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Dating Match: Are You Dating Your Match?(share?)

Dating match

Dating match? When most Christian singles use the term, “dating match”, they are referring to a soul mate, that person with whom they feel they can spend the rest of their lives. Many have the following question when it comes to the topic of a dating match:

How do I go about finding my dating match?

This is an important dating question, which doesn’t come with any easy answers. However, if you are seeking your dating match, the following may help you along in the process.

Dating Match Checklist

Dating Match Tip 1: Get Your Own Stuff Together

This must be your first step toward finding your dating match. You’ve probably heard it before: “Before you can attract the right person (your dating match), you have to be the right person.” It sounds corny and old, but it’s really true. Think about it. If you don’t know who you are as far as what makes you tick, and/or you’re not comfortable with who are, are you in any condition to meet your dating match? Don’t even go there. You already know the answer.

Dating Match Tip 2: Cast Your Vision

This means envisioning your dating match by making a list of attributes of what you’re looking for in a dating match including looks, emotional make-up, spiritutal maturity, age, occupation, location, etc. Include your family and friends as you gather data because they will ensure realistic objectivity.

Dating Match Tip 3: Pursue Your Goal, Taking Risks by Faith

Your goal is to meet your dating match of a lifetime. Although there are many ways single Christians can meet each other, oftentimes this entails putting ourselves in a vulnerable position. If this includes using an online Christian dating service, make sure you do it the right way. As a side note, if you’re confused over the issue of how one can wait on the Lord and pursue your dating match goal simultaneously, read this.

In a forthcoming article, we will share how you will know it when you are dating your match. Are you a Christian single with something to share regarding your dating match?

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Creative Dating Ideas(share a tip?)

creative dating ideas

New and creative dating ideas are difficult to come by, but essential in order to keep your dating relationship with your potential christian soul mate fresh and exciting.

Most singles find it a breeze to come up with their first few dating ideas; however, it’s the fourth dating idea and beyond that dating couples usually find difficult to plan. That’s why we put together the following dating ideas arranged in categories:

Romantic Dating Ideas

Go on a picnic in the park, at the lake or beach
Go for a nice. slow drive in the country
Take a nature walk hand in hand
Go to the Boardwalk or Carnival in your area
Go to seasonal festivals (Strawberry, Lobster, etc)
Enjoy arts and craft shows together
Horseback riding
Go to a concert or play
Star gaze together. Look up when metor showers are prevalent, and wish upon some “shooting stars” while enjoying the summer breeze
Prepare a dinner together, and eat by candlelight
Go ice skating together
Go to a theme park
Go antique hunting
Go shopping at a mall you have never been to together
Take a trip to the city and window shop
Go to a movie and share a bag of popcorn
Go ballroom dancing, or take ballroom dancing lessons together.
Take a bike ride in the country, mountains or along the beach
Go to the zoo
Work on a puzzle toether while enjoying great conversation
Go out for ice cream at a quaint shop

Group Dating Ideas

Throw a fun themed (say Hawaiian) party
Have a barbecue
Get the board games out and play couples against couples or guys against girls
Play a sporting event like bowling or volleyball
Plan a progressive dinner at different friends’ homes
Miniature golf
Skiiing or tobaggoning
Camping

Feel Good Dating Ideas

Going to church services or church related activities together
Volunteer together at a local charitable organization like the Salvation Army or Habitat for Humanity
Visit a mutual friend or church family that needs encouraging, meals, etc.
Visit a nursing home

Educational Dating Ideas

Do a Bible book study together
Visist a museum or historical sight
Take a guided tour of a nearby city
Take a couple of lessons at the local community center on something that interests both of you

The above dating ideas are not exhaustive, but simply a way to get you thinking in “out of the dating box” ways. Please feel free to share your dating ideas with other singles by adding your comments.