Posts from November 2023

Posts from November 2023

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Catfishing in Christian Online Dating: 10 Signs You May Be a Victim

Is there such a thing as catfishing in Christian online dating?  Online dating has become increasingly popular, offering a convenient way for Christian singles to connect and find potential partners who share their faith and values. However, amidst the sea of genuine profiles, there are individuals with deceptive intentions who engage in catfishing. Catfishing is a term used to describe the act of creating a fake online persona to deceive and manipulate others emotionally or financially. As a Christian single…
How to Survive Holiday Blues

Surviving the Holidays as a Single Person

Well, the holiday season is upon us again. Surviving the holidays as a single person can be tough.  As  single women and men dreading yet another holiday season alone, you’re probably struggling or thinking about: Where you’re going to spend the holidays to avoid depression and  loneliness How unfair it is that another Christmas is coming, and you’re still single What you’re gonna tell or do to those annoying relatives who ask you again why you’re not yet married. The holiday…
catholic singles

Catholic Singles and Online Dating: Navigating the Pros and Cons

Catholic Singles and Online Dating? There are multiple thousands of Catholic Singles using Christian dating sites who love Jesus on a personal level. I should know because I know many Catholic singles like this. These types of Catholic singles would feel more comfortable worshiping the Lord with evangelicals in an Alpha Course or Billy Graham Crusade, than with their nominal, half-believing congregants. Catholic Singles and Online Christian Dating Services There is no wonder, then, that many evangelical Catholic singles would…
How to gan self-confidence

How to :Gain Self Confidence for Christian Dating

Do you need to gain self-confidence for asking someone out on a date? Some have lost that “confident dating” edge because they have just suffered through a failed long-term relationship, and wonder if it’s worth the risk of getting heartbroken or hurt again. Instead of approaching dating with a confident and expectant outlook as they wait on God, they approach relationship possibilities with fear and anxiety. Whatever your reason for a need to gain self-confidence, remember you’re not alone. Many…
love shy singles

Love-Shy Singles: How to Overcome Shyness

Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Are you single, shy and looking for love? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with…
How to save a relationship

How to Save a Relationship: A Christian Single’s Perspective

Boy, wouldn’t we all want to know how to save a relationship? Especially if it’s your own or a loved one? Many Christian singles walk around heart broken over relationships that have ended, sad that they were not able to save their dating relationships. Maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship can be challenging, even more so when viewed through the lens of faith. As a Christian single, you may face unique obstacles in your relationships, but you also have access…
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How to Deal with Shame as a Single Christian

Wondering how to deal with shame as a Christian single girl or guy? The journey of faith is a personal and intimate one. For many Christians, the pressure to conform to certain ideals can sometimes lead to feelings of shame, especially regarding marital status. In a community that often celebrates marriage and family, being single might sometimes feel like an anomaly. How can one navigate these feelings of shame, while staying true to oneself and one’s faith? Here’s a guide…
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Single Parenting Advice Before Dating

Mixing single parenting responsibilities with a dating relationship is a tricky proposition for most single parents.  Christian Single Parents  have added stress units. This article discusses practical steps you can take to address this issue. Single Parenting Tips There are several steps Christian single moms and dads can take in order to become what we call “relationship ready” for a healthy dating experience:  Step 1: Blow Off Steam Successfully reducing  stress in your life is an important first step single…
christian dating tips for men and women

Christian Dating Tips for Men and Women

Are you looking for Christian dating tips for men or women? Dating tips are welcomed by most Christian singles, whether they are new to the dating scene, or just looking to find additional dating advice and assistance. After all, how many of us are dating tips experts with no need for learning anything more about the opposite sex and dating? Although there are tons of dating tips and articles out there, we sifted through the most relevant from a single…
finding the one

Finding the One: A Christian Single’s Guide to Meeting the One God Has For You

Finding the “one”, that special soul mate you wish to spend life with can be a tedious experience. This is especially if you’ve been through a couple of bad Christian dating relationships that have left you heart broken, burnt out or rejected. Finding true love is a pursuit that has occupied human hearts for generations. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it may often seem like an overwhelming task. For Christian singles, this search is imbued with even…
good christian dating relationship signs

Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs

What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What are signs of a healthy relationship when dating? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. signs you are in the right Dating Relationship Your dating interest (we assume he or she is a Christian) is growing more…
how to deal with rejections as a single person

How to Deal with Rejection as a Single Person

Learning how to deal with rejection as a single Christian? A Rejection hotline often offers this bit of dating advice that we all already know: Rejection is one of the hardest things to deal with as a single person. Getting rejected in connection with dating is absolutely the worst kind of rejection because it touches us on such a personal level. It doesn’t matter whether the rejection occurs while asking someone out on an initial date, or in the middle…
The four loves

The Four Loves: A Christian Singles Perspective

Have you heard of the four loves? Love is a universal and profound human experience that transcends boundaries, cultures, and time. For Christian singles, the concept of love takes on a special significance, as it is not only a fundamental aspect of human existence but also a core principle of their faith. In this article, we will explore “The Four Loves” from the perspective of Christian singles, drawing insights from the teachings of C.S. Lewis, a renowned Christian apologist, and…
dating during separation

Is Dating While Separated Ok?

Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue,  and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
christian single career women

Christian Single Career Women

Single career women make up 30% of the US labor force. If you are  a  Christian single girl and one of those single career women out there, you probably know well the pressures that go along with a single woman in the workforce. In today’s fast-paced world, Christian single career women face unique challenges and opportunities. Balancing a successful career with faith, family values, and personal growth can be a daunting task. However, with the right guidance and strategies, Christian single-career women…
cheating boyfriends

Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time…