What Christian Single Girls Want in a Guy什么基督教单身女子要在一个人

25 Responses to “What Christian Single Girls Want in a Guy” 25日的答复“什么基督教单身女孩想要一个人”

1. holly on May 13th, 2006 9:47 pm霍莉在2006年5月13号下午9点47
   

   #4 ＃ 4
   “Single Christian girls are looking for a guy who can provide a stable environment. “单基督教女孩正在寻找的人谁可以提供一个稳定的环境。 Translation: A single woman finds a man appealing who has a steady job and loving relationships with his immediate family members.翻译：一个单身女人，发现一名男子的吸引力谁拥有稳定的工作和爱好与他的直系亲属。 This shows the single Christian girl that the guy is dependable, consistent and able to provide for a family.这表明，单一的基督教女孩的人是可靠的，一致的和能够提供的一个家庭。 This issue of provision is extremely important for a any single woman looking for a mate.”这个问题的规定是极为重要的任何一个女人寻找一个伴侣。 “

   wow.哇。 mostly i’m speechless.主要是我无话可说。 not to say that christian women who think this is this much of a big deal are spineless doormats, but this is the 21st century.不是说谁基督教妇女认为这是这么多的一个大问题是骨气doormats ，但这是21世纪。 an organized religious institution that promotes female submissiveness is to be destroyed.一个有组织的宗教机构，以促进女性顺从是要被销毁。 not that the christian church does this en masse.不是基督教会，这是否集体。 but there’sa vibe out there that reinforces women looking for the knight on a shiny white horse instead of stripping off her clothes and riding that godiva white horse to assert her femininity and independence.但有盛传有，加强妇女寻找骑士的光泽白马不是剥夺了她的衣服和骑白马的Godiva断言她的女性和独立。

   well, not that i am condoning public nudity for all christian girls,嗯，不，我纵容公共裸露的所有基督教女孩， but come on.但来吧。 i’ma fan of dependable and consistent, but providing for a family?我是粉丝的可靠和一致的，但提供的家庭？ if yer choosing housewife, great.如果你们选择家庭主妇，伟大。 but being married to a house isn’t it for me.但正在结婚的房子是不是我。

   #5 ＃ 5
   “Coming on in fifth place is the issue of physical attractiveness.他说： “关于在第五位的问题是身体吸引力。 Christian single girls relay that it’s important (but not most important) that they be somewhat physically attracted to the man they marry.基督教单身女孩接力的itâ € ™重要（但不是最重要的） ，它们在某种程度上身体所吸引到的人，他们结婚。 In other words, when a single Christian girl looks upon you, she should find †something†appealing about you physically.换言之，在一个单一的基督教女孩视你，她应该找到€ €吸引力somethingâ有关您的身体。 You may not be a Brad Pitt, but you almost certainly have at least one feature that is above average in appearance.”你可能不是布拉德皮特，但你几乎可以肯定至少有一个功能，是高于平均水平的外表。 “

   fifth place is where a man should be “somewhat physically attracted” to the woman.第五位是一个男人应该是“有些身体吸引”的女性。 first we tell women to look for a man to take care of them.首先，我们告诉妇女寻找一个人来照顾他们。 then we lower women’s standards to settle for someone who doesn’t totally physically make you yearn for him while romping naked.那么，我们降低妇女的标准，收的人谁不完全身体让你渴望他同时romping裸体。

   this advice is dangerous.这一建议是危险的。

   in touch,联系，
   holly冬青
2. Kerry on October 10th, 2006 8:09 pm克里在2006年10月10号下午8时09
   

   Holly霍莉

   I have to say I whole heartedly agree with these 5 principles.我必须说，我全心全意同意这些5原则。 I was married 12 years to a man who I thought put God first in his life.我结婚12年来一个人我还以为谁把上帝第一次在他的生命。 I found out years later than he was not sold out to God completely and was dihonest in areas of his life that eventually lead to him cheating on me and our children.我发现后，他并不比销售一空上帝完全是dihonest在他的生活领域，最终导致他欺骗我和我们的孩子。

   I am fortunate that I am able to provide for myself and my children and God is the center of my life.我很幸运，我能够为我自己和我的儿童和上帝是我的生活中心。 Having been unequally yoked in marriage was one of the most painful ways to live and I hope that people reading this will seriously consider the implications of compromising these values for the sake of having someone to date/marry.不均诱发了婚姻中是最痛苦的方式生活，我希望人们阅读本会认真考虑的影响，损害这些价值观是为了找人，以日期/结婚。

   Putting God’s will before everything else is key.把天意面前一切是关键。
3. Elaine on January 23rd, 2007 4:53 pm伊莲对2007年1月23日下午4时53分
   

   Holly: I understand where you are coming from that one might assume the author is suggesting Chrisitan women just look for financial security and it seems out-of-date.霍莉：我理解你从哪里来，一个可能会承担的作者是暗示Chrisitan妇女只看金融安全和似乎过时。 However, like Kerry, I also was married, divorced to an unequally yoked man.但是，克里一样，我也已经结婚，离婚的不平等诱发人。 He was also dishonest and did not have many of the qualities on this list.他还不诚实，没有很多的素质在这个清单上。 He also cheated on his family.他还欺骗他的家人。 Having a man on fire for God is a good thing I belive.有一名男子在火灾上帝是一件好事，我相信。 Hopefully,the person is being honest in their presentation of that and not just playing a role.我们希望，该人是诚实的介绍，并不仅仅是发挥作用。
   As for the financial security.至于金融安全。 I believe BOTH men and women should look for this.我认为男女双方应该寻找这一点。 You never know what life may deal you… a divorce, being widowed, a disability of one spouse.你永远不知道下一步的生活可以处理你...离婚，成为寡妇，有残疾的配偶一方。 Looking for someone with a decent job, responsibility, and integrity is not antiqued or behind the times.寻找一名有体面的工作，责任和完整性不antiqued或落后于时代。 It does not mean necesssarily the man is going to be fully supporting the woman… although some couples do decide to go this route particulary when rearing younger children.这并不意味着necesssarily该名男子将是充分支持妇女...虽然有些夫妇做决定走这条路时，尤其是养育年幼的儿童。 I do agree a woman should be capable of and have the means to care for herself, but looking for a financial security and responsibility in a partner is a good quality and a wise thing to do.我同意一个女人应该能够和有能力照顾自己，但寻找一个金融安全和责任的合伙人是一个很好的质量和明智的事情。

   As for physical attraction, I believe what the author is saying it’s not the first thing on the list.至于容貌，我认为作者是说，这不是第一件事，在名单上。 If it is you might have your priorities messed up in looking for a life partner.如果这是你可能有你的优先次序搞砸在寻找一个生活伴侣。 Yes, we all want the red hot attraction, but that doesn’t make a marriage work and often wanes over time.是的，我们都希望红吸引，但没有结婚的工作，而且往往随着时间的推移减弱。 You can be attracted to people you have nothing in common with at all.你可以吸引到人你没有任何共同之处不惜一切。 But youu can still find someone attractive without the all-encompassing desire.但是youu仍然可以找到有吸引力的，但包罗万象的愿望。 Your attraction can grow for someone who you trust and you are in a secure relationship with.您可以成长为吸引谁您信任某人，你是在一个安全的关系。 I have dated men who I don’t believe were the necessarily most atractive men, but they did something for me because of their physical qualities and the other qualities about their personality I found alluring (see the list above).我已经月男子谁我不相信有一定最atractive男人，但他们的东西对我来说，因为他们的身体素质和其他素质对他们的个性，我发现诱人（见上面的列表） 。
4. Donna on January 31st, 2007 11:50 pm唐娜在2007年1月31日下午11点50分
   

   IMHO, what the author is saying is quite true although the fifth rule I think is true if you do “settle”. IMHO ，什么是作者所说的是真的虽然第五规则我认为是真的，如果您“解决” 。 I am not saying that physical attraction should be the sole purpose or the number factor in seeking a spouse but it is important.我并不是说物理的吸引力应该是唯一的目的或数量的因素，寻求配偶，但它是重要的。 It is far more important than saying “they (should) be somewhat physically attracted to the man they marry.” You should be VERY attracted to the man you want to marry!这是迄今为止最重要的说： “他们（应）有点身体所吸引到的人结婚。 ”你应该很吸引到该名男子要结婚！
   Also, one very important thing is missing here and that is a man should exude confidence in himself.此外，一个非常重要的事情就是在这里失踪，而且是一个男人应该流露出自己的信心。 Not to the point of being arrogant or prideful but he should be a man who is humble and comfortable in his own skin.不是指向被傲慢或prideful但他应该是一个男人谁是谦虚和舒适的在自己的皮肤。 There are way too many men who are not and they link themselves with women who are just as insecure and as a result you have 2 “half” people trying to be “one” and it can never work unless God is there to heal and restore.有太多的男人谁没有和他们联系自己谁妇女一样不安全，因此您有2个“半”人试图成为“一” ，它可以永远是上帝的工作，除非有医治和恢复。
   I have never been married, but desire to and I’ve come to realize that Christian people who want to be married need to spend more time figuring out who they are in Christ than on who they can grab and drag down the aisle.我从来没有结婚，但希望和我已经认识到基督教的人谁不想结婚需要花费更多的时间弄清楚他们是谁，在基督里，而不是谁能够抓住，并拖累过道。 In doing so they would have a much better chance of having a successful marriage.在这样做，他们将有更好的机会，有一个成功的婚姻。
   So men —pay heed to the saying to thine ownself be true—with a twist….becoming more like Christ and being bold without being brazen creates an attraction that would definitely lead to attracting a mate.因此，男性注意的话说给你ownself是真实的，与捻度... 。变得更象基督，勇于创造，而无耻的景点，一定会导致吸引了队友。 Women —you need to stop looking for you answers in a man and go to THE MAN.妇女，您需要停止寻找你的答案在一名男子，并转到该名男子。 If you desire to be married work on being a real woman of God (discover what that means), run after God, enjoy His presence and He will fulfill that desire for marriage.如果你要结婚的愿望的工作是一个真正的女人的上帝（发现这是什么意思） ，运行后，上帝，欣赏他的存在，他将满足这个愿望结婚。
   —Now existing the imaginary pulpit ，现有的假想讲坛 — -
5. mehrdad-sadeghnejad on February 17th, 2007 7:13 pm mehrdad - sadeghnejad关于2007年2月17号下午7点13分
   

   hi夏威夷
   I was a Moslem but I’m now a Christian of about 6 years.我是一个穆斯林，但我现在是一个基督教约6年。
   I want to be married to a Christian girl, but I live in IRAN.我要嫁给一个基督教的女孩，但我生活在伊朗。 Please help me.请帮助我。 Thanks.谢谢。 Bye附属的
6. timi on March 2nd, 2007 12:11 pm溶栓对2007年3月2日下午12点11
   

   Hi my name is Kushtrim, and I was a muslim but now I’ma Christian of about 4 years.您好我的名字是Kushtrim ，我是一个穆斯林，但现在我是一个基督徒约4年。 I want to be married with a Christian girl.我想成为已婚，有一个基督教的女孩。 Im from Kosova, and I live in Kosova.林从科索瓦，和我住在科索沃。 Please help me and pray for me.请帮我和你们为我祈祷吧。 Thank you very much.非常感谢。 I’m 24 years old.我24岁。 God bless you……………..上帝保佑你... ... ... ... ... ..
7. Christian girl on June 2nd, 2007 5:55 am基督教女孩2007年6月2日上午05点55
   

   What happens if the man I met has all the 4 values except the first?如果我见到了该名男子已全部4价值观除第一？ Would it be possible to get him return to God?才有可能让他回到上帝？
8. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on June 2nd, 2007 4:16 pm关于2007年6月2日下午4时16分
   

   Dear Holly and friends…thanks for your comments.亲爱的霍莉和朋友...感谢您的意见。 This top five list of things Christian single girls should look for in a guy was accumulated by interviewing single girls about their needs.这五大名单外基督教单一女孩应该寻找一个人是在积累的面试单一女孩对他们的需求。 Holly, I don’t know why the article would leave you to believe that you have to “settle” for a guy that does not appeal to you physically.霍莉，我不知道为什么会离开你的文章认为，要“收”的一个人，不向你呼吁身体。 We believe this it’s VERY important to be attracted to the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with.我们认为，这是非常重要的吸引你的人的开支计划，其余的生活。 How horrible would that be!如何将这是可怕的！
9. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on June 2nd, 2007 4:24 pm关于2007年6月2日下午4时24分
   

   Dear Christian Girl..I feel your pain..because I have been there.亲爱的基督教女..我觉得你的疼痛..因为我一直在那里。 Of course, your “friend” can change and become a believe in Jesus, but you can’t count on that happening.当然，还有您的“朋友”可以改变，成为一个相信耶稣，但你不能指望这种情况会发生。 The tough issuee, Christian Girl, comes down to whether we can hang on and trust Jesus to provide what’s best for us in the long run.艰难issuee ，基督教女，归结到我们是否能够坚持和信任耶稣提供最新最好的，我们从长远来看。
10. Chris Marsh on June 14th, 2007 4:03 pm克里斯马什在2007年6月14日下午4点03分
    

    On further reflection the 1.关于进一步的思考1 。 Christian single women want a guy who is passionate about his Lord makes sense in my life.基督教单身妇女想要一个充满热情的人谁是上帝让他在我的生活常识。
11. Desmond Dreyer德斯蒙德德雷尔 on July 18th, 2007 1:30 pm关于2007年7月18号下午1时30分
    

    I don’t totally agree with what has been said.余donâ € ™吨完全同意所说的话。 I’m 29 years old totally sold out for God属€ ™米29岁完全售罄上帝
12. T Rishun on July 30th, 2007 8:05 pm Ť Rishun关于2007年7月30号下午8点05
    

    I believe that everyone should first find out who they are as a people and then think about what a mate.我相信，每个人都应该首先了解他们是谁，作为一个人，然后考虑什么伴侣。 I agree with one writer, that two often broken hearts come together trying to piece together a life.我同意一位作家，这两个破碎的心往往走到一起试图拼凑生活。 Then we will point fingers if things don’t go right.然后我们将点手指，如果不去的权利。
13. Myka on November 26th, 2007 9:03 pm Myka关于2007年11月26号下午9点03分
    

    I’m in the same boat as Christian Girl.我在同一条船上的基督教女。 I do realize that a college relationship will probably not be my final one (I’m picky about who I date and have only had 1 boyfriend and 1 almost-bf).我认识到，高校的关系可能不会是我最后一次（我是谁我挑剔的日期，并只有1男友和1个几乎高炉） 。 I’ve been praying about it and am listening for that whisper in my ear.我一直祈祷它，我听的是在我的耳朵低声。 It’s hard to be patient and let Him lead me.这很难有耐心，让他带领我。
14. Guy on December 9th, 2007 7:06 am盖伊在2007年12月9号上午7点06
    

    I a 24 year old Christian guy, and I don’t agree with the above.我是24岁的基督教的人，我不同意以上。 I was told this my whole laugh.我被告知我的整个笑声。 I have strived to know God and be open about feelings in an appropiate and progressive manner.我知道上帝的努力，并公开感情在适当的和渐进的方式。

    I also have a stable job, no debt, and have made many sacrafices for my family.我也有一个稳定的工作，没有任何债务，并取得了许多sacrafices为我的家人。 I certainly have flaws but I seem to be as a good a bet for those qualities as anyone, and to top it off I am considered attractive.我当然有缺陷，但我似乎是一个很好的打赌那些素质任何人，并顶端把我认为有吸引力。

    Most older women have the criteria listed above, but the truth is that most Christian Woman between 20 and 29 just want a guy that they control and support them in their career.多数老年妇女有上面列出的标准，但事实是，大多数女人基督教之间的20日和29日只想一个人，他们控制和支持他们的职业生涯。
15. Orgerti on December 9th, 2007 9:23 pm Orgerti关于2007年12月9日下午9点23分
    

    Hi !嗨！
    I read carefully the article regarding the 5 top qualities that a man should have for a healthy relationship.我读的文章仔细的5顶端素质，一个男人应该有一个健康的关系。 In fact I agree and as more I read….i see that in some areas i need to work and improve only through by the grace of God.事实上，我同意，而且有更多我读... 。我看到，在一些领域我需要努力和改进，只有通过了神的恩。

    Hey Donna…thank you for the message because i believe the same thing….we should be complete and find our happiness in Christ first.嘿唐娜...感谢你的邮件，是因为我相信同样的事情... 。我们应该完成并找到我们的幸福在基督第一次。 I learned something important…that men should be bold and sometimes taking risks.我学到的东西很重要...男人应该大胆的，有时甚至冒险。

    Blessings祝福

    Ps: Hey Kushtrim, I prayed for you firstly because we are brothers in Christ and secondly, since we are patriot西蒙兹：嘿Kushtrim ，我为你祈求首先，因为我们都是兄弟在基督第二，由于我们是爱国者
16. Even Steven on January 29th, 2008 7:50 pm即使史蒂芬在2008年1月29日下午7点50分
    

    Reality check for Christian Single GUYS.现实检查基督教单家伙。 Women want a sensitive Christian single guy TO A POINT.妇女想要一个敏感基督教单一盖伊点。 Keep your mouth shut when it comes to doubts about things in your life or feelings of insecurity.请您闭嘴说到怀疑的事情在你的生活，或不安全感。 Get with your pastor or some sort of trusted mentor on this.让您的牧师或某种信任的导师在此。 Talking to your Christian girl is like trying to make her your therapist.浅谈您基督教的女孩就像是试图使她的治疗师。 She is not equipped for it.她是不具备的。 She will file these shortcomings in her “OMG he is weak” POP-UP folder, and never forget.她将文件这些缺点在她的“ 03他是弱”弹出文件夹，永远不会忘记。 Confidence in you is a perception for your girl.信任你的是一种观念的女孩。 Relax guys have fun, make money, trust that God will put that girl in your path.放松球员得到乐趣，赚钱，相信上帝将那个女孩在你的PATH中。 And you have to work that path, be on guard for women who Talk the nice Christian wife role , but can’t live it.和你的工作路径，警惕妇女谁谈好基督教妻子的作用，但不能活它。 ie If she is questioning how you plan a date and does not thank you for your efforts.即如果她质疑您如何计划的日期和不感谢你的努力。 Get ready to move on.准备好继续前进。 Until you find your wife candidate I strongly recommend NO EXCLUSIVE DATING.直到找到你的妻子的候选人我强烈建议没有专有约会。
    And I know you do not want to hear this but no sex, it will only lead to clouding your judgment about her.我知道你不想听到这个，但没有性别，它只会导致蒙上你的判断她。 If she is great in bed you will put up with alot of bad behaviour on her part.如果她是伟大的在床上你忍受了很多不好的行为对她的一部分。 Weak women use this as a trap, knowing this fact.弱妇女使用，这是一个陷阱，明知这一事实。 STAY STRONG SINGLE CHRISTIAN MEN, CHOSE WELL WHO WE BREED WITH .保持强劲单基督教门，选择井世卫组织，在种植的。 WE ARE NEEDED MORE THAN EVER.我们需要比以往任何时候都。 Amen阿门
17. fisher woman on March 27th, 2008 12:14 am费舍尔女2008年3月27日上午12时14分
    

    Christian single girls:the list seems to me quite guessed right.基督教单身女孩：名单在我看来相当猜到权利。 For me the 3rd point must be the 2nd important one, I love the men with sense of humor.我的第三点必须是第二重要的，我喜欢男人的幽默感。 And sincere, that is very important.和真诚的，这是非常重要的。
18. Eric on April 12th, 2008 4:16 am埃里克在2008年4月12号上午04时16
    

    Eric埃里克
    You must replace sense of humor with Prayer, “Those who prayed over came” goes the saying.你需要替换的幽默感祈祷， “谁祈祷超过了”违背说法。 There are lots of good people with a sense of humor but they them self struggle inside sense of humor could be considered as an extra thing, these are not the qualities Christian single should look for.有许多善良的人的幽默感，但他们自我奋斗的幽默感内可被视为额外的东西，这些都不是单一的素质基督教应该寻找。 When a man or women is connected to God by Prayer , reading the word of God their life change & you know what to do in what direction to go because God’s hand is on you.当一个人或妇女连接到上帝祈祷，读上帝的话，他们的生活变化与你知道应该怎样做什么方向去，因为上帝的手是你的。 The fact is when you do a survey People come up with so many suggestion such premarital sex etc..事实上，当你做了调查，人们想出这么多的建议，例如婚前性行为等。 They will say (If she is great in bed you will put up with a lot of bad behavior on her part) and most of it sounds true appealing to you flesh but at the end none of it works.他们会说（如果她是伟大的在床上你忍受了很多不良行为对她的部分）和大部分听起来真正吸引你的肉体但最终都没有工作。 The Bible is the ultimate book in Psychology it tells you about behaviorism and how to live life, it’s the source/foundation from which we derive what we say and do and in it you get the proper qualities a single Christian girls & Boys should look for when choosing a sole mate.圣经是最终图书心理学它告诉您的行为主义以及如何生活，这是源/基金会从我们获得了我们的言行，并会得到适当的素质单一的基督教女孩与男孩寻找在选择唯一的伴侣。 First of all go on your knees and pray & you will not go wrong.首先请在您的膝盖和祈祷与你会不会出错。
    Eric埃里克
19. Eric on April 12th, 2008 4:24 am埃里克在2008年4月12号上午04点24分
    

    Noted, Thanks指出，由于
20. aien on April 17th, 2008 3:02 am aien关于2008年4月17号上午03点02分
    

    Wow, I can’t believe this!!!哇，我简直不敢相信这个！ I saw this site and found the EXACT top five things i want in a man.我看到这个网站，发现精确前五名事情我理想中的男人。 I’m praying for that kind of man…I hope to meet him soon…我祈祷这样的人...我希望能尽快见到他...
21. Matty O on May 2nd, 2008 11:53 am马蒂澳2008年5月2日上午11点53分
    

    regarding Christian single girls,I think in large part, Christian single women have no idea what they actually prioritize, and are largely informed by their culture much more than their faith community.关于基督教单身女孩，我认为在很大程度上是基督教单身妇女根本不知道他们真正优先考虑，并主要是通报了他们的文化远远超过了他们的信仰社会。 The high value on security is a very western and largely american value to hold.高价值的安全是一个非常西方的价值，主要是美国举行。 The reality of God’s sovereignty never really touches on women’s sensibilities.现实的上帝的主权从未真正涉及妇女的感情。 Safety and Security are relative.安全和保障是相对的。 If a guy is really passionate about the Lord, he is probably going to be doing work that is a) not very profitable in the eyes of the world (Galatians 1:10) b) worth being persecuted and even dying for, and certainly c) worth living in a way that favors simplicity and dependence over materiality and independence (1 Peter 4:12-13, Acts 2:32)如果一个人是真的热爱上帝，他很可能会做工作，这是）不非常有利可图的眼中，世界（加拉太1:10 ）二）价值而受到迫害，甚至死亡的，当然ç ）值得生活的方式，有利于简化和依赖的重要性和独立性（彼得前书4:12-13 ，行为2点32分）
    I’m not saying it’s wrong for a Christian to financially successful at all, but to do so in the pursuit of comfort or safety is kind of putting the cart before the horse.我并不是说这是错误的，一个基督徒在财政上都取得成功，但这样做，在追求舒适或安全是种将是本末倒置。 Job was probably the richest guy in the world, but in one horrible day he lost it all.工作可能是最富有的人在世界上，但在一个可怕的一天，他失去了一切。
22. Tony on May 4th, 2008 1:27 am托尼在2008年5月4日上午01点27分
    

    Do relationships between Christian men and women who attend different churches work, despite the fact that many men satisfy the requirements that Christian women desire in Christian men?基督教之间的关系做男人和女人谁参加不同教会的工作，尽管许多男人满足要求，基督教妇女希望在基督教男人吗？
23. abby on August 24th, 2008 7:54 pm艾比在2008年8月24日下午7点54
    

    i think christian women want a man who genuinly loves Jesus, a man who is disciplined in his walk with the Lord but also not too legalistic, holy, seperated unto God balanced and humble…我认为基督教妇女想要一个男人谁genuinly爱耶稣，谁是一名男子在他的纪律步行与上帝，但也不能过于墨守成规，罗马，告诉上帝分离均衡和谦虚...
24. Cyndi on December 17th, 2008 2:32 am王心凌对二○○八年十二月十七号上午02时32分
    

    In regard to Christian single girls, I totally agree with the 5 principles.关于基督教单身女孩，我完全同意5原则。 I am currently in a relationship with a not-so-Christian guy who cannot accept the fact that I am no longer sexually active.我目前在一个与一个不那么基督教家伙谁不能接受这样的事实，我不再性行为活跃。 We have been goin up and down about this sex thning and it’s about time that he just get it through his head that No means No. Hes says that he understands but continues to ask for it.我们一直在布莱恩上下对这个性别thning和现在正是时候，他刚刚获得通过他的头，没有手段Hes号说，他理解，但仍要求它。 What’s Wrong?什么问题？
25. CadyB on December 24th, 2008 5:54 am CadyB关于2008年12月24号上午05时54分
    

    Hi Cyndi,您好王心凌，

    I’m sure that the other people on this site will have a lot of insightful things to say to you.我相信，其他的人在这个网站将有很多有见地的事情告诉你。 But I can tell you by experience that things will probably not get better with this guy.但是我可以告诉你的经验，事情可能不会得到更好的与这个家伙。 It is just a matter of whether to break it off now, or let it go on until things get worse.它只是一个时间的问题是否打破它关闭，或者让它继续下去，直到事情变得更糟。

    In short, if he really loved you, he would not WANT you to compromise yourself.总之，如果他真的爱你，他就不会要你的妥协吧。 You have to make a decision that you are more valuable than he thinks you are, and break off the relationship.你必须做出决定，你的价值超出他认为你是和断绝关系。 Don’t get me wrong, I know that this is not an easy thing to do.不要误解我的意思，我知道，这不是一件容易的事。 But Cyndi, I can tell you as a sister in the Lord, you are definately worth more to God than how this guy is treating you, and it is extremely important that you not do what this guy is begging you to do.但是，王心凌，我可以告诉你，作为一个妹妹在上主，你是绝对值得更多的上帝，这个家伙是如何对待你，这是极为重要的，你不能做这个家伙是乞讨你做的事。 Keep in mind also, although you may love him, he is doing none other than the devil’s work in your life.也请记住，尽管你可以爱他，他这样做无非魔鬼的工作，你的生活。 In this way he is not loving you back.他这样做是不是爱你回来。

    Please take a moment and read Psalm 139, which says “I am wonderfully and fearfully made.” This Psalm will help you to see what an incredible creation of God you are.请花一点时间，并宣读诗篇139个，其中说： “我很奇妙和可怕的。 ”这诗篇将帮助你们看看令人难以置信的创造上帝你。 You are worth waiting for, and when the right guy comes into your life, you will be so glad you didn’t give yourself over to the wrong guy.你是值得等待，当权利人进入你的生活，你将很高兴你没有给自己到了错误的人。

    I will pray for you about this.我会为你祈祷这件事。 Please let us know how things go.请让我们知道如何去。

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