Great Christian Boyfriend-Girlfriend Signs

Looking to find a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend.? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs of a worthwhile Christian boyfriend or girlfriend:

Top 7 Great Christian Boyfriend/Girlfriend Signs

1. Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember, if a Christian girlfriend or boyfriend loves the Lord above all, she or he will also be able to love you with more passion and purity.
2. They have a network of loving relationships. Jesus said we can identify people by the fruit of their lives. If your prospective Christian boyfriend or girlfriend has had dysfunctional or unloving relationships with most of the closest people around him (ie: parents, friend, ex-girlfriends, etc), what makes you think that your dating relationship will fare any better? Conversely, if the have great relationships already formed, you pretty much know you are dealing with the caring person capable of commitment and intimacy.
3. They speak the truth in love. Many of us have had the unfortunate experience of dealing with boyfriends or girlfriends who are liars and cheaters. As we wrote elsewhere, the ideal soul mate will be be able to lovingly express the truth to you, even when it hurts.
4. They don’t hold grudges. 1Corinthians 13:5 states love keeps no record of wrong. Fact is, we’re all gonna be needing forgiveness now and again in all our relationships. If your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend finds it hard to show forgiveness, and keep harping on wrongs done, chances are this is not the dating match for you.
5. They love are faith-filled optimists and love having fun. Did you ever notice how contagious light-hearted people are? Life is hard at times, but hanging around a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend who empathizes the positive goes a long way.

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Romance Tips for Dating

Many singles come to this site in search of romance tips for dating. Many are also surprised to find a Christian dating site giving out romance tips, because to them, the two simply don’t mix. Of course, nothing can be further from the truth.

Romance Tips Dating Podcast

Not only is the Bible chock full of romance tips for single teens and adults, one can also find dozens of christianchurches podcasting messages about dating relationships. Our church podcast of the week comes from Ben Hodges of Four Corners Community Church , near Cinnicinati, Ohio. This new church plant is geared mostly toward the needs of Gen X and Millennial Singles, but all will enjoy Ben’s message about romance tips on dating.

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Control Freaks in Dating

Have you ever dated a control freak? While we’re on the topic, are you a control freak? Yes, even Christian singles can be control freaks. Control freaks can be both male and female, and at first can come across as quite appealing. However, as the dating relationship progresses a control freak will intensify his or her acting out until it becomes overwhelming for the other partner.Control freaks make for horrible Christian marriage partners. Unfortunately, it’s very difficult to spot “a freak” early on in the courtship or dating process. Yet, understanding some of the signs of a control freak can help singles avoid getting burned in the long run. Who needs the pain, right?

Control Freak Signs

In considering whether or not you are dating a control freak, consider the following questions:

• Is he or she overly jealous and or possessive?
• Does your date like to take charge by planning all the details of your dates?
• Does he or she always know best about what you need to read, eat, see, wear, or hear?
• Is it difficult to express your own beliefs or opinions around your date?
• Does he or she always need to dominate a conversation?
• (Specially for Christian single women) Does he insist on you submitting to him as your spiritual leader even though you are not married?

The bottom line is control freaks like to be in charge. If you answered “yes” to one or more of the above questions, you are probably dealing with the control freak. You may also want to consider whether or not you in fact are a victim in an abusive relationship.

Are you a single Christian with something to share about control freaks?

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