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1. Tiffany : 蒂凡尼 ：
   

   If only I would have read this post 3 months ago.如果只有我看过这个职位的3个月前。 Well 3 months ago I thought I had met the guy of my dreams.以及3个月前，我想我已会见了家伙，我的梦想。 He was handsome, nice,fun and and so on.他英俊，尼斯，乐趣和等。 The first time we talked we clicked ,so there was a second date then a third.我们第一次在谈到我们点击，所以是第二个日期，然后第三。 It developed into a realtionship.它发展成为一个realtionship 。 I thought everything was ok.我以为一切都确定。 But to my surprise on Aug 17, 2006 I recieved a text message reply saying surprise this is his wife….I had a feeling he was lying so me and my mom went to the house and there was his wife and we talked.但我惊讶于2006年8月17日我收到了短信答复说惊喜，这是他的妻子… … 。我有一个感觉，他是在说谎，所以我和我妈妈到众议院和有他的妻子和我们交谈。 There\’s so much to this story but that doesn\’t even matter because the whole relationship was a lie, thank God I governed myself accordlingy, and followed God commands that christians should do when dating.有\奇摩那么这个故事，但不\ '吨，甚至事，因为整个关系是一个谎言，感谢上帝i的管治自己accordlingy ，其次是上帝的命令，基督徒应该做的，当约会。

   I learned that when pathological liars get caught up in their lies they will do anything to cover their self even if it\\\’s to hurt someone they supposely care about.我知道，当病态说谎者得到结果却被挡在了他们的谎言，他们会做任何事情，以支付他们的自我，即使\ \ \ ' s的伤害，有人，他们supposely关心。 So Christian be careful with this.因此，基督教小心与此有关。 I\\\’ve learn you can\\\’t give your heart to everyone/ Ask God to show you things and if you ever find yourself questioning or having doubts, leave the person alone. i \ \ \ '维生素E了解您可以\ \ \ '吨，让你的心都/问上帝，以显示你的东西，如果你发现自己质疑，或有疑问，离开的人。 It will save you from being hurt like I did.它将为您节省被伤害一样，我做到了。 This was my first love and first serious boyfriend and being hurt isn\\\’t fun.这是我第一次爱的第一次严重的男友和被伤害isn \ \ \ '吨的乐趣。 God Bless, and remember that if we wait on God, all things will be added unto us if it is according to his will.愿上帝保佑，请记住，如果我们等待上帝，一切事物将祂对我们说，如果是按照他的意愿。

2. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
   

   Tiffany- We are sorry you got caught up with a pathological liar.蒂凡尼-我们很抱歉，您走入一个病态说谎者。 We will pray for your heartbreak, and future relationships我们会为您祈祷，伤心，和未来的关系

3. Kristan : kristan ：
   

   I could have saved myself from alot of crap that happened to me!我可以保存自己从很多crap认为，发生在我！ Gee, I always knew there was something wrong with that guy.张基，我一直知道有一些错误的，与家伙。 He sure built up his credibility by telling me half-truths [that sounds like an oxymoron].他肯定建立起来的信誉，他告诉我一半的真理， [这听起来像一个矛盾的] 。
   I have pretty much recovered from all of this, but I dont know if that person wil ever feel guilty…我非常收回所有这一切，但我不知道如果那个人的西港岛线以往任何时候都感到内疚…
   Come to think of it I have met like 3 pathological liars up to now, but He was the one who affected me the most because he rushed everything.试想想，这我见过像三病理骗子到现在为止，但他是一个谁受影响最让我，因为他送往一切。 I know now that I am an emotional fool.我知道现在我是一个情绪傻瓜。

   Thanx alot for sharing this info here, people are sure gonna learn and hopefully they will follow it through, rather than giving their relationships second chances or guesses. thanx了很多共享此信息在这里，人们肯定会在哪里学习，并希望他们将遵循它通过，而不是让他们的关系第二次机会或猜测。

4. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
   

   Kristan- kristan -

   Thanks for sharing your heart.感谢分享您的心脏。 We have ALL made some bad dating decisions.我们都取得了一些不好的约会的决定。 The neat thing about all this is we can learn from our mistakes, as we trust the Lord to guide us into the relationship He is preparing for us.该整齐一点，所有这一切，我们可以了解从我们的错误，因为我们相信上帝，以指导我们的关系，他正准备为我们。
   -David- -国宝-

5. ken : 县 ：
   

   Some of your assessments may be off the mark.您的一些评估，可能会关闭马克。 at least three of the symptoms you describe could just be SHYNESS or LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE!至少有三个症状，您所描述的可能只是害羞或缺乏自信！

6. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
   

   Ken-肯
   Thanks for sharing.感谢分享。 Of course, as with anything else in life, we need to look at things with perspective and balance.当然，与任何其他在生活中，我们需要研究事物的角度和平衡。 We ourselves, or our date may have one or two of these “pathological liar” signs.我们自己，或我们的日期可能有一个或两个这些“病态说谎者”的迹象。 The key here is whether they are cumulative and/or persistent rather than an isolated incident.这里的关键是，他们是否是累积性的和/或持久性，而不是一个孤立的事件。

   Blessings,祝福，

   David国宝

7. teresa : 德肋撒 ：
   

   Hi i have met someone who twists and turns stories to thir own advantage, with ego inflation watch out as these people can really make you feel you are the one in the wrong you are mad its not them its you dont be fooled by this everyone has difficult experiences it does not mean you are at falt get out give yourself a break and the truth will come喜我见过有人谁曲折和故事thir自身的优势，与自我通胀警惕，因为这些人真的可以使你感到你是一个在错误的，你是不是疯其其他们，你不用骗，这每个人都有困难的经验，这并不意味着你是在falt失控给自己休息和真相来
   this person wont leave me alone and they are already in a relationship and the lies just flow from their mouth, convincing me that its the truth fantacy mixed with reality well ending of story they are dumped, sometimes we stay in relationships as we get caught up in lonelyness but turn to a god of your understanding be fulfilled and move forward.此人wont留下我单独和他们已经在一个关系和谎言，只是流从他们的口中，有说服力的我说，其真相是范特西混合与现实，以及结尾的故事，他们是倾倒，有时候，我们留在我们的关系陷入了在孤独，但把一个上帝的您的谅解，履行向前迈进。 the best is yet to come最好的还在后头

8. Marie Perez : 玛丽佩雷斯 ：
   

   For all of you Christian young females or young males out there.为你们所有的基督教年轻女性或男性青年有。 Do not rush into a relationship without first getting to know the person very well.不急于成为一个关系，首先结识的人很好。 I am Christian woman that married a Christian man church goer that has a huge issue with lieing and making up stories.我基督教女已婚男子是一个基督教教堂goer有一个巨大的问题摆在决策和行动的故事。 We went to therapy for this I tried to save my marriage.我们去治疗，这点我是试图拯救我的婚姻。 And four years later I have learened things that I never knew he kept from me.和4年后我有learened的东西，我从来不知道他一直由我。 My point is that liars dont change.If you see someone with a lieing pattern RUN.我的意思是，说谎者不用change.if你看到有人与说谎的模式运行。 I didn’t because I loved him he cried he begged me to give him a chance.Now we are heading for divorce.我没有，因为我爱他，他哭了，他乞求我给他一个chance.now我们的标题为离婚。 It is EXTREMELY PAINFUL for me.这是非常痛苦的我。

   However how can you stay with some you don’t trust?但是你如何能留在一些您不信任？ that you are going to question everything they do or say.你是去一切的问题，他们这样做或说。 When A person has a lieing problem it is just like a homosexual or a pedophile I don’t believe they can change and it gets worse with time.当一个人有一个说谎的问题，它就像是同性恋或一pedophile我不相信他们能够改变它进一步恶化随时间。

   Unless GOD does somthing radical and there is a true repentance they will never change.除非上帝是否somthing激进和有是一个真正的悔改，他们将永远不会改变。 It is something they will have to fight with for the rest of there lives.这是他们将要争取与至于其余的有生命。

   And it is sad for the person that has to deal with something of this calibar.这是悲哀的人认为，要处理的东西，这calibar 。 You feel violated and extremely hurt when you fall in love and give it 100% and then you find out the person you married has been lieing to you from day one.您觉得侵犯，并极大地伤害了当你坠入爱河并给它100 ％ ，然后你找出你的人结婚，一直说谎，你从第一天开始。

   It’s like sleeping with a stranger.这就像睡同一个陌生人。

   I encourage anyone that is reading this if you are dealing with a new relationship and you see that the person is lieng from the beginning it gets worse.我鼓励任何人，就是看了这本如果你正在处理一个新的关系，你看到的人是lieng从一开始就得到更糟。

   My husbad was living a separte life from me.我husbad是生活separte生活，从我。 When I came to find out everything I did he still lies to me and denies everything that I have copies and evidence of.当我来到找出一切我本来还在于，他对我和否认一切，我的副本和证据。

   A pathiological liar will never admitt to his lies. 1 pathiological说谎者绝不会admitt他的谎言。 And end up lieing about everything.结束了撒谎的一切。 Then they lie with one lie to cover up for another lie.然后，他们的谎言与一个谎言来掩盖另一个谎言。 It is a HUGE WEB which once you are in this web you can get out.它是一个庞大的网络，其中一旦您在本网站，您可以失控。

   Very sad.非常可悲的。 A liar of this calibar lies to everyone,I saw this pattern with my husband he lied to our business partner and to customers, he also lied to his family, his ex wife and ex girlfriends.一个说谎者这calibar在于大家，我看到了这种格局与我的丈夫，他说谎，我们的商业伙伴和客户，他也说谎，向他的家人，他的前妻子和前女友。 This I learned throughout or relationship.据悉，这是我整个或关系。 It never ends.它永远不会结束。

   I hope this can be of help to some of you out there.我希望这可以帮助你们当中有些人在那里。 If I would have known this from the beginning I would have cut my loses and Moved on.如果我都知道，这从一开始，我会砍掉我的失去和提出的。 Instead I stayed hoping and praying for a better outcome.不是我住，希望和祈祷一个更美好的结果。 The end results were hopless desperation on my part.最后的结果hopless绝望对我的一部分。

   I got very hurt at the end.我受到极大伤害，在去年底。

9. LITTLE DEBBIE SUE POWERS (DODD) : 小黛比控告的权力（多德） ：
   

   Hi, I have benn married three times to those who physically and emotionally abused me Just knowing someone out there is praying for me gives me new strength to be encouraged.嗨，我有本，已婚的3倍那些谁在肉体和精神上虐待我只想知道有人在那里祈祷，我给我新的力量予以鼓励。

10. Christia : 克里斯蒂亚 ：
    

    Well one thing is for sure: If you are in love with a Pathological Liar, and you are trying to work things out, trust me its not worth it.以及一件事是肯定的：如果你是爱上了一个病态说谎者，和您正试图工作的事情，相信我，它不值得。 I also was dating a Pathological Liar, and she told me storys after story.我也约会，病理骗子，和她告诉我层后的故事。 She had cheated on me with two men and could still come home and act and love me the same as if nothing was wrong.她欺骗了我与两名男子，并仍然可以回家和行动和爱我一样，如果没有什么是错的。 Pathological Liars are scary people because they feel no guilt from their lies and can keep the lies up until you call them out.病态说谎者是可怕的人，因为他们觉得没有罪恶感从他们的谎言，可以保留的谎言，直到您呼叫出来。

11. nell : nell ：
    

    I was surprised to see how so many people were affected by pathological liars.我很惊讶地看到，如何使很多人受到影响病理说谎者。 I to was affected by one.一至是受一。 I went on to match.com to find a relationship.我去了就到match.com寻找关系。 I soon found myself dating a man that I knew through some of his friends.我很快发现自己约会一个男人，我知道通过他的一些朋友。 He told me on the first date that he had a psycho ex-girlfriend…I believed him and began a serious relationship.他告诉我，就第一次约会，他有一个心理前女友… …我相信他，并开始建立严肃的关系。 Months went by and then one of my friends found his supposely “psycho ex-girlfriend’s” myspace account.个月内前往，然后我的一位朋友发现他的supposely “心理前女友的” MySpace上的帐户。 I looked at it and found out he was cheating on me with her.我看着它，发现他是作弊对我与她。 When I confronted him he denied it… It has almost been a year since we broke up and I’m still heartbroke.当我面对他否认它… …它几乎已是一个年以来，我们打破了起来，我还是heartbroke 。 He still calls me and once has come to my house crying and telling me he is going to change, but he never does…I just keep praying that I will be able to find my true love and that I can trust my heart with another.他还呼吁，一旦我已到了我家的哭声和告诉我，他是要改变，但他从未是否…我只是不断祈祷，我将能够找到我真正的爱情，以及我可以信任我的心与另。

12. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
    

    Dear Nelly:亲爱的娜丽：

    We are praying for you.我们为您祈祷。 Thanks for sharing this heart breaking story.感谢分享，这打破了心的故事。 Just remember, the Lord has a plan for your life, including the person he wants you to be with.只是请记住，上帝已计划为您的生活，包括人，他希望你能与。 Please hang in there.请在有坑。

13. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
    

    Theresa, Marie and Chris, Nell…Boy we could start our own small group here!特丽萨，玛丽和Chris ， nell …男孩，我们可以开始我们自己的小团体在这里！ Okay…we’ve all been affected by liars.好了… …我们已经被所有受影响的说谎者。 I am praying that our Saviour heals us from this pain we are feeling.我祈祷我们的救世主愈合我们从这个痛楚，我们的感觉。 My other prayer is that our fears of running into another pathological liar will not keep us from becoming vulnerable in the future…我的其他祈祷的是，我们的恐惧运行成另一种病态说谎者将不会使我们变得脆弱，在未来…

14. Brittany Pander : 布列塔尼迎合 ：
    

    I have been off and on dating a liar scine freashmen year in High school.我一直在起飞和对约会一个说谎者scine freashmen年在高中。 He would tell some big lie about him getting into a fighgt with somebody.他会告诉一些大的谎言，他进入fighgt与某人。 I believed it, and then I would hear from somebody that it wasn’t true.我相信它，然后我会听到有人说，这是不正确的。 I would alsways be heart broken.我想alsways被破碎的心。 Then he was always there for me.然后他总是在那里我。 When ever I would try to move on and date somebody else he would comeup with another lie to make me feel sorry for him.当以往任何时候都我会尝试的举动和日期排列的别人，他将川与另一谎言使我感到很抱歉他。 It always worked.它总是奏效。 I have gotten back together with him thinking that hes changed.我已经得到了回到他一起思想，一九九九至二零零零改变。 We have ben together for about a year now , and I just found out that all hes been telling me in this relationship about friends dieing and one of my ex’s beating him up was all a lie.我们本共同为一年左右，现在，我只是发现，所有住户开支统计调查一直告诉我，在这方面的关系，约朋友死于和我的一个当然的殴打他，都是一个谎言。 I’m still really shocked and don’t know what to think.我还是真的感到震惊和不知道该怎么想。 I’m really numb and don’t have any feelings about all of this.我真的麻木，并没有任何的感受，这一切。 Then today at school one of me best friends got hurt by one of the lies that he told.然后今天在学校之一，我最好的朋友受伤的一个谎言，他说。 And was trying to talk to it about with me.并试图交谈，它与我有关。 She felt that I didn’t care for her because I didn’t have anything to say back.她认为，我没有照顾她，因为我没有什么要说回。 So I wrote her a letter explaining what I think about all of this.所以我写了她的信中解释了什么，我觉得关于这一切。 He did tell me that he wants to get help.他告诉我，他希望得到帮助。 He doesn’t want to loose me.他不希望宽松的我。 I believe that he will do whatever it takes.我相信他将尽一切需要。 So I’m willing to stay with him ans suffer the because there is a good side that I fell in love with and is still in love with.因此，我愿意留与他答遭受因为有一个好的一面，我深深爱上了与目前仍处于与爱。 I just hope and pray that everything will work out and he will get the help that he needs and will stop the lieing and just be better.我只是希望并祈祷，一切都将工作和他将得到帮助，他的需要和意愿停止撒谎，只是会更好。 Be aware that hes lieing.知道住户开支统计调查在说谎。 So if any of you are reading this and want to give me some advice as of what to do I will take any of it.因此，如果任何您正在阅读，这和要多给我一些意见，怎么办，我会采取任何它。

15. Jenn 王震 : ：
    

    I was dating this girl for 4 years and i caught her in so many lies..she lied about her age and what she did for a living…right now we are trying to get back together but she keeps on having this girl stay over at her place on the weekend, i asked her to stop letting this happen because it makes me feel stressed…she still has this girl over infact she over at her place right now as i type and shes staying the weekend.我是约会，这名女童为4年，我被她在这么多的谎言..她撒谎，她的年龄和她到底在干什么为生活的权利…现在我们正试图取回在一起，但她不断的话，这名女童住在她的地方，上周末，我问她停止让这种情况，因为它使我感到强调…她还，这名女童超过infact她超过她的地方，现在正如我的类型和shes下榻的周末。 I dont know if i want to do this to myself again but i love her and i want to be with her but i can’t believe a word that comes out of her mouth. i不知道如果我想这样做是为了自己，但我爱她，我想与她，但我不能相信一个词出来，她的嘴。

16. Holly : 冬青 ：
    

    Hi.嗨。 I am not dating but I am a christian.我不是约会，但我是一个基督徒。 I had a pathological liar stay in my house for at least a year.我有一个病态说谎者留在我家为至少一年。 While she was there she gave away one crucial sign that she was manipulating men on a christian dating service.虽然她有她离开了一个关键的标志，她操纵的男子是一个基督教约会服务。 She gleefully described going to her ex’s house and smashing all his dishes in revenge after dumping him,(by the way he was a chef).她兴高采烈去形容她前的住所和粉碎了他的所有菜在报复后，倾倒，他（的方式，他是一个厨师） 。 She geniunely laughed at his pain!她geniunely嘲笑他的痛苦！ Then she would go to multiple churches where she would dress up, boast and exaggerate stories, and pretend to be the perfect christian.然后她会去多个教堂的地方，她会打扮，吹嘘和夸大的故事，并假装是完美的基督教。 Not only that but she refused to come to my church but insisted on going to another one.不仅如此，但她不愿来我的教会，但坚持要前往另一个。 This was so she could lie and boast without any witnesses.这是使她可以谎言和夸耀没有任何证人。 Be careful of people who lack remorse and boast often!小心的人谁缺乏反省和吹嘘，往往！

17. Holly : 冬青 ：
    

    Hi Brittany this is for you.喜布列塔尼，这是给你。 Living with a pathological liar for over 2 yrs has given me amazing insight.生活与病态说谎者超过2年给了我惊人的洞察力。 #1 The person will lie, exaggerate often and will believe in their own lies at the same time. ＃ 1人会说谎，夸大往往会相信在自己的谎言在同一时间内。 #2 If you confront them about a lie they can easily become aggressive and violent. ＃ 2如果您面对他们的谎言，他们可以很容易成为攻击性和暴力。 #3 They make up a lot of stories to garner sympathy because they have low self esteem. ＃ 3 ，他们作出了很多的故事，争取同情，因为他们的低自尊。 On the last day of having this woman in my house I confronted her about all the lies.在最后一天有这名妇女在我家i面对她对所有的谎言。 She then started screaming and threatening to send one of our male house guests to jail for molestation.然后，她开始尖叫，并威胁向我们的一位男性客人内务入狱骚扰。 The final blow was when she said, “I never liked your family anyways”.最后打击时，她说： “我不喜欢你的家人anyways ” 。 I asked why did you stay here then?我问你为什么在这里呆，然后呢？ . 。 . 。 .”Oh, I needed the money and a place to stay”. “哦，我需要钱和住宿地点” 。 So you see, a lot of liars only care about themselves, and how to get sympathy and money.所以你看，很多骗子只关心自己，以及如何获取同情和金钱。 They care nothing about you!他们关心什么你！ So just cut them out of your life!!所以刚才削减他们走出你的生活！

18. Taylor : 泰勒 ：
    

    I’m 19 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year and a 1/2.我19日和我已走出去与我男朋友了差不多一年和1 / 2 。 He lies all the time.他所在的所有时间。 I’m always finding out new things that aren’t true..我一直寻找出新的东西，不是真正的.. They could be little things like he said once that he had to get off the phone because he had to weed whack when really he was just taking a shower then he lies about big things like where he went to college.他们可不大一样的东西，他说，一旦他要下车，电话，因为他不得不杂草痛击时，真的，他只是采取了淋浴，然后，他的谎言，大的事情一样，他上过大学。 He said he went to this one college but then his parents wouldn’t pay for it anymore but in reality he went to a different school and failed out.他说，他到这了一所高校，但后来他的父母不会为它付出了，但在现实中，他到不同的学校和失败。 He went as far as to make up a roomate.他据以弥补一室友。 Once he said he didn’t have the movie that we wanted to watch because it was at his dorm….一旦他说，他不具备的影片，我们希望观赏，因为它是在他的宿舍… … 。 the school he ACTUALLY went to didn’t even have dorms… I don’t understand it… I know I have to get out of this relationship but it seems hard.学校的他，其实到甚至没有宿舍… …我不明白它… …我知道我要摆脱这种关系，但似乎很难。

19. BLOODFLOWER : bloodflower ：
    

    I STARTED HANGING OUT WITH THIS GUY.我开始挂出与这个家伙。 HE HAD A GF, AND SAID HE BROKE UP WITH HER.他有一个绿表，并说，他打破了她。 LATER I FOUND OUT HE WAS MAKING LOVE TO ME,THEN TO HER THE NEXT DAY.后来我发现他正在爱我，那么她的第二天。 WEVE BEEN TOGETEHR FOR 4 MONTHS AND I FOUND OUT FROM HER THEY HAVE BEEN TALKING THE WHOLE TIME.促成被togetehr 4个月，我发现从她的，他们一直在讨论的全部时间。

    I’M WEAK, AND I ASK GOD TO HELP ME BE STRONG AND LET HIM GO, BUT I FEEL THAT I NEED HIM … I THINK IT WILL GET WORSE BECAUSE HE’S SO MEAN AND EVIL, BUT YET SO CHARMING我很薄弱，我想请问，上帝帮助我坚强，让他去，但我觉得我需要他… …我觉得这会更糟，因为他的吝啬与邪恶，但却使迷人

20. Lisa : 丽莎 ：
    

    I also dated a path.我也不合时宜一个路径。 liar.说谎者。 He told a web of lies , added one lie on top of another.他说，网络的谎言，说，一列再加上另一个。 Once he got caught he promised to get help.一旦他走入他誓言将获得帮助。 He also had a severe substance abuse problem.他还造成了严重的药物滥用问题。 He finally attended some AA meetings but then stopped.最后他出席一些会议，但机管局，然后停止。 He lied about what he did for a living, he said he was a narcotics officer.他撒谎，他的所作所为为生活，他说，他是一个毒品人员。 But he wasn’t, it was a good lie though because he could be gone for long periods of time and use his job as an excuse.但他没有，这是一个很好的谎言，虽然因为他可以去很长一段时间，并使用他的工作，作为一个借口而已。 I would also recommend to get out as soon as possible these people are scary.我还建议，以摆脱尽快这些人是可怕的。 He would say he would get help but then would not follow through.他会说，他将获得帮助，但不会跟进。

21. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
    

    Taylor and Bloodflower:泰勒和bloodflower ：

    Do yourselves some good by simply getting out of these relationships as soon as possible.做自己一些好，只要失控的这些关系，尽快落实。 Both of you are being abused by liars, and the longer you stay, the more painful the consquences.双方你是被虐待的，由说谎者，和较长的，你留下来，更痛苦consquences 。 Do you need this this kind of guy?您是否需要此这样的家伙？

22. nikki in NC : 尼克在数控 ：
    

    I myself married a guy who is a pathological liar..我自己娶了一位家伙谁是病态说谎者.. We’ve been married for 2 years and its taken ever bit of struggle in me to fight for this marriage.我们已经结婚二年及其所采取的任何时候都位的斗争，在我去争取这个婚姻。 I married him after only 2 mths of dating so I didnt take the time to stop and get to know who he really was.. i结婚后，他只有2个月的约会，所以我didn't采取的时间停止并取得知道谁，他真的是.. I wish i would have so I wouldnt be where Im at today.我想我会，所以我wouldnt的地方，即时通讯在今天。 I have a 6 mth old son who will be witness to it off if I dont find my strength soon enough to get out..我有一个6岁的儿子跖骨头区谁将见证它关闭，如果我不用找到我的实力不够，尽快摆脱.. Please help me pray that I find my way out, back to God..请帮我祈祷，我觉得我的出路，回到上帝.. Its tore me down long enough and he will never change..Always lying about things, from getting the oil changed in the car, saying he did when he didnt, to paying the ins.其撕毁我，足够长的，他绝不会改变..总是说谎的事，从获得的石油改变，在汽车上说，他在didn't ，支付程式。 on our vehicles..saying he did when he didnt..对我们的车辆..说，他在didn't .. from going to his moms ..saying he didnt when he did..从去他的妈妈..他说didn't时，他.. all kinds of lies..所有种谎言.. please help me pray…请帮我祈祷…

23. Annie : 安妮 ：
    

    Firstly, I’ma Christian and my boyfriend is the son of pastors.首先，我对基督教和我男朋友是牧师的儿子。 It’s actually shocked me how you people lack forgiveness on this site.它实际上震惊，我如何你的人缺乏宽恕关于这个站点。 I’m sorry if I offend, but sometimes you need to learn to HELP those who are really in need, and these people are in need.我很抱歉，如果我得罪，但有时你需要学习，以帮助那些谁真正有需要的，这些人是有需要的人士。 Don’t turn your back on them even though it’s hard, they still need help.不把你的背部对他们即使它的努力，他们仍然需要帮助。 They lack self esteem and sometimes love.他们缺乏自尊，有时爱。 Are we going to turn our backs on them难道我们要把我们的支持对他们的

    Here’s my story; I’m 18 years old and have been with a pathological liar four years now.在此，我的故事;我18岁，并已与病态说谎者四年现在。 I only figured him out about 8 months ago and have been encouraging him to seek help.我只是揣摩他的约8个月前，并已鼓励他寻求协助。 He cheats (by getting emotionally attached to other girls).他作弊（越来越激动地重视其他女孩） 。 He seeks attention and pity from these persons as well as his family and friend by slandering my name.他的目的是关注和很可惜，从这些人，以及他的家人和朋友所污蔑我的名字。 He even told them I was more evil that Satan!他甚至告诉他们我是更邪恶的撒旦！ In fact, HE was the one who didn’t care about our relationship and would constantly hurt it, then lie to his friends and say I was the cause.事实上，他是一个谁不关心我们的关系，并会不断地伤害它，然后骗他的朋友们说我是事业。

    At this point he’s been seeking psychological help and I’m here for him.在这一点上，他一直在寻求心理帮助，我在这里为他。 I guess in the end of the day, it’s all up to the person and you.我猜想在这一天结束，它的所有行动的人，你。 My boyfriend didn’t think he needed help, but I stood there, showing him the signs and the ill effects of his lifestyle.我男朋友不认为他需要帮助，但我站在那里，显示他的迹象和不良影响，他的生活方式。 He finally came to the realisation that he had a problem.他终于实现，他曾是一个问题。 In fact, I told him he was a compusive liar and it was him who actually did research and corrected me by saying he shows signs of pathological lying.事实上，我告诉他，他是一个compusive说谎者，这是他究竟是谁做的研究和纠正，我说，他有迹象显示病理说谎。

    My point?我的意思吗？ It’s up you and the person involved.它的成立，你和当事人。 It all boils down to whether they realise they want help and are making a conscious effort and YOU have the will power and the endurnce to withstand hittin rock bottom and working all the way back up, for your fellow man.归根究底，他们是否明白他们想要帮助，并且正在有意识的努力和你有没有将权力和endurnce承受hittin谷底和工作的所有方式备份，为您的研究员男子。 WWJD? wwjd ？

24. fred : 李华明 ：
    

    some people think im a liar but i think im always telling the truth.有人认为，即时通讯一个说谎者，但我觉得即时通讯总是说真话。 who should i believe?谁应我相信呢？

25. HEATHER : 希瑟 ：
    

    I have been dating a guy for 2 years.我一直在约会家伙为二年。 He has a tarnished past(prison, abandoned by adoptive parents,gambling, theft).他有一个玷污了过去（监狱，遗弃养父母，赌博，盗窃） 。 I try to understand and be forgiving with him since he trying to put all this behind him.我尝试了解和原谅他，因为他试图把所有这在他身后。 He has never had a real family but he lies a lot.他从未有过一个真正的家庭，但他是一个有很多。 Most of the time it is about un-important things like not being at the golf course or a bar.大部分的时间，它是关于联合国重要的事情一样，不是在高尔夫球场或一间酒吧。 I know he loves me and my kids that is no lie but I cant help but think maybe if he’d lie to me about small things he would lie about big things.我知道他爱我和我的孩子是没有说谎，但我cannot帮助，但认为也许如果他要骗我，小的事情，他将谎言件大事。 Everyone who knows him says if his lips are moving he is lying.大家谁知道他说，如果他的嘴唇正，他是在说谎。 There have been quite a few instances that make me think he might be lying about another woman/women.有不少实例，使我觉得他可能是说谎另一名女子/女人。 I have never caught him but I have this strange FEELING he may be lying about not one but more than one.我从来没有被捕的他，但我有这样一种奇特的感觉，他可能是说谎，但没有一个超过1 。 I love him dearly even though he is not truthful.我爱他的代价，即使他是不是真实的。 I dont know what to do. i不知道怎么做。 His lies are stupid lies to cover more lies that lead to more lies.他的谎言是愚蠢的谎言，以涵盖更多的谎言导致更多的谎言。 How he keeps up with the stories I will never know.他如何跟上与故事，我会永远都不会知道。 I take pity on him and I am scared that is why I stay with him.我很可惜，对他和我很害怕，这就是为什么我留他。 Please pray that I figure out the right thing to do.请祈祷，我计算出正确的做法。 He is not a “bad” guy.他是不是一个“坏”家伙。 I just think he is really confused.我只是觉得他实在是无所适从。 He wants to get married and have a “family life” but I am scared to go this far until I am sure that he is not a pathological liar and a cheat.他希望能结婚，并有一个“家庭生活” ，但我不敢走这么远，直到我相信他是不是一个病态说谎者和欺骗。
    Again please pray for me that I can find my way to the truth再次请你们为我祈祷吧，我可以找到我的方式真相

26. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
    

    Heather:希瑟：

    Thanks for your comment.感谢您的评论。 Well, if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and if others think it’sa duck….chances are it is a duck..or a big fat liar!那么，如果社会各界像鸭， quacks像鸭，如果别人认为这是鸭… … 。机会，这是鸭..或大发骗子！ You stay in the relationship because you are fearful?你留在的关系，因为你是可怕的呢？ We are praying for the Lord’s wisdom…be encouraged!我们祈求上帝的智慧…鼓励！

27. HEATHER : 希瑟 ：
    

    Well, the decision has been made.那么，政府已决定。 He didnt come home last night.他didn't回家昨晚。 He stayed out gambling and lost $3000.他下榻的出赌博和失去了3000美元。 Why are some people so horrible and mindless of others feelings?为什么有些人这么可怕的愚昧和他人的感受呢？ Everything I have read on this post sounds so familiar to me.一切我已看过关于这个职位的声音，以便熟悉了我。 All of us should realize we are to good to be treated this way.我们大家都应该明白我们要很好的加以处理，这样。 Just because we are caring individuals people seem to take advantage of us.只是因为我们是互相关怀的个人人似乎要利用我们。 yES I AM FEARFUL OF HIM.是我很害怕他。 He has had me followed and has spied on me before when we have split up.他有我其次是间谍，并已对我之前，当我们有分裂。 I plan to leave the house and get me and the kids out but he knows everyone in town and I am sure to be followed no matter where I go.我打算离开家，并得到我和孩子，但他知道，每个人都在城市，我相信应遵循无论身在何处，我去。

28. Marie Yolanda : 马里约兰达 ：
    

    I have been with a patholigical liar for 2years,we break up off & on due to betrayal and recently because he got someone pregnant& he said he ” is facing his responsiblity”.我已与patholigical说谎者为二年，我们打破了小康及对因背叛和最近因为他得到有人怀孕＆他说，他“正面临他responsiblity ” 。 This 28 year old w/ 5yr old boy only dated him about 2 1/2 months &he told me only slept w/her twice..a lie..of course.这个28岁瓦特/ 5yr岁的男孩，只有过时的，他约2 1 / 2个月＆他告诉我只睡过瓦特/她的两次..一个谎话..当然。 He says he loves me but he has to be with her since she is now pregnant.他说，他爱我，但他要与她，由于她现在怀孕了。 The girl does not believe that he has been seeing me at the same time and I have been w this guy …I can’t speak fluent spanish to tell her.女孩不相信他已看到我在同一时间，和我一直在瓦特这个家伙… …我不能说流利的西班牙语告诉她。 This guy I have been seeing is wanting to have this family now because he just lost custody of his other child 5 year old fr previous relationship.这个家伙，我一直看到的是希望有这个家庭的现在，因为他刚刚失去羁押他的其他儿童5岁前神父的关系。 I can’t have any more children…I already told him if he can be faithful to this girl then go for it..he has my blessing…but I think he just have the need at this time to have a kid of his own because he does not see his 5 ear old anymore…he was dealing w/ drugs and is alcoholic..but the other girl..helen does not know this…I feel responsible to warn her if she believes me…should I ????我不能有任何更多的孩子… …我已经告诉他，如果他能忠实于这名女童，然后再为它..他我的祝福…但我觉得他刚才有需要在这个时候，有一个孩子他自己的因为他并不认为他的耳朵5岁了…他被处理瓦特/毒品和酒精是..但其他的女孩..海伦不知道这… …我觉得负责人警告她，如果她认为我…我应该？ ？ ？ ？

29. Marie Yolanda : 马里约兰达 ：
    

    Would like to get together with ladies experiencing same to start group想聚在一起，与女士们，经历了同样的开始组 therapy…yg906@aol.com治疗… yg906@aol.com

30. Teresa : 德肋撒 ：
    

    Recently I met a guy at work.最近，我会见了一个人在工作。 I have been hurt before and even though the red flags went up i stupidly ignored them.我一直在伤害之前，即使是红旗去介绍I stupidly忽视他们。 I believe he is married he has been staying at a motel room close to were I live and work.我相信他是已婚，他一直住在汽车旅馆房间接近我真的生活和工作。 Just cant seam to put my finger on it but its bothering me刚才cannot煤层把我的手指上，但它困扰我

31. David Butler 大卫巴特勒 : ：
    

    Theresa- If in doubt, leave him out….特丽萨-如有疑问，请离开他… … 。

32. mdb : MDB的 ：
    

    What a dumb article.什么是哑巴的文章。 Most of your “tells” are attributes commonly displayed by nervous people, shy people, socially anxious people, introverts, etc, whatever you want to call them.您的大多数“告诉”是常见的属性所显示的中枢神经人，害羞的人，社会焦虑的人， introverts等，无论您要打电话。

    Telling people that they are signs of lying is just going to make it that much harder for the socially inept to reach out to others.告诉人们，他们说谎的迹象，只是要使它认为，困难得多，为社会无能的接触到其他人。

33. Holly : 冬青 ：
    

    Hahaaa. hahaaa 。 What a dumb response.什么是愚蠢的回应。 Unless you think its okay for me to lie to you and cheat on you and take all your money, well I could just say, Oh I’m just a normal non nervous person!除非你认为它好，我给你的谎言和欺骗对你，并采取一切你的钱，那么我可以说，哦，我仅仅是一个正常的非中枢神经人！ What?什么？ Are you upset I took advantage of you?你不高兴，我利用你？ You should just be happy I’m not socially inept!你应该只是很高兴我不是在社会上无能！ lmao you’re pathetic mdb. lmao您可怜MDB的。

34. James : 詹姆斯 ：
    

    I met a girl on the internet, we chatted for quite sometime then finally met, we went out a few times and really hit it off, we started telling each other about our families, she told me about a previous abusive relationship she had and also that she had a child in that relationship.我见到了一个女孩在互联网上，我们的交谈相当一段时间，然后会见了最后，我们走出去了几次，真正击中它关闭，我们就开始告诉对方，我们的家庭，她告诉我，关于先前的受虐待的关系，她也她有一个孩子在这方面的关系。 This girl needs help a