Relationship Break Ups关系突破的UPS (share thoughts?) （共享的思考？ ）
Believe it or not, instead of dating issues the topic of relationship break ups takes up most of the mail we receive at Christian Dating Service Plus!相信它或不是，不是约会的问题，话题的关系，打破起伏占用了大部分的我们收到的邮件在基督教约会服务加上！ I guess the reason for this is that relationship break ups are one of the most painful experiences to endure, right up there with我猜想，原因是这种关系打破的UPS是最痛苦的经历，忍受，直至有同 unrequited love无偿的爱 . 。
The fact is, relationship breakups cause lots of事实上，关系碎裂的原因很多 heartbreak,心碎， even when we know it wasn’ta healthy relationship and we probably should have甚至当我们知道这不是健康的关系，我们大概应该有 dumped i倾倒i ta while back.电讯管理局局长，而回。 Why do relationship breakups cause so much pain?为什么这样做的关系，碎裂的原因这么多的痛苦？ It’s simple.它的特点是简便。 Whenever we invest our time, money and heart into someone it turns into major disappointment if a relationship breakup occurs.每当我们投资我们的时间，金钱和心脏有人到它会变成主要的失望，如果关系破裂的发生。
Relationship Break Ups cause singles to grieve loss in a number of ways:打破关系起伏的原因单打，以悲痛的损失在若干方面：
- A relationship break up means loss of friendship的关系，打破手段损失的友谊
- A relationship break up involves loss of a vision of “things that could have been”的关系，打破涉及损失的远见“的事情，可能已”
- A relationship break up could entail的关系，打破可能导致 loss of self esteem损失自尊
Overall, no one should go through the break up of a serious relationship without help.整体而言，任何人都不应通过打破一项严重的关系没有帮助。
