanting to be with me and to love me, and all I can do is think of my ex and how much I still love him. I don’t know what to do, and wish desperately that I had not opened the door to a relationship until I was ready. At the time I felt that God was bringing us together to heal my hurt over my ex, but now I am not sure at all that I have done the right thing.

Comment on Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers by Lisa Leonard

Lisa Leonard — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 19:18:33 +0000

Born again Christians John3:3 says we are are born of God, so how can a child of God even think about dating any body that is not born again. Not only that God said in His holy word, 2 Corinthians 6:14, “BE NOT UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS: 4 WHAT FELLOWSHIP DOES RIGHTEOUSNESS & INIQUITY? OR WHAT COMMUNION HATH LIGHT WITH DARKNESS” Don’t take this scripture out of context, it simply means “yoked with a DIFFERENT yoke” It not only is true spiritually, but even in regards to our future.

Comment on Contentment Living a Christian Single Life by Gerald Burris

Gerald Burris — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 17:11:26 +0000

im a 34 yr old single Christian male who desires a wife and family. I’ve just broken up with this one girl and she tells
me: “I’m breaking up with you because I can’t provide what you want and that is a family.” I thought this was an excuse but what can I do?
She is with someone else now and I’m by myself again. I know what God’s Word says but sometimes its frustrating and then on top of that. I can’t see myself being celibate the rest of my life. I want to wait until God brings the right woman along but I’m not a eunuch.

Comment on Christian Dating Guy Sounds Off by Mike

Mike — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 00:53:03 +0000

Eric,
This lady is playing hard to forget.
You are burning calories mourning her loss. What ever is in your heart is displayed on your face. You can’t help it, it just comes out.
Now is the time to get yourself some peace. If she was the right lady for you, God would have made it so. She could not stop herself.

Put on a new face and get back into the race. It is possible for you to miss the real lady God has in mind for you because of the attraction distraction. Get it!

Make some changes. A new hair cut. In fact never get the same hair cut twice in a row. Change your style of dress. Move it up a notch. Get a new black suit and great shirts. Look around for inspiration, the web, TV. It is all about the shirt.

What I’m saying is repackage yourself. Get exposure at other churches in your surrounding area.

When you land a date, never talk about your past. Only talk about today and where you would like to be in the future. Talk about what you see on the horizen. Let the past be mystery.
Mysteries are intriguing, aren’t they.

Above all be a man of character.

Now do something for me Eric. Visit my website indiucky.com and give me some feedback. I need Christion men to give me honest reactions to the content and look and feel. The topic: What every boy needs to know about being a man - God approved.

Comment on Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers by aaron

aaron — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:33:54 +0000

second best? who is to say just because they are christian they will further your faith or make you happy. you could be weary because its good to share common interests, but to leave somebody purely on the reason that they share different spirtial beliefs to you is absurd. Jesus spent most of his time being around sinners. God may have placed your bf in your life to strength your faith. or like so many stories ive heard, to witness to them and their friends. if you are in a happy loving relationship with a non christians, if it works, then stay with them.

Comment on Christian Singles Secrets by sharmin

sharmin — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:44:01 +0000

i think that it is very commendable what you guys have written. it is source of encouragement to me. please note that i am not happy because you failed. but i am happy that even after you failed you arouse. i remember suffering with the problem of masturbation ever since i was a child (8-9). and i battled with it until i was about 18.and i must say that it was not easy. there were days when i felt so guilty that i couldn’t stand myself. the truth is that we can overcome masturbation when we feed our minds with healthy things. i used to feed my mind with porn even as a young child. i want to say to ever one with this problem that you can’t rely on yourself to fix it you need God to help you. the truth is that i tried to fix it on my own many times but i only made it worst. trust in God He was able to help me overcome it and if i remember correctly He is still in the deliverance business.