ª•ž àÈ‹^S: “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ “ú•t‚¯
àÈ‹^S is –^ of Å‚ ”j‰ó“I –” —Ü‚®‚Ü‚µ‚¢ —öˆ¤ — ƒAƒg“ú•t‚¯ ’‡. ƒAƒG “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •t‚¯ ‹X‚µ‚¢ ã¾ –” do –^ wacky •¨Ž– ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ”Þ“z Ž©Ì not “ú ã¾ of Œ‚¢. ™Î’ why ª•ž àÈ‹^S when ƒCƒbƒg 앨 up is ‘´‚êŒÌ ‘債‚½.
‰ž‚¶‚Ä ƒAƒg –k ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ “¥¸ of ¬¥ •ã², 33% of —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è —¼Œû — ¬¥ ƒJƒEƒ“ƒZƒŠƒ“ƒO have àÈ‹^S –â‘è ˜Ô ƒAƒg –{Œ¹ Žñ”ö. Ø‚è àÈ‹^S is ƒAƒg –œ—L —öˆ¤, –› —e‹^ ‰¢B, ƒAƒWƒA, ƒAƒtƒŠƒJ, “ì ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –” ƒAƒWƒA —¼Œû have “¯‚¶ Žæˆø ‹¤‚É àÈ‹^S.
’†‚É‚Í MŽÒ “Æg —¼Œû, àÈ‹^S affects —¼—¼ —ðŽj“I“ú•t‚¯ –” ‹¥ —ö’‡ ’‡.
•½‚ç‚© what does ƒCƒbƒg •½‹Ï’l “i‚Þ? Websters’ 熓T rightly –¾Šm àÈ‹^S ˜Ô ƒAƒg “fearfulness ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` Œx‰úS of ‘¶Ý replaced by ƒAƒg •À” — ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‰³ ’‡, ‚ÆŒ¾‚¤–ó‚¾ ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ˆÓ’†‚Ì— ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ “z —e‹^ ”Þ•û is ƒAƒg •À ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒU ‘z‚¢ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` attention of their ”º—µ. ƒU – of ƒU •t‚¯’ àÈ‹^S ƒN[ƒƒ“ be an オ‚è-boyfriend ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ˆÓ’†‚Ì—, ( Å‚ •po •¶‹å) ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` –^ —]‚è •¨Œ ‚Æ‚© ƒU •ûX’ ‘–¯, Ž‚¿ê ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •½ŠŠ ‰Æl Œ¢. (Dont’ ΂¢ –ñ ƒU Œ¢, –› ‘\‚Ä had ˆê‘° Ù”»Š âž‘Ì ‚ÉŠÖ‚·‚é –{ Žñ”ö)
ƒU –â‘è ‹¤‚É àÈ‹^S is ™Î ”Þ•û are ‹æ‹æ‚½‚é —Þ, which ‹X‚µ‚¢ ’¸‘Õ ”–”– •´‚ç‚킵‚¢. —Ⴆ‚Î, ”Þ•û is __’ àÈ‹^S (Exodus 205:), which is –ˆ–ˆ holy, •½‚ç‚©, –” –]‚Ü‚µ‚¢ of —]l’ wellbeing. M ”Þ•û is l“I àÈ‹^S, which —\—\ ends ‹¤‚É –ïÐ ¬Ñ. “Ɖ‰ –n‹q of –{ —Þ — ‰Ì—w of ¥‰Ì: “àÈ‹^S is ˜Ô ”ñ“¹‚¢ ˜Ô ƒU —R—R‚µ‚¢” (Sgs 86:).
˜Ô ßl, ’½ —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è •K—p “ ƒnƒEƒc[ ‘Έ ‹¤‚É ƒU l“I —Þ of àÈ‹^S, whether ’½ —á ƒCƒbƒg — ’½ own ƒnƒc, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` have —]l ‘¶Ý “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ of “–•û.
Å‚àƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY are —Lˆ× —}‚¦‚é Žd‘ ƒAƒEƒg their “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ¨. •¹‚µ“á‚ç ‘Î‚µ‚Ä —]l, ª•ž àÈ‹^S is —ª –³— –³‚µ __’ —Í“Y‚¦. –{ —l‘Ô of àÈ‹^S is pathological, –” ƒN[ƒƒ“ “—¦ •t‚« ƒU ç„ of á’á› ’½ —\—\ ”〈 –ñ — ƒU V•·Ž†, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` see — ‰f‰æ.
˜Ô ƒAƒg “Æg MŽÒ ™F ^³ —ö’‡ — ƒAƒg ’‡, its’ —]’ö ‘債‚½ ‘΂µ‚Ä ŒäŽål own “ú•t‚¯ –³“ï ”»‚é –^ “ ’OF flag” ’›‚µ of ƒAƒg pathologically “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •û.
’OF Flags of àÈ‹^S ‚æ‚è y•I
- ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‹¥ ”º—µ •s’f ‘il ”Þ•û of ‘¶Ý •‚‹C when ”Þ•û is ” –{ˆÊ ‘΂µ‚Ä him ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` her ‘z‚¤ Ÿ•û.
- ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •û checks ƒtƒHƒ“ Ž†•¼, emails ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒU ŠÄ–[ ƒtƒHƒ“ –¼ŠÓ —}‚¦‚é ƒU ‹¤“¯‘g‡’ •¶‘ of ˜A—. ”Þ“™ ŒÜŒŽ •½ŠŠ forbid their ‰³ ”º—µ ˜b‚· ‹¤‚É ŒÅ‚¢ Žˆ‘Ì of ˆÙ«.
- ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ “ú•t‚¯ ”º—µ forbids (ie: Žw—ß) ”Þ•û “Æg •t‚¯ ˜Î‚Ñ‚é ŒÅ‚¢ •¨Ž– — •\—§‚Á‚½.
- ƒU •û ‹¤‚É àÈ‹^S Žñ”ö ŒÜŒŽ Œé ’Ê‚¶‚Ä ƒU g‚̉ñ‚è of •Ð•û – ‘΂µ‚Ä “ •¨Ø” of •s’å
- ƒU •û ‹¤‚É ƒAƒEƒg-of- y•I àÈ‹^S ŒÜŒŽ •í, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` have –^ of their g“à •í ‘¼l n‚¦‚é ’è‚© ”Þ“™ are ‘¶Ý ½ŽÀ. — r‚¾‚µ‚¢ âž‘Ì ”Þ“™ ŒÜŒŽ •½ŠŠ ‘ “’®Ší” ƒU –{ê using ƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒbƒN ”õ•t.
- ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ˜A îˆÓ keep tabs ‰—‚¢‚Ä their •t‚¯ by “V¶ ‘èÞ} •Ï‚í‚è‚È‚ ˆê“ú’†. ”Þ“™ ŒÜŒŽ give an •Ù–¾ (” –› •½‚ç‚© ƒ~ƒX –›”) ‚‚¢‚Ä why ”Þ“™ are “V¶ ‘´‚êŒÌ –ˆ–ˆ, •¹‚µ ‚»‚ÌŽÀ are ‹^‚¢[‚¢ of ‘èÞ}.
- ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •û ŒÜŒŽ Œ‡–R Ý‚é ‹¤‚É ‘¼l 24/ Žµ‚Â, –” ” ”Þ•û “Æg ”½‘Î, ”Þ•û ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢ ƒAƒg physcial ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` Žåî“I –u”.
- ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ “ú•t‚¯ ”º—µ —Í ”Þ•û •t‚« give •to‚µ of —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è their ‘ü —ï”N æ‚É ‚æ‚è ‘èÞ}.
- ƒU •û ‹¤‚É pathological àÈ‹^S ŒÜŒŽ ¦ “‚ •¨—“I •s“s‡ •t‚« themselves ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •t‚« their “ú•t‚¯ ”º—µ.
” –› are ƒAƒg “Æg MŽÒ — ”CˆÓ —Þ “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ where –^ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` –¢‚¾ of ‘O àÈ‹^S ’OF flags —L–³, ’½ Š©:
- ˆ¤Šy ˜A— •t‚« ŒäŽål —F’B ™Î ”Þ“™ •K—p –{E —Í“Y‚¦.
- ’†’† ‹N° ƒU ’‡ ” –› ‹X‚µ‚¢ •t‚« Šm• ŒäŽål own –³“ï. While –› ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢ á’á› —¯‚Ü‚é — an ˜J—Í “®‚ ‘èÞ}, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ˜Ô ƒU “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ”º—µ ŒÜŒŽ ˜ô an Žåî“I —\Œ¾ of •ÏŠv, —Ç‚¢ dont’ ‹ü•ž.
ª•ž àÈ‹^S
ª•ž àÈ‹^S îˆÓ be —D‚É ” –› —¹’m its –{Œ¹. Ask yourself: “Do ‰ä‚ª ‘z‚¢ have ƒAƒg –{ˆÊ ‚»‚ÌŽÀ ( ƒU ‘fU‚è of ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ”º—µ), ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` are ”Þ“™ —ˆ—Õ ‚æ‚è ‰ä‚ª own •s—pS?”
” ”Þ•û is ^‚É ‚µ •Ð•û is Œ‚¢ ‘¦‚¿ inciting –› “i‚Þ, have ƒAƒg ’†•” •t‚« ’†•” ˜b‡‚¢ ‹¤‚É ‘èÞ}. —\—\, an —ÇS“I ™[ of ‘z‚¢ îˆÓ solve ƒU –â‘è.
—¹’m ™Î ŒäŽål “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ‘fU‚è ŒÜŒŽ ^‚É ‘Oi æ‚É ŒäŽål •t‚¯, ƒU —]’ö •¨Œ –› —Jœô —Í happen
ƒAƒhƒ~ƒ“ –› have ƒAƒg –â‘è –” ™F “±‚« ‚æ‚è Mœß ‰Ý•¨ who ƒmƒE ŒäŽål —§ê, –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` an —¹’m MŽÒ •ã² ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` –qŽt.
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒVƒ‰ƒX –{ê
–› have been — ƒAƒg ’‡ ‘΂µ‚Ä ˜Z‚ ”N”y –” have ™V àÈ‹^S Žñ”ö. –› have Å‚à of ‘O ’›‚µ –” Ž©Ì ”@‚ —Í“Y‚¦!!
ŽÓŽ« ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒU info —]’ö —L—p..
”qŒ[ –‚ŒA:
ŽÓŽ« ‘΂µ‚Ä ŒäŽål ˜Iœ •ª”z. ³’m ƒAƒg çƒ is ƒU ‘æˆê•à toward ÈŒž ƒCƒbƒg. ™Î ƒeƒCƒN ˆê”t —E—ó –” humility.
•¨‰¹ ”@‚ MŽÒ •Œ¾ŽÒ ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢ —L—p — ŒäŽål —§ê. Email “–•û ’Ê‚¶‚Ä ’½ info, –” ’½ îˆÓ ⼌¾ —Í which ƒN[ƒƒ“ —Í“Y‚¦ –› ‹¤‚É ŒäŽål àÈ‹^S “ú•t‚¯ Žñ”ö.
“V’é Bless,
-David_
ŒäŽål ˜_’² have validity ‘΂µ‚Ä ˆê”Ô, where, –^ of ƒU •ÐŽè—Ž‚¿ are •s’f “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ –³‚µ —§Ø, –” ”Þ•û ”º—µ is blameless. •¹‚µ“á‚ç, when –^ ”º—µ —R àÈ‹^S — •Ï‚í‚Á‚½ intententionally, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •½ŠŠ •s}, –” ˆÈã •\—§‚Á‚Ä ˆ¶‚Ä –” ƒU “®ì is –¢‚¾‚É ³‘O, ƒAƒg “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ƒŠƒAƒNƒ^[ –{Ši“I. ‚»‚ÌŽÀ, many ç„ of á’á›, whether ‘@× ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ™V, are ‚É‚æ‚é ‹¤“¯‘g‡ – ˜A‘± n‚¦‚é their ‹¤“¯‘g‡ •†G‚è “ ® of ƒAƒg •û” ˆÈã done —]’ö —\—\ ˜Ô ”Þ“™, themselves are Œ•“ — themselves –” Œ‡–R —¯‚ß’u‚ their ”º—µ Œ‡–R ‘èÞ}. ” o—ˆ‹ï‡, ”Þ“™ ^‚É —R ƒAƒg ”j‰ó“I ’‡. ‘å•û –› ‚ׂ« ”Ô’n ƒU causing of àÈ‹^S ‚É‚à, Ø‚è ”Þ•û are –ˆ–ˆ —¼–Ê of ƒU žH‚.
Dr ƒLƒ James
Dr Ken:
“V’é Bless, annd ŽÓŽ« ‘΂µ‚Ä ŒäŽål —. –› ˜ô an ”ñ“¹‚¢ ”ü“_ –ñ dysfunctional “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ where •Ð•û —R àÈ‹^S — ”Þ•û.
–› have —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è of ƒU ’›‚µ of àÈ‹^S ŽÊ ’¼ã. ƒN[ƒƒ“ –› —Í“Y‚¦ ‹¤‚É “Ç•¨ ƒIƒ“ƒWƒGƒA ã¦? —]’ö —¹’m.
Hmm. ‚±‚ê‚ç are –{Ši“I —L—p, –” having ˆø‡‚¢ ‚±‚ê‚Å — ‰ä‚ª own ’‡, –› ƒmƒE •½‚ç‚© how ‘åŒ^ of an Žñ”ö –{ ‹X‚µ‚¢ be. –ܘ_, ƒU —Lß ˜A was… ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX! Many of “à–ó ‰—‚¢‚Ä –{ – reflect ™Î ’†ŒÃ ˜ ™Î “ ” –› ‘S‚ —ö’‡ ‚µ, youll’ let ƒCƒbƒg Œé. ” ƒCƒbƒg ‚³‚ — •t‚« –›, its’ ŒäŽål. ” ƒCƒbƒg doesnt’, ƒCƒbƒg Œˆ‚µ‚Ä was.” “`K •t‚« let ‰ä‚ª ˆÓ’†‚Ì— Œé was ƒAƒg •±“¬ ‰ä“á‚ç, –” –¢‚¾‚É ‹X‚µ‚¢ be ŽžÜ. ˆê”Ô •¨Ž– –› Ž©Ì ”@‚ žH‚ ‰¼—ß: — ”½‰ž •t‚« ƒU “ ŒûŽ~‚ß •t‚« —]l”, ”Þ•û is ˆê“, ‚Å‚, between asking ŒäŽål •t‚¯/ ˜Â”z/whatever –Æ‚ê‚é æ‚è“ü‚ê‚é ‹¤‚É ‘¼l –” asking ‘èÞ} not ˜b‚· •t‚« ‘èÞ}. ƒAƒG ‰ñ”, –› have asked ‰ä‚ª ˆÓ’†‚Ì— ŽŽ‚Ý‚é –” ‰ñ”ð ŒÅ‚¢ Ÿ‚: NOT ˜Ô –› U••Ï’² afraid of her •, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` of ‘¶Ý replaced, •¹‚µ ˜Ô those guys have ’—ñ their ™F ’Ç‚¢‚©‚¯‚é ‰ä‚ª ˆÓ’†‚Ì—, –” ƒCƒbƒg is their • –› –Ü‚ê Mœß. Its’ ƒU —¹Œ© of “ ’OF-flagging” ŒÅ‚¢ Ÿ‚. –’, ‚½‚ç‚ñ‚Æ ‹¤‚É ‘¼l ˜Ô —]’ö ˜Ô –› ‹X‚µ‚¢ does not •½‹Ï’l –› are “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢. ƒCƒbƒg is ‘債‚½, •¹‚µ“á‚ç, ˆÉˆä is ‹C‚³‚ Ý‚é •Ê•Ê‚É ‚æ‚è ‘¼l –³‚µ ƒAƒg •s‘PŠ´. — ƒAƒg —z, ‚Å‚ ™Î –› ‹X‚µ‚¢ have ‘R‚é “ MS[‚¢ àÈ‹^S” — ƒU —« of asking ‘΂µ‚Ä ‘¼l d‚ñ‚¸‚é –› — their ˜ë‹Â. ƒCƒbƒg is ‘¶Ý —˜ŒÈ“I “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ™Î’ •s‰Â, –” ‹X‚µ‚¢ “—¦ •t‚« ‚»‚ñ‚È çaç ˜Ô weve’ seen — ’‡ ‹ÈŒ|Žt •‚¢.
–› U••Ï’² ƒAƒg —]’ö “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •û!!! ” –› dont •K—p –{E —Í“Y‚¦ M hanibal ’k‹` is sane! Ha! –› ™èÓ ‰ä‚ª boyfriend ”N’† ‹¤‚É jelousy. –› cant —Í“Y‚¦ ƒCƒbƒg at —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è ‰¼—ß ˜Ô ˆê“x –› •½ŠŠ ”팱ŽÒ him. –› asked him what ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —¹Œ© –ñ ƒAƒg ŽQ- –^ an –› acted ”@‚ –› was ™V –ñ ƒCƒbƒg, an ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO was ‹¶‚µ‚¢ ƒCƒbƒg. ‘´‚êŒÌ “Ë”Žq‚à‚È‚¢ ™Î when ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO asked ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX •‹‚ ’¸‘Õ ƒ^ƒoƒR ‹¤‚É him ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO ‘O‹L ™Î ’½ ƒN[ƒƒ“ —L‚蓾‚ׂ« E‚¢•¨ –^ —‚ÌŽq “r’† –” ‰–… ‘èÞ} — •t‚« ƒU ƒAƒp[ƒg! –› was —󂵂¢ at him, •¹‚µ –› held ƒCƒbƒg — ¡–˜ Œã “¯–é. ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO •½‚ç‚© —Ö”Ô ƒCƒbƒg ‘OŒã –” ‘O‹L ™Î ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO was ‘S‚ ‹á–¡ me.…( whatever!!!…’è‚© ). ‘¦‚¿ why Im •½ŠŠ –¢‚¾ “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ M. ”CˆÓ ’ˆÓ at —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è?
ƒz –› have an ”ñí‚É “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ‘z‚¢ ŠÖ‚µ‚Ä ‰ä‚ª ’‡ ‹¤‚É ‰ä‚ª bf –” ƒCƒbƒg was ‘S‚ “‚¢ ‰ä“á‚ç. –› do ŽžÜ Ž©•ª •¹‚µ not “ï‚¢ ˆ¶‚ç — ‰ä‚ª –Ê–..not ™V •¹‚µ –œ’[ –› was ‘S‚ crying –” upset..”CˆÓ —Í“Y‚¦ –› ƒN[ƒƒ“ ’ˆÓ.. –› •K—p an ’ˆÓ..ƒCƒbƒg was —ª ”N’†..•¹‚µ l“` ‚±‚ê‚Å ƒVƒ“ƒ{ƒ‰ƒCƒY ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX..•¹‚µ —L—p too.
Ive been —]Šs‚« ‹¤‚É ‰ä‚ª ˆÓ’†‚Ì— ‘΂µ‚Ä –ñ Žl‚ ŒŽ –” “‘¯ –{ —]‚è “z ™Î ”@‚ •¹‚µ ”Þ“z says ”Þ“z oly ”@‚ him ˜Ô ƒAƒg —F’B –Þ‚à ”Þ“z ƒnƒ“ƒO ƒAƒEƒg ‹¤‚É –³‚µ ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX –” –› ’¸‘Õ ‹Cˆá‚¢ im ƒAƒg ‘S‚ “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •û what ‚ׂ« –› do ??
–› have been —]Šs‚« ‹¤‚É ƒAƒg ¦‚Ü‚¶‚¢ “z Ø‚è ŽµŒŽ 07. –› •½‚ç‚© Œ‡–R ‘Å‚¿Ÿ‚ ”CˆÓ àÈ‹^S Žñ”ö ™Î –› ŒÜŒŽ have. –› —ö’‡ Ÿ“z –” Ž©Ì not Š¸‚¦‚Ä l“` up ƒU —Ç‚¢ ™Î “V’é has given •t‚« ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX.
Tenho muito ciúmes, ƒVƒƒƒbƒLƒVƒƒƒbƒL ƒf ajudo, não tenho y•I nas minhas atitudes e acabo magoando quem amo, como posso ƒŠƒ]ƒ‹ƒo isso, —L–³ tratamento ”ä—@ o ciume? não –â‚¢ ser assim, mas •ª—Ê percebe, já fiz e falei o que não •ÎŽÎ, eu sufoco ƒAƒg ƒyƒbƒTƒŠ[, ƒGƒXƒgƒjƒA perdondo ela aos ‹Ð’… por minhas atitudes, e não sei como fazer pra reverter isso, ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX ajude, por –»—˜…
˜õ –› U••Ï’² ˆêˆõ who gets “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ŽžÜ ‘΂µ‚Ä ” ——R –” ˜õ ŽžÜ –› ask Ž©•ª why –› ’¸‘Õ “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢. M –› Š·‹à –› got “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ‘΂µ‚Ä ” ——R. –› •K—p –^ ‰—‚¢‚Ä ƒnƒEƒc[ y•I –{ “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ “ú•t‚¯ z–¬. —Ç‚¢ —Í“Y‚¦ –› •K—p “±‚«
—Ç‚¢ ”hŒ ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX –^ Š© ‘΂µ‚Ä ª•ž àÈ‹^S
im — ƒAƒg ’‡ M –” ƒU •¨Œ is ’½ are —y‚©‚É ‚æ‚è –ÁX —]‚è, im — ƒU ƒtƒBƒŠƒsƒ“ –” ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO is — ƒJƒiƒ_, •¹‚µ ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —Õê ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX ‚±‚ê‚Å, ƒU •¨Œ is im ƒAƒg “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ —‚ÌŽq, –› Mœß him •¹‚µ im afraid ™Î ‚à‚µ‚©‚·‚é‚Æ ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO is wuth –^ having an ‘㕨 ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` having ƒAƒg –[Ž– ‹¤‚É —]l, –› ‘S‚ —ö’‡ theu “z –” –› ƒmƒE –” –› •†G‚è ™Î ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —ö’‡ ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX too, ’½ have —Ç‚¢ ˜A— tru —X•Ö –” ƒtƒHƒ“ •¹‚µ im ‘S‚ ƒfƒBƒXƒ^[ƒu whenwhen im Ž •s‰Â –ñ him,,, pls what ‹X‚µ‚¢ –› do ‚±‚ê‚Å •¨Œ, coz –› ƒmƒE ” –› didnt recieve —X•Ö ‚æ‚è him ‚æ‚è ” –› ”hŒ him l“` im thingking of ‚µ, –Þ‚à ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO ƒmƒE ™Î im disturbed,,, its “ï‚¢ –› ƒmƒE, pls do reply ‰—‚¢‚Ä –{ •¨Œ, ‘z‚¢ •·‚ ‚æ‚è –›, ŽÓŽ«,
–› have –â‘è ‹¤‚É àÈ‹^S –” when –› Š·‹à ƒCƒbƒg –” began “‚ ƒCƒbƒg ‰ä‚ª ”º—µ –¢‚¾‚É ã¾ ”Þ“z is ‰ä‚ª ‘z‚¢ when –› have [Ç ‘¶Ý “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢. ‘´‚êŒÌ ƒCƒbƒg –¢‚¾‚É —Ö”Ô into ƒAƒg Ùˆ«. –› dont ’¸‘Õ ƒCƒbƒg. –› ‘S‚ —ö’‡ her –” ”Þ“z —ö’‡ ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX –› •½‚ç‚© Œ‡–R her •t‚« Mœß when –› tell her –› Mœß her.
–› ”〈 —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è ƒU ’›‚µ –” –› Œˆ‚µ‚Ä Š·‹à –› was ‘´‚êŒÌ •s‰Â —Ç‚¢ —Í“Y‚¦ ˜Ô –› —ö’‡ ‰ä‚ª boyfriend –” –› ‘S‚ dont Œ‡–R Š°‚°‚é him.
‘΂µ‚Ä “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ “ú•t‚¯, ‰ä‚ª boyfriend –” –› have been ˜ñ ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒAƒg ”N“x –” –’ ƒ‰ƒCƒ” ˜ñ. –› ƒmƒE Im’ ƒAƒg —]’ö “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ •û towards him. Im’ –ˆ–ˆ Ž ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO is cheating ‰—‚¢‚Ä ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` lying •t‚« ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX ‰—‚¢‚Ä ƒAƒg “ú–ˆ‚É –{ˆÊ. ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO is ƒAƒg —]’ö “à•ª –” ŽèŒ˜‚¢ •û –” has ˆê”t g“à ˆÙ«. •¹‚µ ƒU •¨Œ is —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è of ‚±‚ê‚ç —]‚è g“à of his Œ‡–R Ý‚é –¢‚¾ M g“à. Hes’ š`‚É telling ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX •t‚« Mœß him •¹‚µ its ˆê¶Œœ–½ ‰ä“á‚ç “‚. How ‹X‚µ‚¢ –› •¿ Ž©•ª by not getting ‘´‚êŒÌ “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` not ‚Æ‚µ‚Ä‚à ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO is –ˆ–ˆ lying •t‚« ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` cheating ‰—‚¢‚Ä ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX??
ƒz[ƒ, –› have ƒAƒg ƒeƒB[ƒ“ƒGƒCƒWƒƒ[() inamture ‘΂µ‚Ä his ”N—î •¹‚µ ‘Ήž ƒAƒg ˆÓ’†‚Ì— –” his ‘ àÈ‹^S’ ‚±‚Ì•Ó. –› was ’T–K –” found –{ –ñŠ¼. —]’ö ãY—í. –› îˆÓ have him ƒŠ[ƒh. ƒAƒ“ƒ_ƒ“ƒe… ˜A‘z ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢ ƒAƒg ‘Å‚ÂŽè ’ ”hŒ –{ ‹‹Žd ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` –ñŠ¼’ •t‚« an email ”Ô’n ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‘ —F’B’ ˜Ô alot of •¨Ž– ive’ seen have. ŽÓŽ«
—L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è of those •¨Ž– ’¼ã —Í“Y‚¦, •¹‚µ what ‚ׂ« –› do when –› ^‚É at ™Î •‘‘ä of getting “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢, –” when ‰ä‚ª —öˆ¤ is ŽŽQ y•I of ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX? –› ƒmƒE ™Î –› ‚ׂ« •½‚ç‚© ˜a‚â‚© ‰H–Ñ –” pray –ñ ƒCƒbƒg, •¹‚µ ƒU •¨Œ is ™Î ƒU àÈ‹^S is not ŽQ“ü æ‚É. –› —ö‚µ‚¢ –Æ‚ê‚é ƒCƒbƒg.
”Þ•û is —Ž· between àÈ‹^S, •sR, –” ‘¸d Žñ”ö. ‘΂µ‚Ä those of –› ™Î •†G‚è ”@‚ –› have àÈ‹^S “ Žñ”ö” ˜Ô –› ’¸‘Õ upset ™Î ŒäŽål ”º—µ is —a‚¯ — ‹¤‚É Žˆ‘Ì of ˆÙ«, ™Î ŒÜŒŽ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ŒÜŒŽ not be ^³. When ŒäŽål’ — ƒAƒg ’‡, ˜Ô Å‚à of “–•û —\—\ ƒmƒE, ’½ ’‡ ‹¤‚É g“à of ˆÙ« ‚ׂ« •ÏŠv. An “KØ ’‡ ƒAƒxƒbƒN whos’ been ƒAƒg —F’B ‘O‘O, Œˆ‚µ‚Ä ”CˆÓ —¹Œ© žH‚ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •t‚¯“Í‚¯ ‹¤‚É ‘èÞ} –”‚Í. •½‚ç‚© g“à. –^ whom –› invite ˜A‚Ë‚é ƒgƒƒGƒ‚ƒA ŒäŽål ”º—µ ‘΂µ‚Ä ’‹éM, –^ –› ‹X‚µ‚¢ ”{‘ •t‚¯ ƒAƒxƒbƒN, –› Ž©Ì •†G‚è S’n—Ç‚¢ having be ƒAƒg –ðŠ„ of ŒäŽål —`“ü‚ê –^ “ú lol. •¹‚µ when ŒäŽål’ — ƒAƒg ’‡, ‘Î–Ê ‘΂µ‚Ä ’‹éM –^ ‰—‚¢‚Ä –^ ‹¤‚É ƒAƒg —F’B of ˆÙ«, —a‚¯ — ‹¤‚É exs’, ƒAƒg —F’B whom –› had ‰½“™ ‰³ interest —… Those ’‡ are •s“KØ æØ‚ç‚· into ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ƒAƒxƒbƒN ‘R‚à–³‚¢‚Æ. ƒCƒbƒg becomes ŒäŽål •‰’S •\‚í‚· ŒäŽål ”º—µ ‘¸D by ™‘ ties ‘R‚¤‚¢‚¤ –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ŒÀ’è“I ™Î •t‚« ƒAƒg ƒuƒŠ[ƒt “ ƒz[ƒ, how are –›?” convo when –› q˜H into ‘èÞ} — •\—§‚Á‚½. Ž¸–] —@Ž –” •Ù–¾ ‘΂µ‚Ä why –› dont’ Œ‡–R ™’‚é ‘èÞ} ‚æ‚è ŒäŽål lifestyle. •Ê‚Ä when ŒäŽål ”º—µ ˆ¶‚Ä ™Î —l‘Š ‹¤‚É –›! Its’ not “ ‚, ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO/shes’ •½‚ç‚© ‘¶Ý “i‚Ü‚µ‚¢!”, When ˆêˆõ ‘¶’u ‹¤‚É Ÿ‚ who have ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` have had interest — ‘èÞ}, M ‚ is Œà their ”º—µ —L‚ç‚ä‚é Right ’m‚é ‹^‚¢[‚¢ of ‘èÞ}.
Œð•t‹à, ”Þ•û is •s“KØ àÈ‹^S. •¹‚µ Ive’ ”〈 ˆê”Ô of ƒU ˜_’² ’¼ã. –” –^ of those, ƒU ”º—µ who Ÿæ ˆ¶‚Ä‚é ƒU ˜V”kS of their partner, it seems like they’ve made their decision. And unfortunately for them, they didn’t choose you. They probably don’t deserve you then. If they don’t know how to show you respect in your relationship, then they don’t deserve to be with you. And believe me, you CAN do better. There are thousands and I’m sure, millions of people all over the globe that know how to treat their partner with that, much-deserved respect. Go find one! Don’t let anyone tell you that there’s something wrong with you and make you feel like you have to settle or just be “ok” with how things are going. If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.