Posts from 2023 (Page 5)
Missionary Dating for Christian Singles
For those unfamiliar with the term, missionary dating refers to a Christian dating a non-Christian with the hope of converting them to Christianity. Here, we’ll dive deep into both the advantages and pitfalls of this approach. The term derives from the idea of “going on a mission” to introduce, convince, or convert the other individual to Christianity. While some see it as an opportunity to share their faith with their partners, critics argue it’s fraught with potential pitfalls, including unequal…
Christian Counseling for Single Christians
25 years ago as a single Christian, I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term “ Christian counseling” an oxymoron. Well, today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. The journey of singleness, with its joys, challenges, and intricacies, is a unique phase of life. Whether you’re single by choice or circumstance, it’s a time that can…
How to Deal with Peer Pressure as a Single Christian
Learning how to deal with peer pressure is essential if one is to grow in the Christian faith. Being a Christian single person comes with a lot of peer pressure. There is peer pressure inside and outside of the church. It’s amazing how much peer pressure is put on single Christians to conform to other Christians’s wishes and ways of living. And how about those singles outside the church? Peer pressure can come from these singles as well in areas…
How to Forgive a Cheater | Forgiving Dating Cheaters
Learning how to forgive a cheater is one of the most difficult things in life. When I was a Family Court mediator teaching how to forgive was one of the most important things we taught. Yeah, that includes learning how to forgive a jerk, abuser, or user. Why? Learning how to forgive speeds the healing process, and prepares for future, healthy boyfriend/girlfriend dating relationships. Conversely, a lack of forgiveness brings bitterness and additional suffering. Cheating is one of the deepest…
What are the Signs of a Soulmate? Recognizing Your Christian Mate
What are the signs of a soulmate, you may ask? Is there really such a thing from a Christian dating perspective? For many Christian singles, finding a soulmate isn’t just about locating someone compatible. It’s about finding someone with whom God’s plan aligns. The term “soulmate” isn’t directly mentioned in the Bible. Still, scriptures provide hints of divinely orchestrated relationships, such as Adam and Eve or Ruth and Boaz. For Christians, discerning the signs of a soulmate often merges spiritual…
Fear of Intimacy in Christian Dating Relationships
Many Christian singles suffer from a fear of intimacy in their dating relationships. Sadly, this very fear is what keeps many people single. Intimacy. This simple word encapsulates a profound human need—to be known, accepted, and loved for who we truly are. Yet, many Christian singles find themselves wrestling with a fear of intimacy in dating relationships. This apprehension is not merely about physical closeness but delves deep into emotional and spiritual bonds. It’s about baring our souls, revealing our…
Am I a Sex Addict? Christian Single Sex Addicts
Ever ask yourself: Am I a sex addict? Know any Christian single-sex addicts? The fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of Christians, there are probably many sex addicts in the church who could use a good sex addicts anonymous small group. Many of these folks have sufferin much pain, shame, and guilt, feeling they have nowhere to dump the burdens of their hearts. Sexual desire is an intrinsic part of…
Best Sex Tips for Christian Singles
Best sex tips and tricks for Christian singles? Well, okay, maybe the words in the title “Best Sex Tip” is a little bit over the top, but I happen to know Christian singles are desperately looking for some straight talk on how they can balance the fact that God created them to be both sexual and holy beings. Sexuality is a vital aspect of human existence, intricately woven into our identity, relationships, and spirituality. For Christian singles, navigating the waters…
Living with Purpose: Navigating Singlehood from a Christian Perspective
Looking to live with purpose as a single Christian girl or guy? Whether single or married, almost all people desire to find purpose, to discover where they “fit in” to this thing we call life. It’s so sad that there are so many people out there who are not living with purpose and have no reason to get up each morning. Would you fall into this category? In today’s fast-paced, relationship-centric culture, the value of singlehood is often overshadowed by…
Managing Transition-Making the Most of Change as Christian Singles
Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life? Life’s transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat. Managing Transitions as Singles If you are having a rough go managing the transition and making the most of change, you are not alone. The fact is singles go through more…
Desperate Dating for Christian Singles
Are you a Christian single dating a desperate person? Are you a Christian desperate dater? Some single Christians seeking a true love relationship, sometimes are tempted to practice what we call “desperation dating.” This can occur for a number of reasons. Some singles do so out of loneliness and a lack of contentment. Some others see their friends getting married off and become afraid of being alone and single for the rest of their lives. Desperate dating is not cool…
Where to Meet Christian Single Women or Men
Ever wonder where to meet Christian Single women or men? I know some lonely Christian single guys in one of the small groups I lead who sure do. A typical question in our support group goes along these lines: “So how and where do I go about meeting a nice Christian girl?” Since we were curious ourselves (aren’t you guys?), we decided to do some research on the Internet. What we found was quite interesting. For example, In 2023 American…
How to Know God’s Will for You and Your Crush: A Guide for Christian Singles
Looking to know God’s will for your life and the one you like? Most of us would admit that we are a little confused about how to find God’s will for our lives, especially when it comes to finding Mr. Right or Miss Right. Finding love is a journey that many Christian singles embark upon. Yet, how do we understand and navigate God’s will in a potential romantic relationship, especially when it involves feelings for a crush? Here’s a comprehensive…
Fear of Being Alone Forever as Single Christians
Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of being alone The fear of being alone forever is…
Teen Dating Sites for Christian Single Teens
For today’s Christian teens, online teen dating sites and teen dating discords are a great way to find like-minded individuals. However, navigating online teen dating sites must be done with caution and a strong understanding of Christian principles. Understanding Online Teen Dating sites Online teen dating has rapidly expanded, with various websites and apps catering specifically to teenagers. These platforms provide a way to connect with others within the same age range, interests, and often shared beliefs. For Christian singles,…
Insecurity in Relationships-Christian Dating
As a Christian single, do you suffer from insecurity in relationships? If you suffer insecurity in your Christian dating relationship (like I used to) you probably have inner voices spewing insecure thoughts like these about your date: “This is too good to be true, she’s bound to break up with me.” “When she finds out what I’m really like she’s gonna reject me like the others did.” “I just know my date is cheating on me.” Navigating the intricate web…