Christian Counseling for Singles ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ½Ì±Û (have a counseling tip?) (»ó´ãÀº ³¡?)

25 years ago I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term ¡° Christian counseling¡± an oxymoron. 25 ³â Àü ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» ÇÊ¿ä·Î ¾Æ¸¶ ÀÖÁö¸¸ ´ëºÎºÐÀÇ ±³È¸¶ó´Â ¿ë¾î·Î °£ÁÖ "±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ»"¸ð¼ø ¾î¹ýÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Well today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º ¿À´Ã º»¹®Àº ±³È¸ÀÇ ÁÖ·ù »ýȰÇÕ´Ï´Ù. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. ½ÇÁ¦·Î, ¸¹Àº Å« ±³È¸ ä¿ë Àü¹® ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º¸¦ Á¦°ø Àå°ü ±×µéÀÇ ±³È¸ ´©±¸ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
How to Choose a Christian Counselor ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» ¼±ÅÃÇÏ´Â ¹æ¹ý
Many Christian singles use Christian counseling for a variety of issues including dealing with ¸¹Àº ±âµ¶±³ÀÎ ½Ì±Û ±âµ¶±³¸¦ »ç¿ëÀ»À§ÇÑ »ó´ã µî ´Ù¾çÇÑ ¹®Á¦¸¦ ´Ù·ç´Â abusive dating relationships µ¥ÀÌÆ® °ü°è ¿å¼³ , commitment phobia issues Çå½Å °øÆ÷Áõ¿¡ ¹®Á¦°¡ , anxiety/panic attacks ºÒ¾È / °øÈ² ¹ßÀÛ , depression ¿ì¿ïÁõ , low self esteem ³·Àº ÀÚ±â Á¸Áß and ¹× sexual abuse. ¼ºÀû ÇдëÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Perhaps you found this article on Christian counseling because you feel your loved one has need of a Christian counselor? ¾Æ¸¶µµ ´ç½ÅÀÌ ±â»ç¸¦ ¹ß°ß ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» ´À³¢±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ´ç½ÅÀÇ »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷ÀÌ ÇÊ¿ä·ÎÇÏ´Â ±âµ¶±³ º¯È£»ç? If you are looking for Christian counseling you may want to consider the following before choosing one: ¸¸¾à ´ç½ÅÀÌ Ã£°íÀÖ´Â ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» °í·ÁÇØ¾ß ÇÒ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù¸¦ ¼±ÅÃÇϱâ Àü¿¡ ´ÙÀ½°ú °°Àº Çϳª :
There Are Different Kinds of Christian Counseling Services and Counselors ÀÌ¹Ì ´Ù¸¥ Á¾·ùÀÇ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º ¹× »ó´ã¿ø
In order to choose the best Christian counseling service for you familiarize yourself with the variety of Christian counselors out there. ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» À§ÇØ ÃÖ°íÀÇ ¼ºñ½º¸¦ ¼±ÅÃÇÕ´Ï´Ù Àͼ÷ÇØÁö¸é ÀÚ±â ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ±âµ¶±³ÀÎÀº Á¾·ù°¡ ´Ù¾çÇϱâ Ä«¿î½½·¯ ¹ÛÇÕ´Ï´Ù. And take care because the term ¡°Christian counseling¡± may mean one the term may mean one thing to one person and one to another. ±×¸®°í Á¶½ÉÇϱ⠶§¹®¿¡ ¿ë¾î "±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã"À̶ó´Â ¿ë¾îÀÖÀ» ¼öµµ ÀÖÀ½À» ÀÇ¹Ì Çϳª Çϳª°¡ ÇÑ »ç¶÷ÀÌÀÖÀ» ¼öµµ ÀÖÀ½À» ÀǹÌÇÏ°í ¶Ç ´Ù¸¥ Çϳª´ÂÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Here are a few of the titles of Christian counselors and their roles. ´ÙÀ½Àº ±âµ¶±³ÀÇ Á¦¸ñÀ» ¸î °³ »ó´ã¿ø°ú ±× ¿ªÇÒÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Of course, there may be some crossover among Christian counseling titles: ¹°·Ð, Å©·Î½º ¿À¹öÀÖÀ» ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù Áß ÀϺΠ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã Á¦¸ñ :
Lay and Pastoral Christian Counseling – These are Christians who may have the gift of encouragement and be able to give wise counseling to other in the church body. ·¹À̾ƿô°ú ¸ñ°¡ÀûÀÎ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã - À̰ÍÀº ±×¸®½ºµµ ÀÎÀÇ ¼±¹°Àº ´©±¸ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù¸¦ ÁÙ ¼öÀÖÀ» °Ý·Á¿Í »ó´ãÀ» ´Ù¸¥ ±³È¸¿¡ ´ëÇÑ »ç¶÷µéÀÇ Çö¸íÇÑ ¸öÇÕ´Ï´Ù. However, these folks generally do not possess professional degrees. ±×·¯³ª,ÀÌ »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ÀϹÝÀûÀ¸·Î º¸À¯ÇÏÁö Á÷¾÷µµÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Professional Christian Counseling Services - Among these Christian counselors you will come across those who possess a number of different degrees which qualifies them in certain areas. Àü¹® ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º - ÀÌµé ±âµ¶±³ Ä«¿î½½·¯¸¦ °Ç³Ê ¿Ã ¼öÀÖ´Â ¿©·¯ ´Ù¸¥ ±× ´©±¸µµ ±×µéÀÌ ¾î´À ƯÁ¤ Áö¿ªÀº Àü¼¼°èÇÕ´Ï´Ù. For your own benefit, you should know the differences between them: ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ÀÌÀÍ¿¡, ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¾Ë¾Æ¾ß ÇÒ ±×µéÀÇ Â÷ÀÌÁ¡Àº :
Licensed Social Workers (LSW, CSW, LCSW ) – These guys have a Master¡¯s degree in Social Work or some related social science. ¶óÀ̼¾½º ¼Ò¼È ¿öÄ¿ (lsw, csw, lcsw) -ÀÌ »ç¶÷Àº ¼®»ç ÇÐÀ§¸¦ ÃëµæÇß½À´Ï´Ù »çȸ ºÀ»ç ¶Ç´Â ÀϺΠ°ü·Ã »çȸ °úÇÐÇÕ´Ï´Ù. If we are talking about the US, each stated has a required state exam and other prerequisites (hospital insternships) in order to get certified. ¸¸¾à ¿ì¸®°¡ ¸»ÇÏ´Â ¹Ì±¹, °¢°¢ÀÇ Áø¼úÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÑ »óÅ ½ÃÇè°ú ±âŸ ÀüÁ¦ Á¶°Ç (º´¿ø insternships)ÀÇ ½ÂÀÎÀ» ¾ò±â À§ÇÏ¿©ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCP) – Psychologists who perform Christian counseling have earned a doctoral deree (Ph.D). ¸éÇã ÀÓ»ó ½É¸®»ç (lcp) - ½É¸®ÇÐÀÚ ´©±¸ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» ¼öÇà dereeÀº ¹Ú»ç ÇÐÀ§¸¦ Ãëµæ (¹Ú»ç).
Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselors (LCDC, CADAC) – Christian counselors who specialize in counseling for additions like alcohol and drugs generally possess at least a BA or MA in this specialized field. ¶óÀ̼¾½º ÈÇÐ ¹°Áú ÀÇÁ¸¼º Ä«¿î½½·¯ (lcdc, cadac) - ±âµ¶±³ Ä«¿î½½·¯ À̹ÌÁöó·³ »ç¶÷À»À§ÇÑ »ó´ãÀ» Àü¹®À¸·Î ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã ¹× ¾à¹° ÀϹÝÀûÀ¸·Î ¼ÒÀ¯Çϰųª mA Àû¾îµµ 1 ¹Ù·ýÀÌ Àü¹® ºÐ¾ß.
Christian Psychiatrists - These Christian counselors are also MD¡¯s who can dispense prescriptions for anti-depressants or anti-anxiety drugs ±âµ¶±³ Á¤½Å°ú ÀÇ»ç -ÀÌ ±âµ¶±³ Ä«¿î½½·¯´Â ´©±¸µµ ¸ÖƼ µð½ºÅ©ÀÇ Ã³¹æÀüÀ» Á¶Á¦ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù - depressants ¶Ç´Â ¹æÁö - ºÒ¾È ¾à¹° ¹æÁö
Questions to Ask a Christian Counseling Service ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º¸¦ Áú¹®
After you¡¯ve decided what kind of Christian counselor you or your loved one may need, set your level expectations of what it is you think Christian counseling will accomplish. ¾î¶² Á¾·ùÀÇ ±âµ¶±³ °áÁ¤ÇϽŠÈÄ ´ç½ÅÀ̳ª ´ç½ÅÀÇ »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷ÀÌ ÇÊ¿ä Ä«¿î½½·¯,ÀÇ ±â´ë ¼öÁØÀ» ¼³Á¤ÇϽʽÿÀ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ãÀ» ÀÌ·ê ±×´ë°¡ ¹«¾ùÀ» »ý°¢ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Connected with this you may want to ask the prospective Christian counselor a whole range of questions in order to get a feel if you have a good fit. ¿Í ¿¬°üÀÌ °æ¿ì º¯È£»ç¿¡°Ô ¹°¾îº¸°í ½ÍÀº ¹Ì·¡ÀÇ ±âµ¶±³¸¦ ¾ò±â À§ÇÏ¿© Àüü ¹üÀ§ÀÇ Áú¹®¿¡ Àß ¸Â´Â ´À³¦ÀÌÀÖ´Â °æ¿ì. You can work off a list such as this: ÀÌ¿Í °°Àº ¸ñ·ÏÀ» µû·Î »ç¿ëÇÒ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù :
- What are the fee scales, and do they accept your insurance? ¼ö¼ö·á´Â ¹«¾ùÀÔ´Ï±î ºñ´Ã, ±×¸®°í ±×µéÀ» ¹Þ¾ÆµéÀÏ °ÍÀÔ´Ï´Ù º¸Çè?
- Does the counselor have a state license or certification? ¶óÀ̼¾½º ¶Ç´Â ÀÎÁõ Ä«¿î½½·¯´Â »óŰ¡? If so what is his or her degree and specialty? ±×·¸´Ù¸é ±× ¶Ç´Â ±×³à¿¡°Ô ÇÐÀ§ ¹× Àü¹® ¹«¾ùÀԴϱî?
- Have they ever dealt with your kinds of issues? »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ±ÍÇÏÀÇ Á¾·ùÀÇ Àû 󸮿¡ ¹®Á¦°¡ ÀÖ½À´Ï±î?
- How does their concept of Christian counselor integrate the Word of God into their Christian counseling? ±×µéÀº ¾î¶»°Ô Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¸»¾¸À» ÅëÇÕÇÏ´Â °³³äÀ¸·Î ±âµ¶±³ÀεéÀº ±âµ¶±³ Ä«¿î½½·¯ Ä«¿î¼¿¸µ?
- What kind of denominational background does the Christian counselor have? ¾î¶² Á¾·ùÀÇ ±³´Ü ¹è°æÀÌ ±âµ¶±³ Ä«¿î½½·¯°¡? What are their core beliefs? ±×µéÀÇ ÇÙ½É ½Å³ä ¹«¾ùÀԴϱî?
Overall, choosing the right Christian counseling service can make the difference between healing or continued suffering, so take the time to pray over the situation before committing to just anybody. Àü¹ÝÀûÀ¸·Î ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º¸¦ ¼±ÅÃÇÏ°í ¿À¸¥ÂÊ ¶Ç´Â Áö¼ÓÀûÀÎ °íÅëÀ» Ä¡À¯ÀÇ Â÷À̸¦ ¸¸µé ¼ö Àֱ⠶§¹®¿¡±âµµ¸¦ ÅëÇØ ½Ã°£À» Ä¿¹ÔÇϱâ Àü¿¡ ±× »óȲÀ» ±×³É ¾Æ¹«µµÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Christian Counseling Resources ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ÀÚ¿ø
US Christian Counseling Services ¹Ì±¹ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º
http://www.aacc.net/
http://www.findchristiancounselor.com/
http://www.lifecoachchristiancounseling.com/
http://www.ncca.org/
http://counseling4christians.com/
http://www.newlife.com/
The above Christian counseling services in any of the following states: AK,AZ,AR,CA,CO,CT,DE,FL,GA,HI,ID,IL,IN,IA,KS,KY,LA,ME, À§ÀÇ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º ÁßÀÇ Çϳª°¡ ´ÙÀ½°ú °°Àº »óÅ : ¾Ë·¡½ºÄ« ¾Æ¸®Á¶³ª ¾ÆÄ¼Ò, ͏®Æ÷´Ï¾Æ, °øµ¿, ÄÚ³×Æ¼ÄÆ ÁÖ, ¾î, Ç÷θ®´Ù, Á¶Áö¾Æ, ¾È³çÇϼ¼¿ä, ¹øÈ£ Àϸ®³ëÀÌ, ¾ÆÀÌ¿À¿Í ĵ»ç½º, ÄËÅÍŰ ÁÖ, ¶ó, ³ª,
MD,MA,MI,MN,MS,MO,MT,NE,NV,NH,NJ,NM,NY,NC,ND,OH, ¸ÖƼ µð½ºÅ©, ¾ö¸¶ ¹Ì½Ã°Ç ¹Ì³×¼ÒŸ ¹Ì½Ã½ÃÇÇ ¹ÌÁÖ¸® ¸óųª ³×ºê¶ó½ºÄ« ³×¹Ù´Ù ´º ÇÜÇÁ¼Å ´ºÀúÁö ´º ¸ß½ÃÄÚ ´º¿å ³ë½ºÄ³·Ñ¶óÀ̳ª ³ë½º´ÙÄÚŸ, ¿À,
OK,OR,PA,RI,SC,SD,TN,TX,UT,VT,VA,WA,WV,WI. È®ÀÎÀ», ¾Æ´Ï¸é, ÆÄ, ¸® »ç¿ì½º ij·Ñ¶óÀ̳ª »ç¿ì ½º´ÙÄÚŸ, Å׳׽à ÁÖ, ÅØ»ç½º ÁÖ, Àú°Í ¹ö¸óÆ®, ¹öÁö´Ï¾Æ ¿ö½ÌÅÏ, ¿þ½ºÆ® ¹öÁö´Ï¾Æ À§½ºÄܽÅÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Australian Christian Counseling Services ¿À½ºÆ® ·¹ÀÏ ¸®¾Æ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º
http://www.ccaa.net.au/
Canadian Christian Counseling Services ij³ª´ÙÀÇ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º
http://www.cornerstonechristian.ca/
Asian Christian Counseling Services ¾Æ½Ã¾Æ ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º
http://www.aaccs.org/
http://www.asianchristiancounseling.org/
If you know of a Christian counseling service you would like to add from anywhere in the world, please let us know and we will gladly do so. ±âµ¶±³ »ó´ã ¼ºñ½º¸¦ ¾Æ´Â °æ¿ì´Â ¾îµð¿¡¼µçÀ» Ãß°¡ÇϰíÀÚÇÏ´Â ¼¼°è¿¡¼ ¿ì¸®°¡ ÀúÈñ¿¡°Ô ¾Ë·ÁÁֽñ⠹ٶø´Ï´Ù ±â²¨ÀÌ ±×·¸°ÔÇÕ´Ï´Ù.














