Comments on: Pathological Liars: Are You Dating a Liar?

By: Marilyn

Marilyn — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 13:40:32 +0000

In regard to pathological liars, the first meeting there was a connection, a lot of chemistry, with this man i did notice his eyes would constantly move from side to side when he spoke to me and he has shaky hands, it sorta made me back off, i thought maybe drugs/alcohol addiction. He was constantly working on my heart, constant texts, emails, phone calls, he worked on me for 3 mths until finally he got me hooked, even took me to a jewelry store wanting to buy me a ring, he wanted to leave his wife and marry me..i should have listened to the red flags in the beginning. , I am still wondering how someone could do this to me and how stupid could i have been..I almost contacted his wife, but decided it was not worth it. This man even got my family involved had lunch with my son, told my Daughter in law how much he loved me and would be in the family soon. This man is 53 yrs old and I am 58 yrs old. I still am hurting. My heart would not survive another relationship and I won’t trust anymore.

By: Amy

Amy — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 11:48:40 +0000

I lost my kids because I beleived a narcissist liar. I can’t beleive I just spent 3 years being the victim of a narcissist at such a great cost.I hope my kids will forgive me. I am so sorry.

By: Tommy

Tommy — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 17:18:21 +0000

i was engaged to pathological liar. i dated this girl for almost 2yrs and engaged for last 6 months. she made me feel like so special. but time to time i know something wasn’t right. she was lying about a lil things. and always worrying about me, when i was at work. keep calling me everyday 5 or 6 times day. after we moved in together she called me, if i was 5 min. late coming home. she is all mad and said “what are you doing why you are not home yet”. soon as i got home she is just fine and said “i’m sorry that i got mad at you. i just missed you so much”. i knew something wasn’t right, but she made me think that she really love me. i send her to school and even paid her daughter’s daycare so that she could go to school. i did everything for her. so that we could have good life together after she finsh school. about 2 weeks before she was done with her school. she moved out on me. when i was at work. and about two weeks after she moved out, she called my friend and said she just got married. i don’t understand why she have to call my friend. she got married to a guy that going to iraq with in month or so. and her ex husband called me up few days after that and said she told him that i was abusing her and her daughter and she just moved out so he doesn’t have to worry no more, because she is with someone that wonderful to her and her daughter. he said he know she is lying and she told everybody about he was abuive husband, too. so i don’t have to worry about it. he told me thanks for raising his daughter, she was doing good when i was in her life. and he also said she is been married twice before she met me. witch i didn’t know about. 2nd guy was in army, too and she married him right before he went iraq and when he got back she was gone. i don’t know how some people could live life like that. now i know who she really is but its still hard to let it go. just keep thinking about good memories that i had been with her.

By: Leena

Leena — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:39:16 +0000

Sorry it ain’t that easy!I became married 23yrs ago to a pathologicla liar.I just discover his true colors after 23years!!!!!!He can llok me STRAIGHT in the face and not flinch.His parents were worship leaders.they also lerd a Bible study and I meant him through there…

Here is my wisdon so HEED IT ladies!!! The Holy Spirit was tellling me “NO!!!” ButI just thought it was gear and I didn’t want to be like my non commital brother…
Now my little boy is starting tyo lie[age 10]….

the good news is I htink my husband can change.I have had Crhitian proffesionals tell me he can..but he has to get honest.Please pray for him.I cannot reveal his name in here of course.

He is doing pyscological abuse to me which I consider worswe than a fist on my face because it makes you doubt your sanity.

thank you for your prayers if anyone is listening..

By: mi

mi — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:21:54 +0000

Well i dated a pathological liar for 8 years…only caught him now… and he is Christian…my heart is constantly breaking… it was a break up I was not prepared for but had to do for my own sanity. Kindly lift me up in prayer, as there are days that i am just without hope.

By: Tish

Tish — Sat, 31 May 2008 01:09:50 +0000

In regard to Pathological Liars, I feel so stuck, I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years and we have 2 kids together, he has been lying to me ever since we got together andI never know what to believe from him. He recently lied to me and I am so fedup, but I love him so much. I feel stuck and I dont know what to do. I know he is a good person, he has had a lying problem since a child and he openly admits it, please help.

By: Msimprove

Msimprove — Thu, 01 May 2008 10:59:21 +0000

Hello! Reaging pathological liars, I’m training to be a psychologist. Must people lies from time to time. Alot of time people know the truth, and because lying have become such a habit people find themselves lying regular and alot of time the lying becomes out of control. Then what?It destroys you,eventually as a person, and alot of times it Hurts the people thats close to you(Your Heart). For all the people who really looked deeply in themselves and realize that Lying is a big issue in your life and you want to get help. That is a great step, the number one thing is you must admit and come to realization that hey I am hurting myself more and I am destroying myself and others. There is help and you can change that part about yourself if you really want to, its hard work but you can do it.

By: grace

grace — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 20:19:00 +0000

I think I might have just dodged a CANNONBALL (ie, relationship with a pathological liar.)

Thank you for this site!

By: candice

candice — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 00:07:50 +0000

i need help i have lied to everyone.

By: Gary Wills

Gary Wills — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 09:26:37 +0000

I have cheated lied backstabbed everybody around me and I need help.

By: m. christos

m. christos — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 21:44:50 +0000

For all those ever involved with a pathological liar, I know and I understand.
I was married to a pathological liar and did not know it for 10 years. He had the worst temper and used it to deflect what he was really doing. I was just a cover, a front because he is so into the depths of hell and depravity that I was totally shocked and disgusted. When you hear of women married to serial killers, you wonder, how come they didn’t know. Of course, now I can understand so completely. Pathological liars will stop at nothing to get their way. It is totally all about them and they do it by manipulating others into feeling sorry for them and by any other means they can. They will throw out so many stories, until one sticks and catches their prey. Predator is a more exact description of these dregs of society.

When we were getting divorced , he even lied about where I worked. It was insane as of course that is so easily provable. The point is , pathological liars are only out for themselves, they are narcissists. They have lied and conned people for so long, they feel they can say anything and people will believe them because they have been getting away with their lies for years. Do be careful because pathological liars have no moral compass. They love getting over on people, especially people who do have moral values and are trustworthy. And remember, Our Father, will take care of pathological liars and will restore the years the locusts have eaten.

Revenge is mine. I shall repayeth, saith the Lord.
Let God be God and handle them. He knows exactly what is a fitting and perfect justice.

Thank God our eyes were open.
The truth is painful at times but it sets us free not to live in captivity anymore.

There are good men out there as not all are pathological liars!
Trust in God.

By: Harold Mosher

Harold Mosher — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 06:12:01 +0000

help me i lie so bad

By: Kharesea Beckworth

Kharesea Beckworth — Thu, 06 Dec 2007 21:21:14 +0000

I dated a man that was a huge liar he lied to me about his whole life. I welcomed him into my home and into my family he just doesn’t know the damage that he has did.

By: jacob

jacob — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 17:33:02 +0000

well forgive if this post is a little odd. as i am typing it off my phone.

Why do women feel like they can tell you all of there problems and can be critical of your actions. but when you are honest with them in return is a big deal? Anyone hear the song called “policy of truth”? Why do women treat me like crap?

By: jacob

jacob — Sun, 18 Nov 2007 14:48:45 +0000

jacob, do yourself a favor and live an honest life if a girl doesn’t want you because you have had emotional trouble you don’t want her. Everyone if they are willing top admoit has had emotional trouble and has not told the truth about something we are human we all fall short. but know that a relationship that starts with a lie will always lead to devastation on both parts. i myself have also lied on occasion to people about my husband or my past. my husband is a path liar and it embarasses me so sometimes i chose to believe his lies so i don’t have to deal with it and that is also lying. i have noticed my children do it sometimes too and i want to stop the cycle it is so hard because they love him. he causes me pain now just to be in the same room with him I am a christian but i have very hard time forgiving especially when i know ther is no way this will end only that i continue to act in a way that supports his lies and causes me to abandon what i know to be right. oh whwat a tangeled web we weave when we attempt to decieve. the truth is you cannot decieve the soul.