Sex Addicts Anonymous Anyone?(share thoughts?)

sex adddicts anonymous

Know anybody who may need sex addicts anonymous? Fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of Christians, there are probably many sex addicts in the church who could use a good sex addicts anonymous small group. . For crying out loud, a few years back Focus on the Family estimated that 25% of Christian ministers were sex addicts, addicted to stuff like internet porn and masturbation. Many of these folks have suffered in much pain, shame and guilt, feeling they had no where to dump the burdens of their hearts.

Sex Addicts and Christian Singles

The great thing about have a Christian singles site is that many can share their deepest sex secrets without worrying that they will be scorned. It’s a sad and despicable thing that most churches don’t provide this kind of environment, but just sweep the topic of sex addicts under the rug, making believe the problem is not even in existence. This behavior only encourages singles to hide their own desperate state instead of seeking help in a sex addicts anonymous program.

If we as a church really want to shine for Jesus, we need to be transparent to the world, scars and all. Let it all hang out (no pun intended) and let people see what God’s amazing forgiveness and grace is all about. Having dabbled in pornography myself I am familiar with the vicious cycle of the sex addict: Excitement-Guilt-Despair, but also of the way to victory in this area that is literally eating the heart and soul out of the next generation of single Christians.

Our Christian podcast on sex addicts breaks the mold of what we usually find in most churches and I am thankful for men of God like Pastor Steve Nicholson, of the Vineyard Christian Church of Evanston Illinois (IL) for his sharing. This message on this difficult topic will be sure to help many singles languishing alone in their pain and loneliness.

Sex Addicts Signs

Are you a sex addict?

Rate yourself on these questions:

* Do you feel like you’ve lost the ability to control your sex life (went over boundary lines you know you should not have, unable to stop sexual acting out even though you confessed them to God and made promises to Him)?

* Is your risky sexual behavior causing your life to be effected negatively in other areas of like health, work, church, present relationships or the law

* Do you obsess or dwell over sexual activity even when you try not to?

* Do you keep secrets about your sex life fom the closest people in your life? Or would you say you are living a double life?

If you answered yes to any of the above you need help for a possible sexual addiction.

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Great Sex Tips for Christians(share tips?)

Great sex tips anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, “Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic ‘great sex tips’ on a Christian website?” Just chill, ok?

Great Sex Tips-Why Talk About It?

First of all, God created sex and He wants us to enjoy it to the max in the way in which he designed it.

Second, just because the world has turned something God has blessed and called good into something ugly doesn’t mean we should not broach the subject. Why let the devil and the ungodly monopolize the topic?

Third, the best great sex tips are actually found between the pages of the Bible.

Lastly, if only more Christian singles (and all Christians for that matter) had a forum or outlet to discuss their sexual struggles in a safe and biblical way we would have less sin and heartache in our lives and churches. Sweeping our sexual impurities under a rug leads to hypocrisy and relaonship disaster. Believe me, we get dozens of poor single Christians sharing their secret sins and struggles with us because many churches refuse to confront this issue head on. How sad!

Great Sex Tips Podcast

Well thank God there are still some pastors who are not afraid of offending people by confronting tough issues in a biblical way. In our Church podcast of the week, Pastor Matt Keller of the Next Level Church in Fort Myers, Florida (FL) brings us some of the best great sex tips you will ever want to need to hear.

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Homosexuality, the Bible and Singles(share views?)

homosexuality and the bible

Let’s talk about something non-controversial: Homosexuality and the Bible. Actually, put ten random singles in a room to discuss homosexuality and the Bible, or what the Bible teaches about homosexuality, and you will get a garden variety of answers at odds with each other.

As a Christian singles living in a secular world, we are constantly bombarded with unbiblical views about homosexuality and almost any other hot topic mentioned in the Bible. I find it ironic that the secular press seems to write more about homosexuality and the Bible than Christians. Yet, the subject of homosexuality and the Bible affects many single Christians reading this article.

Some of us, like myself have relatives, friends and co-workers who are gay or lesbians. I’m thinking right now of one particular friend who is in a Christian dating relationship with a girl right now, but is struggling with homosexuality. I know there will be some Christians reading this article who are struggling in this area, and do not know where to turn. Other singles have just found out that the person they are dating is a homosexual. Talk about surprises!
In light of what is going on in our society, you would do well asking yourself the following questions:

  • Are you theologically at peace about homosexuality and what the Bible teaches about homosexuals?
  • How would you answer an unbelieving world about homosexuality and the Bible?
  • Do you know how you would minister to a homosexual? Would you be protesting homosexuality by marching with a sign filled with Bible verses and slurs? Would you accept his or her lifestyle?
  • Where is the heart of Jesus and the Bible on homosexuality and the one who practices homosexual behaviour?

Recently, I found one of the most balanced messages on homosexuality and the Bible I have ever heard. In our Christian podcast of the week Pastor Steve Nicholson of Vineyard Church in Indianapolis, Indiana (IN) brings the following message: ” A Christian’s Response to Homosexuality.” As you listen to this message on homosexuality and the Bible, pray and ask the Lord to lead you as you minister to other singles.

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Christian Sex Talk for Singles(share thoughts?)

Christian sex

As single Christians in this world, we can all use a good Christian sex talk from time time time. Why? Because temptation toward sexual impurity is always knocking at the door.

Christian Sex Talk Podcast

This week’s Church podcast on the subject of Christian sex comes from the Vineyard Christian Church of Evanston, Illinois. Pastor Steve Nicholoson’s Christian sex talk centers on the top 5 costs of sex without commitment. Akthough some of us may be thinking we’ve heard it all before, this Christian sex message is a great reminder and encouragement for Christian singles everywhere.

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Adults Dating for Sex-An American Idol(share thoughts?)

Did I get your attention? Yes, adult sex dating is an American Idol of USA society. Dating single adults have put sex on a pedestal, and are bowing down to it daily. Sex has become the cure all for many dating adults who are lonely and looking for more meaning in their lives. Unfortunately, many single Christians have fallen prey to sex sin because of a wrong view of sex.

Adult Dating Sex Ads

The porn industry is having a ball feeding on the pain of loneliness and endless desire dating adults have for sex. Get a look at this from a popular adult dating sex website: “Something missing in your life, looking for someone to have some fun with? Get it right here!”

In our Church podcast of the week, Pastor Paul McGovern, of Crossroads Church in Fremont, California (CA), brings us a message aptly called “American Idol of Sex.” If you are a single adult dating and having sex, or at least confused over the issue, this is a message you need to hear. Not to bang you over the head with a Bible (does that ever work anyway?), but to encourage you that there is a much better way filled with joy, hope and sexual fulfillment.

Are you single with something to share on this message topic?

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Dating Relationships and Sex for Singles(share with us)

Our church podcast of the week is all about sex in a dating relationship. People I have to tell you, Iv’e listened to a lot of messages on sex and dating relationships, but this is the most blunt talk about sex in dating relationship I’ve ever heard, and by far of the best. If you’re serious about sex and dating, you don’t want to miss this!

Dating Relationships and sex for singles Podcast

Lon Solomon, pastor of McLean Bible Church of Vienna, Virginia (VA), speaks to Christian singles a bliblical message on sex you will never forget. I promise. Basically there are two roads we can take when it comes to sex and dating relationships. We can do things the world’s way, and screw things up (no pun intended), or do it God’s way and have an awesome sex life. Are you a Christian single person with something to share about sex and dating relationships?

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Love, Sex and the Bible: Christian Dating Podcast(share thoughts?)

Love, Sex and the Bible. These are topics most all Christian singles find most interesting. This week our first Christian dating podcast features Pastor Tim Lucas, from Liquid Church in Morristown, NJ. His message, “Love, Sex and the Bible”, is an awesome talk about Christian dating. In addition to this Christian podcast, “Love, Sex and the Bible” can also be listened to via MP3 format on our on site media player (see below) or downloaded through your own computer. Enjoy!

Love, Sex and the Bible: Our First Christian Singles Dating Podcast!

By the way, each week Christian Dating Service PLUS! will be featuring a different podcast/MP3 with Christian singles messages, music or video from churches and Christian singles groups all over the world. “Love, Sex and the Bible” was just our first. Hooray!

Every week we reach thousands of Christian singles, so if you want your church’s or Christian singles group’s message, song or video podcasted on our site, please feel free to contact us.

Are you a single person with something to share about the Christian dating podcast, Love, Sex and the Bible?

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