Christian Dating Bill of Rights

Every dating relationship, including Christian dating ones, is a give and take proposition. In a way, a Christian dating relationship is sort of like a social contract. Each Christian dating partner has certain inalienable rights, but also an obligation to treat their Christian dating girlfriend or boyfriend the same way they would like to be treated. that is the “Golden Rule” after all, right? Christian dating relationships invariably fail when one person violates the rights of the other.

Understanding what your Christian dating rights are may help you avoid entering or staying in a dating relationship with some jerk, while at the same time helping you enjoy your dating experience to the max.

Christian Dating Rights

Christian Dating Right 1:

You have the right to be told the truth by your Christian dating “soul-mate“. You will find liars online and offline, but you won’t have to put up with this garbage if you know the signs of a liar. See this Christian dating article if you think you may be dating a married person.

Christian Dating Right 2:

You have a right not be abused in any way (physically, emotionally or spiritually) by your girlfriend or boyfriend, but to be treated with the utmost respect. Unfortunately, many Christian daters, especially women, stay in abusive relationships because they don’t know the difference.

Christian Dating Right 3:

You have the right to disagree and have own opinions and beliefs as equal Christian dating single. Some couples fail in this area because they either don’t know how to disagree and argue constructively, or one person tries to “lord it over the other.” In line with this thought, and contrary to some Christian guys’ beliefs, a Christian girlfriend is under no obligation to be submissive to her Christian boyfriend. Learning to be mutually submissive is key to any relationship, including a Christian marriage.

Christian Dating Right 4:

You have the right to break up from your Christian dating relationship.

Christian Dating Right 5:

You have a right to outside of your friend’s sphere of influence. Co-dependency has no place in a healthy Christian dating relationship.

If you are a single Christian with your own thoughts Christian dating, please feel free to share your thoughts in order to help others.

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Soul-mate Test-How to Make Sure You Don’t Marry a Loser
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Christian Dating Truths

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Christian Dating Truths

Christian dating can be both wonderful and frustrating at the same time. There are so many different voices out there expounding their beliefs about Christian dating. Some of the voices out there are asking questions like: “Should we choose courtship over Christian dating?” “What are the signs of a good Christian dating relationship?” “If I can’t find a date through friends and church, how would I go about trying out a Christian dating service?”

Christian Dating Teaching

So what are your views about Christian dating? If you’re looking for some solid teaching on Christian dating, the following Christian pod-cast from the Journey Church* speaks about the present dating culture. You will definitely be uplifted by this message, which hits on the real purpose of dating. After all, there’s a between meeting attractive Christian singles and finding the true love of your life.

Enjoy our church pod-casts! If you have a Christian dating or singles related message you would like converted and pod-casted on our Christian dating site, please just let us know. Blessings!

Note: The Journey Church has some awesome Christian singles groups, and serves New York City and the surrounding boroughs including Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island and Long Island.

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Christian Dating Services for Single Christians

The Christian Dating Services like eHarmony listed on Christian Dating Service PLUS are the most popular dating sites Christian singles use. In fact, one of the purposes of this website is to help singles find godly relationships through reputable Christian dating services. We felt especially strongly about this since there are so many dating websites purporting to be Christian dating services.

Before Using Christian Dating Services

If you’re thinking about using Christian dating services, please keep in mind the following dating advice before taking the plunge:

Christian Dating Services Are Not The Be All To End All.

Don’t get me wrong, there are lots of benefits to using online Christian dating services. However, the above statement needs emphasis because the mullti-million dollar ad campaigns of some Christians dating services like eHarmony Dating Service and Perfectmatch.com make it seem like finding a Christian soul mate will be an “in the bag” experience if only you use their dating services. Of course, that’s simply not the case. Online Christian dating services are, however, one of a number of great tools God uses to help Christian singles meet and marry.

Christian Dating Services Have A Learning Curve.

That’s right. Some Christians get frustrated when using Christian dating services because they are not able to find a decent date. Ever wonder why? Here are the top reasons some singles have a poor online dating experience:

• The databases and search features of the Christian dating services they are using are not that good.
• The poor single guy or girl doesn’t know how to begin using Christian dating services .
• Failure results due to a combination of the above two reasons.

Most of the Christian dating services, including those reviewed on this site, offer free trial memberships with no obligation. Under these circumstances (No, I’m not cheap, just a little thrifty!), I recommend joining a number of Christian dating services in order to familiarize yourself with what each offers (search, chat, forums, penpals, prayer,etc), and how they work. Read this to understand why this is a good idea.

Christian Dating Services Pre-Dating Checklist

You’re almost ready to launch into using online Christian dating services. That’s great! Going over some pre-dating tips will not only help you keep a Christian perspective, but may also keep you from making some stupid, costly mistakes you will regret later. Have fun!

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