Posts from 2018

Posts from 2018

sex struggles for singles

Christian Single Sex Addicts Anonymous

Know any Christian single sex addicts? Perhaps they may need sex addicts anonymous? Fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of Christians, there are probably many sex addicts in the church who could use a good sex addicts anonymous small group. .For crying out loud, a few years back Focus on the Family estimated that 25% of Christian ministers were sex addicts, addicted to stuff like internet porn and masturbation. Many…
how to be rich

How To Be Rich as Christian Singles

Wondering how to be rich? Did you know Christian singles  worry more about money than relationships? That’s crazy but true.   In most Christian dating relationships, money issues can cause lots of problems!  Even if we try not to worry about money, it can still find a way to sneak into many different areas of our lives to create stress and even cause relationship problems. How to Be Rich as Singles Podcast  This week our speaker speaks out of 1 Timothy…
single woman seeking man

Single Woman Seeking Man

Are you a single woman seeking a man? Many single women are seeking a man for a serious Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage. There is certainly no lack of Christian relationship advice out there for single women seeking a man. But doesn’t it make sense that one of the first logical steps for attracting the right guy to date would be understanding what Christian guys actually need and want in a wife? Single Woman Seeking Man Podcast Some people…
lonely holidays

Lonely Holidays | Holidays Make Me Feel Lonely

Lonely Holidays and singleness often go hand in hand. Are you single, lonely, and just dreading the upcoming holiday season because they are depressing? I know holidays make me feel lonely.   If you are also in this category of being single and hating the holiday season, you’re not alone. Lonely Holidays Podcast Loneliness during the holidays is tough. The following Christian podcast is our Oasis singles Christmas Eve service. It’s very apropos for those feeling lonely and sad at Christmas.…
online dating profile

Online Dating Picture Advice

Here is some  online dating picture advice: Creating a great online dating profile without an online  dating picture of yourself is like having a nice, shiny new car with an empty tank. Huh? Yep, Christian singles who see your picture on dating service ads are over 12 times more likely to click on your dating profile to find out how wonderful you really are. For better or worse, while single guys are generally much more visual than girls, both sexes…
how to forgive a cheater

How to Forgive a Cheater | Forgiving Dating Cheaters

Learning how to forgive a cheater is one of the most difficult things in life. When I was a Family Court  mediator teaching how to forgive was one of the most important things we taught Yea, that includes learning how to forgive a jerk, abuser or user. Why? Learning how to forgive speeds the healing process, and prepares for future, healthy boyfriend/girlfriend dating relationships. Conversely, a lack of forgiveness brings bitterness and additional suffering. How to Forgive  a  Cheater Podcast…

Great Sex Tips for Christians

Great sex tips  for Christians anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, “Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic ‘great Christian sex tips’ on a Christian website?” Just chill, ok? Great Sex Tips-Why Talk About It? First of all, God created sex and He wants us to enjoy it to the max in the way in which he designed it. Second, just because the world has turned something God has blessed and called good into…
EROS DATING

Eros Dating and Christians

This week our Christian podcast is all about eros dating, sex and Christian singles. Sound interesting? Yeah, I thought so too!  Does eros have any place in Christian dating? Pastor Andre Wallis, of Bristol Vineyard in Horfield, Bristol, England, speaks on eros dating, sexual and relational brokenness in all types of relationships, including C dating. If you’re looking for some straight talk about your sex life in the context of Christian dating life, this is where to begin. Eros Dating…
preparing-for-marriage

Dating Tips on How to Prepare for Marriage

Looking for dating tips on how to prepare for marriage? Our Christian podcast this week is on dating tips, and  Pastor Matthew Ro, of the Journey Church in Atlanta, GA, gives us some dating tips  for marriage preparation. He speaks about finding the perfect dating match, and what true love signs to look for along the way. Speaking from Genesis 2:18-24, Pastor Ro’s dating tips cover the gamut from how to know you’re in a good relationship to courtship and how…
marriage builders for Christian Singles

Marriage Builders for Singles Podcast

Christian singles can learn a bunch from this marriage builders podcast for Singles on relationships and companionship. This week, Don Neff, pastor of The Worship Center in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, speaks on marriage builders, being single and companionship in a relevant messsage that will be sure to touch the hearts of all kinds of Christian singles. This would include never been married singles in their 20s, 30s and 40s, divorced singles, desperately seeking a mate singles, Christian single parents and widowed…
Divorce and Remarriage for Christians

Divorce and Remarriage in Bible

Divorce and remarriage is a hot issue in many evangelical churches. What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? Can Christians remarry? This is a confusing issue because  many Christian singles have been through a divorce. Christian Divorce and Remarriage What are the biblical grounds for divorce anyway? Does God speak against divorce & remarriage in all circumstances? If divorce is justified in certain situations? When is dating after divorce okay? Do the rules change if you are a…
Single Moms Tips

Single Moms Tips Podcast

Single Moms Podcasts? Looking for Single Moms Tips? The church needs to know that single moms of all backgrounds, whether divorced or married, have great needs, and meeting those needs can be powerfully effective in showing the love of Jesus to those single moms and kids inside and outside the church. Single Moms TIPS Based on our own interviews with single moms, and listening to the myriad of single moms podcasts out there,  here are some of the top “single…
good christian dating relationship signs

Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs

What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. Good Christian Dating Relationships Your dating interest (we assume he or she is a Christian) is growing more and more in love with Jesus. Just as important, he/she has not caused…
Soulmate Indicators

Soulmate Indicators-Recognizing Your Potential Mate

We’ve written quite a bit about soulmate indicators, and finding the ideal soul mate. Several of our articles related to soulmate indicators would include the following, both from a negative and positive perspective: Dating Match: Are You Dating Your Match? Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date Great Boyfriend-Girlfriend Signs Soul Mate Test-How To Make Sure You Don’t Marry a Loser Soulmate Indicators Podcast Whether you are seeking a potential mate online or not, the following Christian podcast  on…
Discover Your Christian Soulmate

Discovering Your Christian Soulmate

Discovering your  Christian soulmate? Most Christian singles who visit Christian Dating Service PLUS! are interested in finding that special soulmate or dating match that will lead toward marriage.  Discovering Your Christian Soulmate Podcast Our featured Christian dating podcast this week comes from Pastor Tim at  Liquid Church,  a contemporary Christian church located in NJ. Every few days our Christian Dating Advice site broadcasts a different podcast/MP3 with Christian singles messages, music or video. This week the topic is soulmates; however, we…
How to Break Up a Dating Relationship

How to Break Up a Dating Relationship

A famous 50s break up song gives us this little bit of dating advice on how to break up: “Breaking up is hard to do.” No, ya think? Whether you are a Christian single couple in a courtship or an online dating relationship, how you break up a relationship will be emotionally painful for both of you. If you are contemplating a break up of your dating relationship, considering the following dating advice may help you avoid a wrong decision,…
single girls

Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys

Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find a…

Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?

In this #MeToo era, Abusive relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not know it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article we will designate the victim as a “she”, over 10% of abusive relationships consist of women against men.…
cheating boyfriends

Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another…
dating mistakes women make

Christian Singles Dating Mistakes Women Make

Christian Single women can get a little confused looking for Christin Singles dating tips online. Part of the problem (no, it’s not the men) is that Christian singles dating online could find 1000s of different dating tips for single women, and some would be totally contradictory to one another. It’s easy to see how some single Christian women could make some dating mistakes. Rethinking Your View on Christian Singles Dating Whether or not Christian single women follow some of the…
eharmony dating services

eHarmony Dating Service

The following is our eHarmony Dating Service review, for this dating site which started in 2000 when Dr Neil Clark Warren formed it. eHarmony dating service allows free reviews of your matches, and is billed as the top Christian dating service in helping put together highly compatible, lasting relationships. Over 2.3 million people use eHarmony each month. In fact, a recent Harris Poll survey determined that the eHarmony Dating site accounted for hundreds of singles a day getting married after having first…

Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date

Some single Christians have no problems attracting a man or woman to date. Especially when using an online dating service like eHarmony.  However, attracting the right man or woman to date is often a separate issue. By the right man or woman to date, we mean that special person with whom you may wish to spend the rest of your life.  Your soul mate. Since you only marry a man or woman you date, it’s important to get it right.…
christian mingle

Christian Mingle Dating Reviews| ChristianMingle Dating Review

Christian Mingle is a leading singles online dating site whose purpose is to help Christian Singles meet each other in a comfortable and relaxed environment. On Christian Mingle there are a wide range of features including photo galleries, chat rooms, message boards, private mailboxes and much more.   How Christian Mingle Works Christian Mingle offers an unlimited Free Trial. All you need to do is answer a few simple questions to create your own  FREE profile Your profile activates on…
Christian Cafe

Christian Cafe-ChristianCafe Review

Christian Cafe is a Christian dating service for Christian Singles of all stripes. Christian Cafe features one of the largest databases of online Christian singles personals. ChristianCafe, like most of the other Christian matchmaking sites listed on our site,  offers a free trial period (in this instance 10 days) so you can test out almost all of the   features of this online dating site without obligation. How Christian Cafe Works Once you get a  Profile, which is much less…
baby boomer dating

Baby Boomer Dating Tips

Looking for Baby Boomer dating tips? If you’re a baby boomer interested in dating online, there are several things to consider. Christian dating services for baby boomers is not a new idea as they’ve been around for years. However, if you take heed to the following baby boomer dating tips you will have more chances for success. ONLINE Baby Boomer Dating  The first thing that you should be looking for in a baby boomer dating service, is to make sure…
single women dating advice

Single Christian Dating Advice

As a single lady, there is one thing I have always come back to which works for me like a charm. This is the idea of approaching male/female relationships from a “friends only” perspective. In the article which follows, I will explain why I believe other Christian singles should choose the “friends only” approach, as a safe and heartbreak free alternative to single Christian dating. Single Christian Dating : Why Friends? I have found among friends of mine that date,…
single moms

Christian Single Moms and Dating Tips

Single moms have it rough. Christian single moms who are dating may have it even worse: Not only do  Christian single moms have to deal with all the responsibilities that go along with being a custodial single parent, they also have to battle the stigma of being a single mom in the church. Whether we admit it not, more than a few women in the church look at single moms (especially if they’re hot looking) with subtle suspicion. Translation: Is…
christian single parents

Christian Single Parents

Christian single parents? Kermit the frog says it not easy being green. Move over Kermie, being Christian single parents is a much harder job…and more lonely. Perhaps this prayer by an anonymous Christian single parent says it all: “Lord, grant me Time Enough to do all the chores, join in the games, help with the lessons, and say the night prayers, and still have a few moments left over for me; Energy Enough to be bread-baker and breadwinner, knee patcher…

Marriage Misconceptions Singles Have

Many people, including Christian singles, have misconceptions about marriage. As an employee of family court who mediates with couples going through break ups, I know that misconceptions people have before marriage contribute to problems down the road in the actual marital relationship. That’s why it’s very important for singles to get a “reality check” on what marriage is all about. Today’s Christian podcast on marriage misconceptions is a great message for singles looking for a lifelong soulmate leading to marriage.…
single-parent-dating

Single Parent Dating Services

Online single parent dating services like Single Parent Christian Mingle which cater to single parent dating are one of the fastest growing dating genres on the web today. Part of the reason for the growth of single parent dating sites is that the sheer number of  Single Parents Dating is steadily increasing. Furthermore, according to the most recent U.S. Census figures, over 30% of American households are led by single parents. Another reason sites like Single Parent Mingle are having lots…
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Stress Reducers for Single Parents

Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. The following stress reducers for single parents  may help give you some relief. 7 Top Stress Reducers for Single…
finding true love

Find Your Love | How to Find Your Love as a Single Christian

Looking to find your love of a lifetime?You meet someone and may wonder: Is this the One? How quickly do you decide if this is the one? Imagine you are sitting in church and every Sunday he smiles at you. He never speaks, but he smiles every Sunday. Do you start imagining a two-car garage for matching mini-vans? Or the assistant manager at work keeps pausing at your desk to discuss the coffee flavors in the break room. Are you…
fears that keep women and men single

Fears That Keep Women And Men Single

There are many fears that keep women and men single. Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from that very goal. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some of the top fears single women and men face? A survey of several hundred singles revealed the following: Top 3 Fears of Single Women…
love shy singles

Love-Shy Singles: How to Overcome Shyness

Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder) or uneasy around the opposite…
low-self-esteem in singles

Low Self-Esteem in Christian Singles

Low self-esteem in Christian singles is keeping them from finding a serious dating relationship. It’s really simple: If you don’t feel real good about yourself, you’re not going to think anyone else will either. Sadly, problems with low self-esteem can not only effect our dating relationships, but all other areas of our life, including our emotional health. Single men and women with low self-esteem suffer more depression and discouragement, loneliness and anxiety in their lives than other people. These negative emotions…

Single Parenting Tips for Helping Your Kids

Need Single parenting Tips? Did you know that over 30% of USA families are run by single parenting households? We all know that single parenting is a difficult job. However, children residing in single parenting homes usually have it more difficult because they are deprived of the full time guidance and direction of two parents, which is so essential for their moral, spiritual and character growth. Single Parenting and Risks Having worked in Family Court several decades as a mediator,…
single parenting

Single Parenting and Single Parent Dating Relationships

Mixing single parenting responsibilities with a dating relationship is a tricky proposition for most single parents.  Christian Single Parents  have added stress units. Single Parenting and Becoming Relationship Ready There are several steps single moms and dads living a single parenting life can take in order to become what we call “relationship ready” for a healthy dating experience: Single Parenting Step 1: Blow Off Steam Successfully reducing single parenting stress in your life is an important first step single moms…
online dating sites

Online Dating Sites Christian Singles Use

Millions of Christian singles use many different kinds of online dating sites in their search for that special soulmate. The simple reason for this is that there are over 1000 different dating services worldwide. Therefore, it’s not only important for single Christians to be up to snuff in knowing what makes up a good or reputable online dating site, but also to be educated on what kinds of online dating sites are out there. Traditional Online Dating Sites These kind…

Catholic Singles Who Love Jesus

There are multiple thousands of Catholic Singles using Christian dating sites who love Jesus on a personal level. I should know because I know many Catholic singles like this. These types of Catholic singles would feel more comfortable worshiping the Lord with evangelicals in an Alpha Course or Billy Graham Crusade, than with their nominal, half-believing congregants. Catholic Singles and Online Christian Dating Services There is no wonder, then, that many evangelical Catholic singles would have a difficult time finding…
sex struggle

Single Parent Sex Struggles

The following story was written by a female single parent on the nature of her sexual struggles: I am a 36 year old female single parent and have been single for 15 years in this situation. I was sexually abused as a child and as such have been sexually aware since my early single digits. Because of this early awareness and other abusive childhood experiences I began to masturbate. For me this had become a habit and with it some…