Posts from May 2024
Second Date Tips
Woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn’t blow it on the first date. So just what would constitute a successful second date? The following second date tips come from several folks who have been there. Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. On the…
Single Parents and Prodigals
We already mentioned how difficult it is to be a Christian single parent. Being a single parent of a prodigal son or daughter is even more difficult. Our following single parenting podcast takes a biblical look on how parents should deal wit their prodigal kids. Other Singles Podcast: Christian Singles Relationship Advice Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service https://media.blubrry.com/oasissingles/christian-dating-service-plus.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Prodigal-Son-Luke-15-David-Butler-Oasis-Church.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Pandora | iHeartRadio | Podcast Index |…
Pre-Marital Questions for Christian Singles
A number of single Christians have written us asking how appropriate it is to ask pre-marital questions with a date. Navigating the path of Christian dating can be both exciting and daunting. As Christian singles embark on this journey, it’s crucial to build a relationship founded on mutual faith, understanding, and respect. One effective way to achieve this is by asking thoughtful pre-marital questions. These pre-marital questions not only deepen your understanding of each other’s faith and values but also…
Control Freaks in Dating: Signs You’re Dating a Control Freak
Have you ever dated control freaks? While we’re on the topic, are you a control freak? Yes, even Christian singles can be control freaks. Control freaks can be both male and female, and at first, can come across as quite appealing. However, as the dating relationship progresses a control freak will intensify his or her acting out until it becomes overwhelming for the other partner. Control freaks make for horrible Christian marriage partners. Unfortunately, it’s very difficult to spot “a…
Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?
Are you a single Christian in an abusive dating relationship? In 2024, Christian abusive dating relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not realize it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article, we will designate the victim as a “she”,…
How to Prepare for Marriage: Christian Dating Tips
As a Single Christian man or woman, are you curious about how to prepare for marriage? The process of preparing for marriage can be a mix of excitement and nervousness. As someone who’s been in your shoes, I totally get it! In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips to help you get ready for the adventure of a lifetime. How to get prepared for marriage Steps Know Your Identity Before you can share your life with someone else, it’s…
When and How to Introduce Your Child to a Significant Other
“I don’t like them! I’m never going to like them!” That exchange might be what your child says and what you think after you’ve tried to introduce them to your new significant other. If you’ve already introduced them and it hasn’t gone well, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle, so this article is more for when you are considering introducing the new person at all. is the timing Right How long has it been since you were…
A Sign a Christian Guy Likes You
Do you know a sign a good Christian guy likes you? The journey of discovering whether someone holds special feelings for you can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Amid the modern dating landscape with its nuances and complexities, Christian singles might often wonder: What are the signs that a guy is genuinely interested? While signs of attraction can vary widely, let’s dive deep into deciphering these signs with an emphasis on Christian values. 1. He Respects Your Boundaries Christian dating…
Find a Christian Singles Group
Are you looking for Christian singles groups in your area? One of the goals of this Christian Singles Ministry is to connect single Christians with local churches, Christian singles groups, or para-church organizations all over the country. Why? At Oasis Singles we believe fellowship with other Christians through a Christian singles ministry is essential for spiritual growth. our Christian Singles groups so far: Alabama Christian Singles Groups Alaska Christian Singles Groups Arkansas Christian Singles Groups California Christian Singles Groups Colorado…
Christian Dating Someone with Kids
When embarking on a new relationship, especially as a Christian single, dating someone with kids presents a unique set of experiences that can enrich your life in unexpected ways. It’s a journey that requires compassion, understanding, and a heart open to the blessings and challenges that come with it. Here’s a warm, personal look at what you can expect when you find yourself in this beautifully complex situation. Entering a Ready-Made Family Dating someone with children means that you’re not…
Should I Confess to My Crush? The Christian Perspective
The age-old question: Should I confess to my crush? It’s a situation many of us have faced, and the answer often varies based on personal circumstances and beliefs. For the Christian single person, the answer may be further influenced by biblical teachings, personal convictions, and the importance of faith in decision-making. Let’s dive into the considerations of confessing feelings to a crush from a Christian perspective. Understanding Love and Emotion First, it’s important to understand that having a crush or…
Is Dating While Separated Ok?
Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue, and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
Signs of a Humble Christian Single Man
Looking for a humble Christian single man? Finding a genuine, down-to-earth partner can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. For those in the Christian community, this search often focuses not just on mutual interests or physical attractions, but on deeper, spiritual qualities like humility. A humble Christian single man can be a rare gem—quietly impressive and rich in the fruits of the Spirit. 1. He’s Modest About His Achievements A humble Christian man doesn’t trumpet his own…