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Fear of Commitment and Men恐惧的承诺和男子

Do you know a Christian single guy who has a fear of你知不知道一个基督教单一家伙谁拥有的恐惧 commitment委托事项 ? ？ The following “defeating fear of commitment tips may help you cure that commitment phobe:下面的“战胜恐惧的承诺秘诀也许能帮助您解决这一承诺phobe ：

1. 1 。 Do not rush him into a serious relationship with you.不赶他成为一个严重的关系，与您联系。 The more you push, the more he will pull away.越多，您推动，更将他拉离。

2. 2 。 No matter how much you may love spending time with your man, plan a little away from him every now and then.不管有多少你可以爱花时间与您的男子，计划有点距离，他现在每然后。 Having this separation can give him time to realize how important you are.这个分离可以给他时间去实现有多么重要你。 Remember that old saying, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”.记得古语有云， “缺席使得心脏成长fonder ” 。

3. 3 。 Leave small reminders of yourself around his house.离开小提醒自己靠近他的房子。 Do not go over board and leave so much of your stuff at his house that he start feeling like you are trying to force your way into his house without his permission.不超过董事会，离开了这么多您的东西在他的房子，他开始感觉一样，您正试图强迫您的方式进入他的房子没有经过他的首肯。

4. 4 。 If you have not heard from him all day, do not sit around waiting for him to call you.如果你有没有听到从他的所有天，不要坐在靠近等待他打电话给您。 Go out and do something, this often helps guys realize that you do still have other things going on in your life.走出去做点事，这往往可以帮助人认识到，你仍然有其他事情就在你的生活。

5. 5 。 Remain as aloof as possible about your future together.保持超然尽可能您共创未来。 Men are so used to having women bombard them with questions about where their relationship is headed that they find it refreshing when you seem not to be too interested in settling down.男人，所以用后，妇女炮轰他们的问题在哪里，他们的关系是为首的说，他们觉得耳目一新当您似乎并没有太大的兴趣稳定下来。

6. 6 。 Remember to tell him every now and then how much he means to you, but make it special.记得告诉他，每一个现在，然后有多少，他指给你的，但使它特别。 Telling a man everyday that you care about him has a way of cheapening how you feel about him.告诉一个男人，每天你关心他的一种方式cheapening如何您觉得对他的。

7. 7 。 If you get the opportunity to meet his family, do not put yourself forward as the possible future in-law.如果你得到机会，以满足他的家人，不要把自己提出的未来可能在法律。 Getting the family to like and respect you for who you are is an important step.获得家庭喜欢和尊重你，为你是谁，是一个重要的步骤。 If they think you are pushing your way into his life too soon they will become a barrier.如果他们认为你是推动您的方式进入他的生命得太早，他们将成为一个障碍。

8. 8 。 There is a delicate balance that you must learn to keep between maintaining your independence and being part of a relationship.有一种微妙的平衡，你必须学会保持之间的维护您的独立性和正的一个组成部分的关系。 Make sure that while you still go out and do your own thing, every now and then let him know that you also want to spend time with him.作出肯定的同时，你还走出去，做自己的事，每一个现在，然后让他知道你也想花时间与他。

9. 9 。 Be respectful of his friends and his time with them.尊重他的朋友和他的时间与他们。 All boyfriends have that one friend you wish they did not hang out with, but pointing out his flaws over and over again is only going to drive a wedge between the two of you, and not him and his friend.所有男朋友都有这样一个朋友，你是否想他们没有坑出来，但指出他的缺点超过以上又是只去竭力离间两国之间的你，而不是他和他的朋友。

10. 10 。 Let him do the chasing.让他做追逐。 Men value women they chase more than those that chase them.男人的价值妇女，他们追逐多于那些追逐他们。

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