Comments for Christian-Dating-Service-PLUS http://christian-dating-service-plus.com Christian Messages on Dating, Relationships, Finances, Singles and Marriage Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:48:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 Comment on Creative Dating Ideas by Raechel http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/creative-dating-ideas.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30961 Raechel Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:48:24 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/creative-dating-ideas.htm#comment-30961 Thank you for this site. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months were trying to find different fun dates to go on and all I could find was "Have dinner in bed together and have each other for desert..." Clearly for married couples or secular dating. THANK YOU! Thank you for this site. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months were trying to find different fun dates to go on and all I could find was “Have dinner in bed together and have each other for desert…” Clearly for married couples or secular dating. THANK YOU!

]]> Comment on Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers by Neil http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-singles-dating-unbelievers.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30950 Neil Mon, 29 Jun 2009 00:40:26 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-singles-dating-unbelievers.htm#comment-30950 It's such a hard decision whether to date a non christian or not. Everyone on this blog has different opinions, depending on how much they're in love or heartbroken or lonely etc. Especially when you desire a loving relationship. I resisted going out with a female friend of mine for 2 years (I'm christian, she's not) but ended up dating and sleeping with her. We fell in love. It lasted 6 months then we broke up & it broke both our hearts. Thankfully, we are still friends. I ended up sleeping with an old friend of mine to try and heal the heartbreak. Stupid. Meanwhile, she hooked up with another guy for the same reason. It lasted a month. We didn't have any contact for about 6 weeks until she asked me to look after her daughter for an hour or so. We had missed each other so much and ended up sleeping together again. Stupid again! Anyway, the feelings of heartbreak came flooding back. We love each other but aren't willing to commit to each other, for a variety of reasons. She does drugs and drinks heavily, part of the reason I don't want to commit fully to her. I wonder what I was doing dating her. Am I crazy? I feel like an idiot compromising my faith for the sake of falling in love with what I now believe was the wrong woman. I struggled with my faith/obedience to God while in this relationship and feel God has said to let her go to save my faith. I'm 47 years old, she's 37. I just wanted to let people know that love problems strike no matter how young/old people are. Now I'm living day by day and letting the Lord heal my heart. I pray for her, her mum & her daughter that the Lord will call them to salvation. We will always be friends and I do hope that she will change one day. What a lesson, you're never too old to learn something new. I won't give up on love, I'm trying to walk closer to the Lord. He knows the desires of our hearts. Amen to that. It’s such a hard decision whether to date a non christian or not. Everyone on this blog has different opinions, depending on how much they’re in love or heartbroken or lonely etc. Especially when you desire a loving relationship.
I resisted going out with a female friend of mine for 2 years (I’m christian, she’s not) but ended up dating and sleeping with her. We fell in love. It lasted 6 months then we broke up & it broke both our hearts. Thankfully, we are still friends.
I ended up sleeping with an old friend of mine to try and heal the heartbreak. Stupid. Meanwhile, she hooked up with another guy for the same reason. It lasted a month.
We didn’t have any contact for about 6 weeks until she asked me to look after her daughter for an hour or so. We had missed each other so much and ended up sleeping together again. Stupid again!
Anyway, the feelings of heartbreak came flooding back. We love each other but aren’t willing to commit to each other, for a variety of reasons.
She does drugs and drinks heavily, part of the reason I don’t want to commit fully to her. I wonder what I was doing dating her. Am I crazy? I feel like an idiot compromising my faith for the sake of falling in love with what I now believe was the wrong woman. I struggled with my faith/obedience to God while in this relationship and feel God has said to let her go to save my faith.
I’m 47 years old, she’s 37. I just wanted to let people know that love problems strike no matter how young/old people are.
Now I’m living day by day and letting the Lord heal my heart. I pray for her, her mum & her daughter that the Lord will call them to salvation. We will always be friends and I do hope that she will change one day. What a lesson, you’re never too old to learn something new.
I won’t give up on love, I’m trying to walk closer to the Lord. He knows the desires of our hearts. Amen to that.

]]> Comment on Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart by nathan beck http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/broken-hearted-how-to-mend-a-broken-heart.htm/comment-page-2/#comment-30949 nathan beck Sun, 28 Jun 2009 14:10:04 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/broken-hearted-how-to-mend-a-broken-heart.htm#comment-30949 i caught my girlfriend cheating on me with one of friends..they did say that before they were about to have intercourse, they thought 'what were doin is wrong...we shouldnt be doin this'...i walked in my this time, screamed a little, but mostly couldnt stop crying...this morn my gf(now ex) said she wants to be free and isnt ready for commitment...we went for a walk, and sat on the beach, she cried her eyes out for ages, and said shes so sorry..i didnt know it was possible to feel this kind of pain..its so intense...i dont know what to do...help me please.... i caught my girlfriend cheating on me with one of friends..they did say that before they were about to have intercourse, they thought ‘what were doin is wrong…we shouldnt be doin this’…i walked in my this time, screamed a little, but mostly couldnt stop crying…this morn my gf(now ex) said she wants to be free and isnt ready for commitment…we went for a walk, and sat on the beach, she cried her eyes out for ages, and said shes so sorry..i didnt know it was possible to feel this kind of pain..its so intense…i dont know what to do…help me please….

]]> Comment on Contentment Living a Christian Single Life by Dione http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/contentment-living-a-christian-single-life.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30940 Dione Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:56:38 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/contentment-living-a-christian-single-life.htm#comment-30940 Wow, this is very informative and I thank God I had found this article to encourage me more become contented of what I am in right now. I am dating this guy for 3 years now on and off. I kept on breaking it off or mess it up coz I was being impatient when he's going to propose... until this last time when I decided about improving my prayer time and focus in the Lord, rather than expecting my man to be with me and propose. I guess, God has a purpose for everything. Dear Lord, please help me to commit with you more and increase my faith everyday. Amen Wow, this is very informative and I thank God I had found this article to encourage me more become contented of what I am in right now. I am dating this guy for 3 years now on and off. I kept on breaking it off or mess it up coz I was being impatient when he’s going to propose… until this last time when I decided about improving my prayer time and focus in the Lord, rather than expecting my man to be with me and propose. I guess, God has a purpose for everything. Dear Lord, please help me to commit with you more and increase my faith everyday. Amen

]]> Comment on Christian Cafe-Christian Dating Service by greg http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-cafe-christian-dating-service.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30936 greg Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:03:02 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-cafe-christian-dating-service.htm#comment-30936 Well you know. I posted as niteowl up there and yeah, that other guy is basically right. Most of these people on the sites are losers or golddiggers. I'm engaged and I knew the woman for years. We dated on and off and I dated some people from 3 different sites and these sites basically take your money. I met many women who were psycho and usually cute and I met women who were nice and usually bow wow. And I met women who said they were slim and were chubby and hirsute to boot! Well you know. I posted as niteowl up there and yeah, that other guy is basically right. Most of these people on the sites are losers or golddiggers. I’m engaged and I knew the woman for years. We dated on and off and I dated some people from 3 different sites and these sites basically take your money. I met many women who were psycho and usually cute and I met women who were nice and usually bow wow. And I met women who said they were slim and were chubby and hirsute to boot!

]]> Comment on BigChurch by Karen http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/bigchurch.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30926 Karen Mon, 22 Jun 2009 14:17:26 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/bigchurch.htm#comment-30926 2 years ago I bought a 3 month gold membership to check it out. I wrote many men and only 1 local man responded. The rest never wrote back. But I started getting many enthusiastic letters from out of state men who claimed to have become infatuated with me via my profile. I spent many hours writing back, telling them about myself, and hoping to make a connection even though they lived some distance away. Strangely, after a few letters they always disappeared. This happened 5 or 6 times during the 3 months. Sometimes their letters didn't quite match what their profile said, and I got suspicious but stayed with it. Looking back, this was naive and stupid, but I was so lonely and really wanted to meet someone that I believed their lies. After my gold membership expired, I decided not to renew, but was planned to still use the free part of the service. After a few weeks my login stopped working. I emailed customer service many times about it but NEVER got a response. Finally I gave up altogether. ***Here's the important part of this review: I finally realized that they were blocking me and using my profile for their marketing purposes. BIGCHURCH HIRES PEOPLE TO USE YOUR PROFILE TO WRITE FAKE LETTERS TO OTHER PEOPLE TO KEEP THEM RENEWING THEIR MEMBERSHIP!!!! All the out of state letters I got and spent hours responding to were FAKE!!! The profiles were real but the owners were long gone. Now they were doing the same thing with my profile, picture, personal details, etc. and I have no way to stop them. This site is all about theft and lying just to get your money!! Their deceit is so ANTI-CHRISTIAN I hope they all go to hell for getting my hopes up and then dashing them over and over again. It was a cruel and tough lesson about greed and deception, and even though a site claims to be Christian, don't believe it !!! Later I found a FREE dating site called Plenty of Fish, which is real. It's not "Christian" but I've met many real and nice local men on it, and now have a wonderful and steady boyfriend I met there. STAY AWAY FROM BIGCHURCH!!! 2 years ago I bought a 3 month gold membership to check it out. I wrote many men and only 1 local man responded. The rest never wrote back. But I started getting many enthusiastic letters from out of state men who claimed to have become infatuated with me via my profile. I spent many hours writing back, telling them about myself, and hoping to make a connection even though they lived some distance away. Strangely, after a few letters they always disappeared. This happened 5 or 6 times during the 3 months. Sometimes their letters didn’t quite match what their profile said, and I got suspicious but stayed with it. Looking back, this was naive and stupid, but I was so lonely and really wanted to meet someone that I believed their lies.

After my gold membership expired, I decided not to renew, but was planned to still use the free part of the service. After a few weeks my login stopped working. I emailed customer service many times about it but NEVER got a response. Finally I gave up altogether.

***Here’s the important part of this review: I finally realized that they were blocking me and using my profile for their marketing purposes. BIGCHURCH HIRES PEOPLE TO USE YOUR PROFILE TO WRITE FAKE LETTERS TO OTHER PEOPLE TO KEEP THEM RENEWING THEIR MEMBERSHIP!!!! All the out of state letters I got and spent hours responding to were FAKE!!! The profiles were real but the owners were long gone. Now they were doing the same thing with my profile, picture, personal details, etc. and I have no way to stop them. This site is all about theft and lying just to get your money!! Their deceit is so ANTI-CHRISTIAN I hope they all go to hell for getting my hopes up and then dashing them over and over again. It was a cruel and tough lesson about greed and deception, and even though a site claims to be Christian, don’t believe it !!!

Later I found a FREE dating site called Plenty of Fish, which is real. It’s not “Christian” but I’ve met many real and nice local men on it, and now have a wonderful and steady boyfriend I met there. STAY AWAY FROM BIGCHURCH!!!

]]> Comment on BBW Dating for Christian Singles by stella http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/bbw-dating-for-christian-singles.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30923 stella Sun, 21 Jun 2009 04:37:39 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/bbw-dating-for-christian-singles.htm#comment-30923 This is to Marcy, It is good you acknowldedge your pain for that is the begining of your healing. Your problem is neither men nor your size but your self etseem is too low. the comment 'my body got ruined and deformed from when I had children… to the wrong person when was very young..' means you hate your self and possibly resent your children for ruining your body. Men usually love women that love themselves but a man cannot give you inner satisfction like the one the lord can give to you. Besides most men alreaday have messed up lives,(like addiction to pornography) expecting them to make you happy is asking too much from them because it is only God that can make you happy. so what sh'd you do? Pray and ask God to change your attitude towards yourself. I have met happily married large women with the sweetest hearts you can ever imagine. And their husbands love them anyway, bcause they love themselves too. You don't need to apologize to any body for your size Take care of your self for health reasons. May God bless you. Huggies Stella This is to Marcy, It is good you acknowldedge your pain for that is the begining of your healing. Your problem is neither men nor your size but your self etseem is too low. the comment ‘my body got ruined and deformed from when I had children… to the wrong person when was very young..’ means you hate your self and possibly resent your children for ruining your body. Men usually love women that love themselves but a man cannot give you inner satisfction like the one the lord can give to you. Besides most men alreaday have messed up lives,(like addiction to pornography) expecting them to make you happy is asking too much from them because it is only God that can make you happy.
so what sh’d you do?
Pray and ask God to change your attitude towards yourself. I have met happily married large women with the sweetest hearts you can ever imagine. And their husbands love them anyway, bcause they love themselves too. You don’t need to apologize to any body for your size Take care of your self for health reasons.
May God bless you.
Huggies
Stella

]]> Comment on Christian Speed Dating for Single Christians by Loriann Dunwell http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-speed-dating-for-single-christians.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30922 Loriann Dunwell Sat, 20 Jun 2009 13:52:30 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-speed-dating-for-single-christians.htm#comment-30922 Greetings, I am a born-again believer who is interested in Christian Speed Dating events in NYC. Your response is appreciated in advanced. Sincerely, Loriann Dunwell Greetings,

I am a born-again believer who is interested in Christian Speed
Dating events in NYC. Your response is appreciated in advanced.

Sincerely,

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]]> Comment on Dating Advice: How to Break Up by bubbles http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/dating-advice-how-to-break-up.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30918 bubbles Thu, 18 Jun 2009 22:36:25 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/dating-advice-how-to-break-up.htm#comment-30918 Dear JuneBug, I have the similar questions like you. I have asked God for Justice caused by all these so called 'christian' cheaters. I feel like they are as if the wolves with sheepskins. I know that as a christian I should forgive so that it will help me to get off the hook of bitterness and hatred but I find it still very difficult to forgive. I have read a lot of books such as Philip Yancey's book ' where is God when i hurts', Holding on to your faith even when God doesnt make sense by Dr James Dobson. I am still looking for answer. Can anyone offer any insight to all of us who had hurt so badly by all these liars and cheaters?? Please?? Dear JuneBug, I have the similar questions like you. I have asked God for Justice caused by all these so called ‘christian’ cheaters. I feel like they are as if the wolves with sheepskins. I know that as a christian I should forgive so that it will help me to get off the hook of bitterness and hatred but I find it still very difficult to forgive.

I have read a lot of books such as Philip Yancey’s book ‘ where is God when i hurts’, Holding on to your faith even when God doesnt make sense by Dr James Dobson. I am still looking for answer. Can anyone offer any insight to all of us who had hurt so badly by all these liars and cheaters?? Please??

]]> Comment on Signs of Flirting-How to Tell She is Flirting with You by ShimmerB http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/signs-of-flirting-how-to-tell-she-is-flirting-with-you.htm/comment-page-1/#comment-30915 ShimmerB Thu, 18 Jun 2009 15:52:21 +0000 http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/signs-of-flirting-how-to-tell-she-is-flirting-with-you.htm#comment-30915 Advice to guys: Like Hitch says: Any guy can sweep any girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom. Now the right broom is GUTS. Comm'on guys, I'm telling you! I'm an attractive woman, but so far, no good guys have had the guts to say anything interesting to me. Not even, "You look great!" cause they're afraid. The only guy that has impressed me is a (kinda pychotic) guy who isn't even good looking, but he's got enough guts to say stuff like, "Even if you have lovely eyes..." or "...the most beautiful woman trading the stock market" I may not like him but the fact that he's got some guts earns my respect. Girls may wrinkle their noses or brush it off, but deep down inside--they LIKE it!!! So go use that broom! Cheers, ShimmerB Advice to guys:

Like Hitch says: Any guy can sweep any girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom.

Now the right broom is GUTS. Comm’on guys, I’m telling you!

I’m an attractive woman, but so far, no good guys have had the guts to say anything interesting to me. Not even, “You look great!” cause they’re afraid. The only guy that has impressed me is a (kinda pychotic) guy who isn’t even good looking, but he’s got enough guts to say stuff like, “Even if you have lovely eyes…” or “…the most beautiful woman trading the stock market”

I may not like him but the fact that he’s got some guts earns my respect. Girls may wrinkle their noses or brush it off, but deep down inside–they LIKE it!!! So go use that broom!

Cheers,
ShimmerB

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