Second Date Tips µÑ¶³¯ ÆÁ (share) (°øÀ¯)
Woohoo! woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn¡¯t blow it on the ´ç½ÅÀº ±×°ÍÀ»ÇÏÁö ¾Ê¾Ò±â ¶§¹®¿¡ µÎ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥¿¡ ³¯·Á ¹ö·Á first date ù µ¥ÀÌÆ® . ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. So just what would one constitute a successful second date? ±×·¯´Ï±î, ¾î¶² ÇÑ ±¸¼ºÀ» ¼º°øÀûÀ¸·Î µÎ ¹øÂ° µ¥ÀÌÆ®´Â? The following second ´ÙÀ½°ú °°Àº µÎ ¹øÂ° date tips ³¯Â¥ ÆÁ come from several folks who have been there. ¿©·¯ »ç¶÷ÀÌ ÀÖ¾ú Ãâ½ÅÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. ±ÍÇÏÀÇ Ã¹ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥´Â ÁøÂ¥·Î Ç¥½ÃÇÏ·Á´Â °æ¿ì ±× »ç¶÷ÀÌ °è¼Ó º¸¿©¿ä. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. ´ç½ÅÀÇ µÎ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥´Â ½Ã°£À» ½ÃÀÛÇÏ´Â µÎ »ç¶÷ÀÌ Àڱ⸦ °³¹æÇÏ°í ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷µéÀÌ °ø°³ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. On the second date, instead of going for coffee or dinner try doing an activity that interests both of you. µÎ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥, ´ë½Å¿¡ Ä¿ÇÇ ¶Ç´Â Àú³á ½Ä»ç ¿äÁòÀº µÑ ´Ù ÀÌÇØÇϴ Ȱµ¿À» ½ÃµµÇϰíÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. Ask your date what some of their favorite things to do are. ÀÚ½ÅÀÌ ÁÁ¾ÆÇÏ´Â ÀÏ¿¡°Ô ¹°¾îº¸½Ê½Ã¿ÀÇØ¾ß ÇÒ °ÍµéÀÌ ¹«¾ùÀÇ ÀϺΰ¡ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. For example: biking, fishing, cooking, seeing a band play, or gong to a movie. ¿¹¸¦ µé¸é : ÀÚÀü°Å Ÿ±â, ³¬½Ã, ¿ä¸®, º¼ 'À̶õ ¹êµå¸¦ Àç»ýÇϰųª ¿µÈ¸¦ °ø. Asking your date what they like doing will make them feel good, and they will have a good time as well. ±ÍÇÏÀÇ ³¯Â¥¸¦ ¿ä±¸ÇÏ´Â ±×µéµé¿¡°Ô ÁÁÀº ÀλóÀ» °°ÀÌÇÏ°íµµ ±×µéÀº Áñ°Å¿î ½Ã°£À» º¸³»¼¼¿ä.
During your second date it is good to bring up topics that the two of you were talking about on the first date. ´ç½ÅÀÇ µÎ ¹øÂ° °æ±â¸¦ÇÏ´Â µ¿¾È °ÍÀÌ ÁÁ´Ù ÈÁ¦¸¦ ºÒ·¯ µÎ »ç¶÷ÀÌ Ã¹ µ¥ÀÌÆ®¿¡¼ÀÌ ¾ê±â¸¦ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. This will show that you were paying attention and that you are interested in what they say. À̰ÍÀº ´ç½ÅÀÌ °ü½ÉÀ» Ç¥½ÃÇÏ°í ±×µéÀº ¹«¾ù¿¡ ´ëÇØ °ü½ÉÀÌÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. Remember what they said to you on the first date. ±â¾ïÀÌ Ã¹ µ¥ÀÌÆ®¿¡¼ ±×µéÀÌ ÇÑ ¸». For example: Did they mention that they had a project to do for work? ¿¹¸¦ µé¸é : ±×µéÀº ¿ì¸®°¡ ±×µéÀ» ¾ð±Þ ÇÁ·ÎÁ§Æ®¸¦ À§Çؼ´Â ÀÛµ¿Çմϱî? Ask them how it went and if they finished it on time. ±×µéÀ» ¾î¶»°Ô Èê·¯ °¬´ÂÁö ¿ä±¸ÇÏ´ÂÁö, ±×¸®°í ±×µéÀÌ Á¦ ½Ã°£¿¡ ¿Ï·áÇÕ´Ï´Ù. If you remember what they said on the first date, and recall it on the second date, your date will start to connect with you in a positive way. ¸¸¾à ¾î¶² »ç¶÷µéÀº ù ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥¸¦ ±â¾ïÇÏ°í ±×°ÍÀ» ȸ°í µÑ¶³¯, ´ç½ÅÀÇ ³¯Â¥°¡ ½ÃÀ۵˴ϴٿ¡¼ ´ç½Å°ú ÇÔ²² ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ ¹æ¹ýÀ» ¿¬°áÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Remember not to dwell on mistakes that you may have made on the first date. ½Ç¼ö¸¦ °íÁýÇÏ´Â ±â¾ïÀÌ ¾ø´Ù´Â ù µ¥ÀÌÆ®¿¡¼ÇØ¾ß ÇÒ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. If you know that the first impression that you made wasn¡¯t as good as you wanted it to be, just focus on making the second date as good as it can be. ù ¹øÂ° ÀλóÀ» ¾È´Ù¸é ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¸¸µçÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï¾úÀ»¸¸Å ÁÁÀº¸¦ ¿øÇÑ´Ù°í »ý°¢, ±×³É µÎ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥·Î ÃÊÁ¡À» ¸¸µé±â ÁÁ´Ù ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. For example: if you had a long day at work and were very tired during the first date, don¡¯t fret it. ¿¹¸¦ µé¸é : ¸¸¾à ´ç½ÅÀÌ Á÷Àå¿¡¼ ÇÏ·ç Á¾ÀÏ ¸Å¿ì ÇǰïÇϰí ù ³¯Â¥, ¿ïÁö¸¶ ±×°ÍÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Besides, both of you agreed on a second date, so you are both obviously still interested in each other. °Ô´Ù°¡, µÑ ´Ù ÇÕÀÇ¿¡¼ µÎ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥, ±×·³ ´ç½ÅÀº ¿©ÀüÈ÷ °ü½ÉÀ» µÑ ´Ù ¼·Î¸¦ ºÐ¸íÇÕ´Ï´Ù. If you really feel like you acted in a poor way then apologize for how you acted and then get on with the second date! ¸¸¾à¿¡ Á¤¸»·Î ±âºÐÀÌ ³ª»Û ¹æ¹ýÀ» Çൿ¿¡ ´ëÇØ »ç°ú¸¦ÇÏ°í ´ÙÀ½À» Ÿ°í ¹æ¹ýÀ» ÇൿÀ¸·Î µÎ ¹øÂ° µ¥ÀÌÆ®!
During the second date, be sure to communicate with the other person. Áß µÎ ¹øÂ° ³¯Â¥, ¹Ýµå½Ã ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷°ú ÀÇ»ç ¼ÒÅëÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Tell them if you are having a great time or if you feel a strong connection. ÁÁÀº ½Ã°£À» º¸³»°íÀÖ´Â °æ¿ì¿¡´Â ÀüÇØÇϰųª ÆÇ´ÜµÇ´Â °æ¿ì °ÇÑ ¿¬°áÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Its a good thing to express your emotions aloud because it shows the other person that you are opening up to them and then they will open up to you too. Å« ¼Ò¸®·Î ´ç½ÅÀÇ °¨Á¤À» Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ÁÁÀº °Í¸¸À» º¸¿©Áֱ⠶§¹®¿¡ ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ´ç½ÅÀÌ ±×µé¿¡°Ô °³¹æÇÏ°í ´ÙÀ½À» ¿¾î ±×µéÀº ´ç½Å¿¡°Ô ³Ê¹«ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Even if it is very simple like ¡°Hi. ±×°ÍÀº ¾ÆÁÖ °£´Ü °°Àº °æ¿ì¿¡µµ "¾È³çÇϼ¼¿ä. It¡¯s so good to see you.¡± This it will show your date that they are important to you. ³Ê¹« ¹Ý°¡¿öÇÕ´Ï´Ù. "À̰ÍÀÌ ±×µéÀº ´ç½Å¿¡°Ô ¾ÆÁÖ Áß¿äÇÑ ³¯Â¥¸¦ Ç¥½ÃÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Also find out how they are feeling. ¶ÇÇÑ ±×µéÀº °¨Á¤ ¹æ¹ýÀ» ã¾Æº¼ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. If they don¡¯t open up to you right away, then ask them how they are feeling. °³¹æÀ»ÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é ¹Ù·Î, ±×·³ ±×µéÀº ±âºÐ ¹°¾î º¸´ÂÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Ask something like ¡°What is on your mind?¡± Staying honest and open can really help the two of you connect. Áú¹® "¿Í °°Àº ¸¶À½¿¡ ¹«¾ùÀԴϱî?"ü·ù Á¤Á÷ÇÏ°í ¿±â¸¦ ¿¬°áÇÒ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù µÎ »ç¶÷¿¡ Á¤¸» ¸¹Àº µµ¿òÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
While you are spending time with your date, do not hesitate to disagree with them. ´ç½ÅÀº ´ç½ÅÀÇ ½Ã°£À» ¼ÒºñÇÏ´Â µ¿¾È ³¯Â¥, ÁÖÀúÇÏÁö ¸»°í ±×µé¿¡ µ¿ÀÇÇÏÁö ¾Ê´ÂÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Of course, you are not trying to start an argument with them, however if you don¡¯t disagree, then you are not being yourself. ¹°·Ð, ´ç½ÅÀº ±×µé°ú ³íÀïÀ» ½ÃÀÛÇÏ·Á°í ÇÑ °Ô ¾Æ´Ï¶ó, ±×·¯³ª µ¿ÀÇÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ» °æ¿ì, ±×·³ ´ç½ÅÀº ÀڽŵÇÁö ¾Ê½À´Ï´Ù. If you aren¡¯t being yourself, then your date isn¡¯t getting to know the real you and this will only lead to problems down the road. ÀÚ½ÅÀ»ÇÏÁö ¾Ê´Â °æ¿ì, ±×¶§ Ä£±¸ÀÇ ³ÊÀÇ ³¯Â¥´Â ¸øÇϰí Çö½ÇÀ» ¾Ë°í ¹®Á¦¸¦ ´ç½Å°ú ¿¬°áµÇ´Â À¯ÀÏÇÑ ±æ ¾Æ·¡¿¡ÀÖ´Â À̰ÍÀºÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Remember to disagree gently. ±â¾ï¿¡ µ¿ÀÇÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ» ºÎµå·´°ÔÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
For example: If you date says ¡°I¡¯ve seen every lord of the rings movie 20 times each¡± but you hate lord of the rings, reply in a nice way by saying something like ¡°Yea, I¡¯ve never been into Lord of the Rings. ¿¹¸¦ µé¾î : ¸¸¾à ³¯Â¥´Â "³ª´Â 20 ¹ø º» ¿µÈ¸¶´Ù °¢°¢ÀÇ ¹ÝÁöÀÇ Á¦¿Õ"±×·¯³ª ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¹Ì¿öÇÏ´Â ¹ÝÁöÀÇ Á¦¿Õ ȸ½Å¿¡ ÁÁÀº ¹æ¹ýÀ» º¸¿´´Ù "¿Í °°Àº ³×, ³» »ýÀü¿¡·ÎÀÇ Á¦¿Õ ¹ÝÁöÇÕ´Ï´Ù. What do you like so much about it?¡± By saying this, you are both stating your opinion and showing interest in theirs. ±×°Í¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¸¹ÀÌó·³ ¹«¾ùÀ»? "À» ¸»ÇÏÁö¸¸, ´ç½ÅÀº ´ç½ÅÀÇ ÀǰßÀ» µÑ ´Ù Ç¥½ÃÇÏ°í ±×µéÀÇ °ü½ÉÀ» Ç¥½ÃÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Remember that the more you know about each other, the better, stronger, and longer the relationship will be, and you¡¯ll get beyond that second date. ¼·Î¿¡ ´ëÇØ ´õ ¸¹Àº °ÍÀ» ¾Ë°íÇÑ´Ù´Â °ÍÀ» ¸í½ÉÇϽʽÿÀÀÌ ³ôÀ»¼ö·Ï, ´õ °ÇÑ, ±×¸®°í ´õ ÀÌ»óÀÇ °ü°è°¡, ±×¸®°í ±× ¿Ü¿¡µµ µÎ ¹øÂ° °æ±â¸¦ ¾òÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
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