Dating After a BreakUp约会后分手 0 0
Dating约会 after serious relationship breakup can be tricky experience for any single, Christian or not.经过认真的关系破裂，可棘手的经验，任何单一的，基督教或没有。 Self esteem issues自尊问题 , rejection and the ever lurking possibility of a rebound relationships are things singles need to be cognizant of after reentering the the dating world after a breakup. ，排斥和不断隐患的可能性反弹关系的东西，单打必须认识到后重返该约会后的世界分裂。
Do you think you are ready for dating after a breakup?你认为你已准备就绪，约会后分手？ Most experts in the field suggest daters wait at least a year after you break up, whether you’re thinking about dating after a最该领域的专家建议daters至少等待一年之后，你打破了，您是否思考约会后 divorce离婚 or coming out of a dating relationship that lasted for more than 1 year.或走出来一个约会的关系，持续1年以上。 Consider the following questions as you ponder if you are ready for dating after a breakup:考虑下列问题正如你想想如果你已准备就绪，约会后解体：
- Do you hold bitterness or an unforgiving spirit toward your ex dating partner?你持有的辛酸或一个无情的精神，对您的前约会伙伴？
- Were you sexually active during your relationship?你的性活跃期间，您的关系？
- Do you have dreams of getting back with him or her?你有梦想，找回与他或她？
Answering yes to any of the above means you are DEFINITELY not ready to get back into the dating market.回答是上述任何手段，你肯定是不准备重新进入市场的约会。 If you feel you pass the test and are ready to date again, here are some tips:如果您觉得通过测试，并愿意日期再次，这里有一些提示：
First of all, now that you are single take some time to enjoy your freedom.首先，你现在是单身需要一段时间才能享受你的自由。 Whatever you do, don’t rush to get into another relationship just because you want to be in one.无论你怎么做，千万不要急于进入另一个的关系，只是因为你想成为在一。 You will only cause hurt feelings and broken hearts.您将只会造成伤害的感情，和破碎的心。 Take some time to move on and think about what you are looking for in a需要一些时间动议，并想一想，你在找什么，在一 relationship关系 . 。
Remember to accept other people that you date for who they are.记得要接受其他人，您的日期他们是谁。 Some people look for somebody exactly like their ex and reject everyone who is different.一些人找，有人完全一样，他们当然拒绝大家谁是不同的。 Other people try to avoid anybody who reminds them of their ex.其他人应尽量避免任何人谁想起他们的前。 Just accept people for who they are and if you feel a connection, don’t be scared to enter a relationship, and do not compare people to your ex.刚刚接受人民对他们是谁，如果你觉得一个连接，不要害怕进入一个关系，不比较，人们到您的特惠。
Don’t expect a date to end up in a long term不要指望一个日期，结束了在长期 relationship关系 . 。 If you do this, you will be setting yourself up for another fall.如果你这样做，您将被设定为自己的另一下降。 Remember that you cannot act the same way with a new person as you did with your ex, but don’t hesitate to enjoy yourself and do the same activities that you did with your ex before the relationship became very serious.请记住，你可以不采取行动同样的方式与一个新的人，正如你没有与您的特惠，但不要犹豫，尽情享受和做同样的活动，您与您的前前的关系变得非常严重。
Above all have fun.上述所有的乐趣。 If you cannot enjoy yourself because you are still too hurt, then you should hold off on dating for a while more.如果您不能享受自己，因为你仍然过于伤害，那么你应该暂缓对约会，而更多的。
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