The following is not really about signs of cheating in a relationship, but rather the story of one of our Christian single women readers sharing her heartbreak on finding signs of cheating in her relationship. She also offers some some relationship advice when you find signs of cheating in a relationship.
My name is Ashley, and I would just like to share a glimpse of my story to encourage you all. I am 20 (married at 19) to pastor’s son. You would think everything would go great. We did everything right, we did the marriage counselling, stayed pure for each other, we even didn.t kiss till our wedding day.
I found out (in January 2009) that my husband had been cheating on me for nearly a month. I found out the hard way, through a note that told me I had to move out of our home. When I went to the home to gather my things, turns out him and his new family had moved in already. Talk about a total shock. And to top it all of she is 15 years older than him and has 4 kids with 3 different dads.
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For weeks I wondered what I did wrong, and how he could choose her over me. My mind raced and raced and raced, but the only thing that is keeping me going is God. Honestly, I wouldn’t be alive if it were not for him. I have to remember that God is the ultimate judge and he will cast down his power for you. Don’t seek revenge, but take the high road. It is AMAZING how your relationship with God will change the blossom!
Hope this brings hope and light to the situation. I may be young, but I have gone through a lot already. If anyone needs to talk. Let me know!