Our church pod-cast of the week has an interesting twist on the subject of我们的教会荚果铸态的周有一个有趣的捻关于这一主题的 singleness 单一 and the single life, that may change your concept of singleness and dating.和单身生活，可能会改变你的概念，单一和约会。 Pastor Bill Lloyd of White Stone Fellowship牧师条例草案劳合社的白色石金 in Stuart, Florida (FL), speaks on singleness, dating, mating, love and marriage, all from the from the perspective of Adam and Eve, the first single guy and gal.在斯图尔特，美国佛罗里达州（佛罗里达州）说，单一，约会，交配，爱情与婚姻，所有从从的角度来看，亚当和夏娃，首支单曲家伙和半乳糖。 Did you ever look at this couple in that way?你有没有想过这样看这夫妇以这种方式呢？
Singleness Equals Incomplete?单一等于不？
Many Christian singles and certain married couples in the church equate singleness with incompleteness and discontentment.许多基督教单打和某些已婚夫妇在教会等同于单一与不完备性和不满。 If your view of singleness is in line with this view, this message will be encouraging and helpful to you.如果您的看法单一，是符合这一观点，此消息将鼓励和帮助你。
As a single person, are you作为一个单身人士，你 finding contentment in singleness找到知足，在单一 ? ？ Or do you consider singleness a plague to be avoided at all costs?或者你认为单一瘟疫要不惜一切代价避免？ Share your thoughts on singleness here, or分享您的想法，对单一这里，或 sign up as an author注册作为一个作者 at Christian dating Service PLUS!在基督教约会服务加上！
If you would like to have your church or Christian singles group’s audio message pod-casted through our site, just send a CD or tape, and we will gladly convert it (pun intended) to mp3 and put it on our site.如果您想您的教会或基督教单打组的音频信息，荚果浇通过我们的网站，只需发送一份CD或磁带，我们将很乐意转换（双关语意） ，以MP3和把它在我们的网站上。 It’sa great way to geometrically expand your audience, and drive traffic to your singles related ministry or site, since we reach tens of thousands of singles each month.它是一种以几何级数扩大你的观众，和驱动器的流量到您的单打相关部或网站，因为我们到达数以万计的单打每个月。
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So how much contentment do you have living this Christian single life?因此，多少知足，你的生活，这基督教单身生活？ Does your single life consist of daily drudgery, loneliness and boredom, or do you live with joyful contentment and a positive expectation of what today may bring?请问您的单身生活构成每日drudgery ，孤独和苦闷，或你的生活与欢乐的知足和积极的期望是什么，今天可能带来的呢？ If we were honest, most of us would say it’s pretty much a “mixed bag” of both extremes.如果我们诚实，我们大多数人会说，这几乎是“好坏参半”的两个极端。
Recently I spoke with one of my single Christian friends.最近，我以与我的一个单一的基督教的朋友。 She stated earlier that day she had experienced lots of contentment, just lounging in her backyard, and worshiping the Lord for all the beauty around her.她说，当天早些时候，她经历了很多的贡献，只是lounging在她的后院，和崇拜上帝的所有美容身边。 Yet, less than four hours later as she was walking on the boardwalk with friends, the mere sight of a dating couple walking hand in hand caused all that contentment to ooze out of her.然而，不到四小时后，由于她是走在浮桥与朋友，仅仅看到一个约会夫妇散步手所造成的一切知足，以软泥出她的。
As my single friend recounted the incident she stated: “I immediately started getting these negative thoughts like, ‘What could he possibly see in her ?’ and ‘It’s just not fair; when is my turn coming?’ I started the day in such a contented mood; I returned home that evening a discontented and depressed single woman, thinking I was doomed to be a childless old maid.” Does this sound familiar?正如我的朋友重新单一事件，她说： “我立即开始使用这些负面的想法一样， '是什么，他可能看到在她的呢？ '和' ，这只是不公平的;当轮到我来吗？ '我开始一天在这样一个知足的心情，我回家，当晚一不满和沮丧单身女性，以为我是注定要成为孩子的老女仆。 “这是否听起来很熟悉呢？
In the Scriptures Paul writes: “Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content”.在圣经中保罗写道： “不是我发言方面的需要，我了解到在什么国家，我要的内容” 。 (Phil. 4:11) Hello? （ phil. 4时11分） Hello吗？ The guy was in jail when he wrote this.这个家伙是在监狱时，他写道：这一点。 Is that remarkable or what?是显着或什么？
So just what does it mean to be content?所以刚才是什么意思要内容？ The gist of this word means to have a sense of sufficiency and contentment with one’s lot, regardless of external circumstances.精神这个词是指有意识的充分性和知足与一的生活，不论外部环境。 Wow!哇！ I wish could I could have the kind of contentment Paul spoke of, but too often I allow circumstances to choke it out of me.我想我可以有什么样的知足保罗谈到，但往往我容许情况下，呛出来的我。
Like my single friend with her story, many Christian singles, men and women alike, also tend to struggle in this area as they wait on the Lord for a mate.喜欢我的单身朋友与她的故事，许多基督教单打，男子和妇女一样，也往往斗争，在这方面，因为他们等待对基督为伴侣。 When we don’t see anything happening externally, we fret and worry.当我们看不到任何发生的事情，对外，我们担心和忧虑。 Yet, our Lord desires us not to react to every single twist and turn of life, but to proactively step out in faith, expecting His grace to be suffcient for us.然而，我们的主的愿望，我们不要作出反应，每一个单一的扭曲和之交的生活，而是要主动走出去，在信念，期待他的恩典是足够我们。
Contentment and Single Life Tips知足和单身生活的秘诀
If contentment is a touchy issue for you, here are some practical points that may help:如果知足是一个棘手的问题，为您，这里有一些实际点，可以帮助：
Don’t worry what others have, or what they are doing. 不要担心别人有什么，或者他们在做什么。
In John 21, Peter made this mistake when he looked at John’s life.在约翰21日，彼得作出了这个错误，当他看着约翰的生命。 “Hey, Lord, How about this guy?” Jesus’ response? “嘿，主啊，如何这个家伙呢？ ”耶稣的反应如何？ “Don’t worry about John. “不用担心约翰。 You follow me.” When we stick close to Jesus, and stay focused on Him, He’ll take care of your every need .你跟我来“当我们坚持接近耶稣，并留侧重于他，他会照顾您的每一个需要。
Be thankful in all circumstances (1Thes. 5:18) 感谢在所有情况下（ 1thes. 5时18分）
It’s really simple:You can’t have discontentment and be thankful at the same time.它的真的很简单：你不能有不满，并感谢在同一时间内。
Remember, contentment is a learned response. 请记住，知足是一个教训的反应。 (Phil 4:11) （菲尔4时11分）
It’sa mindset you need to practice, so don’t beat yourself up when you fall.这是心态，你需要实践，所以不要击败自己当您下降。 It didn’t happen over night for Paul, it won’t happen for you.它没有发生过晚，郑明训，它不会发生你。
Are you a Christian single with something to share about contentment and the single life.你是一个基督教单一的东西分享约知足和单身生活。 Help other singles by making a comment.帮助其他单打作出评论。
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