Posts from 2020
Riots and Christian Singles | What Should We Think?
Simplistically speaking, a significant part of what America is witnessing on the streets are groups of multicultural 20-something singles who have become alienated from God, Country and Family. Some have crossed the line from peaceful protesting, which Americans should celebrate, to out and out violence. we have no one to blame but ourselves They bear responsibility for what they are doing. But we have let them down. Our families have let them down. Our schools have let them down. The…
George Floyd, Riots and Christian Singles
So who is going to suffer the most from the integrated (white and black) mob of thugs and looters who are now burning down our cities? The very law abiding, poor, disenfranchised folks who need our help the most! And most of these people are singles of one form or another! As if the pandemic is not enough. Single Protesters vs. Thugs But it’s very important that we clearly distinguish between the peaceful protesters (mostly young singles) who are rightly…
Love-Shy Singles: How to Overcome Shyness
Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder) or uneasy around the opposite…
What Christian Single Girls Want in a Guy
What do Christian single girls look for in a single Christian guy when contemplating a soulmate or marriage partner? This question always seems to percolate in any singles groups I have ever attended or led. We found some online surveys about Christian single girls (ages 18-70) you may find quite interesting. Single Girls and Men Okay guys, so you’re no babe magnet? Don’t worry about it because the good news here is that single Christian girls of all ages appear…
First Date Do’s and Don’t’s
Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on…
Dating Advice: When to Dump a Dating Relationship
Most Christian singles dating advice experts suggest that the primary purpose of a dating relationship is to determine whether or not the relationship is a match that will lead toward marriage. The problem is that many singles stay in potentially harmful dating relationships they should have ended long ago. When to Dump a Dating Relationship Whether the single people involved include a senior dating couple, single parents or college students, the top three reasons daters give for overstaying a romantic…
Dealing With Corona Fears and Social Distancing as Singles
Single people are used to being alone. But adding in Corona virus fears and social distancing could put a lot of us over the edge. Let’s face it, Zoom dating during a pandemic quarantine can only go so far. For many singles who are not in a dating relationship, social groups and church involvement are the primary places to get support and love. Dealing with Corona Fears Podcast What are singles’ major anxieties about COVID-19? After polling numerous singles, it…
Learning How to Argue and Fight
The best dating tip we could give Christian singles is learning how to argue and fight. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successully is the best way to a lasting and happy dating and/or married relationship.…