Posts from May 2024

Posts from May 2024

christian dating tips for men and women

Christian Dating Tips for Men and Women

Are you looking for Christian dating tips for men or women? Dating tips are welcomed by most Christian singles, whether they are new to the dating scene, introverts or extroverts, or just looking to find additional dating advice and assistance. After all, how many of us are dating tips experts with no need for learning anything more about the opposite sex and dating? Although there are tons of dating tips and articles out there, we sifted through the most relevant…
second date tips

Second Date Tips

Woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn’t blow it on the first date. So just what would constitute a successful second date? The following second date tips come from several folks who have been there. Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. On the…
single parents and prodigals

Single Parents and Prodigals

We already mentioned how difficult it is to be a Christian single parent. Being a single parent of a prodigal son or daughter is even more difficult. Our following single parenting podcast takes a biblical look on how parents should deal wit their prodigal kids.   Other Singles Podcast: Christian Singles  Relationship Advice Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service https://media.blubrry.com/oasissingles/christian-dating-service-plus.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Prodigal-Son-Luke-15-David-Butler-Oasis-Church.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe RSS
Pre-Marital Questions for Single Christians

Pre-Marital Questions for Christian Singles

A number of single Christians have written us asking how appropriate it is to ask pre-marital questions with a date. Navigating the path of Christian dating can be both exciting and daunting. As Christian singles embark on this journey, it’s crucial to build a relationship founded on mutual faith, understanding, and respect. One effective way to achieve this is by asking thoughtful pre-marital questions. These pre-marital questions not only deepen your understanding of each other’s faith and values but also…
Signs he is not the man God has for you

5 Signs He Is Not the Man God Has for You

In the world of Christian dating, discerning whether someone is the right partner is a crucial task. As a Christian singles minister, I understand that finding a life partner who aligns with your faith and values is paramount. While it’s important to give people a chance, it’s equally vital to recognize signs that may indicate someone is not the man God has in store for you. In this article, we will explore five significant signs that should raise red flags…
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Stress Reducers for Single Parents

Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. Especially if you are a solo parent. The following stress reducers for single parents  may help give you some…
How to ask someone out on a date

How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

Ask ten different people how to ask someone out on a date, and no doubt each person’s answer will be a little different than the next one. The following dating tips on how to ask someone out seeks to put together the best from what we’ve accumulated from other Christian singles. In the modern world of dating, finding someone who shares your Christian values and beliefs can be a beautiful journey. Asking someone out on a date, whether it’s the…

Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?

Are you a single Christian in an abusive dating relationship? In 2024, Christian abusive dating relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not realize it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article, we will designate the victim as a “she”,…
10 Signs of a Failing Relationship

10 Signs of a Failing Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles

The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
cheating boyfriends

Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time…
how to prepare for marriage

How to Prepare for Marriage: Christian Dating Tips

As a Single Christian man or woman, are you curious about how to prepare for marriage? The process of preparing for marriage can be a mix of excitement and nervousness. As someone who’s been in your shoes, I totally get it! In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips to help you get ready for the adventure of a lifetime. How to get prepared for marriage Steps Know Your Identity  Before you can share your life with someone else, it’s…
when to introduce your significant other to your child

When and How to Introduce Your Child to a Significant Other

“I don’t like them! I’m never going to like them!” That exchange might be what your child says and what you think after you’ve tried to introduce them to your new significant other. If you’ve already introduced them and it hasn’t gone well, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle, so this article is more for when you are considering introducing the new person at all. is the timing Right How long has it been since you were…
A sign a guy likes you

A Sign a Christian Guy Likes You

Do you know a sign a good Christian guy likes you? The journey of discovering whether someone holds special feelings for you can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Amid the modern dating landscape with its nuances and complexities, Christian singles might often wonder: What are the signs that a guy is genuinely interested? While signs of attraction can vary widely, let’s dive deep into deciphering these signs with an emphasis on Christian values. 1. He Respects Your Boundaries Christian dating…
Dating Someone With Kids

Christian Dating Someone with Kids

When embarking on a new relationship, especially as a Christian single, dating someone with kids presents a unique set of experiences that can enrich your life in unexpected ways. It’s a journey that requires compassion, understanding, and a heart open to the blessings and challenges that come with it. Here’s a warm, personal look at what you can expect when you find yourself in this beautifully complex situation. Entering a Ready-Made Family Dating someone with children means that you’re not…
Should i confess to my crush?

Should I Confess to My Crush? The Christian Perspective

The age-old question: Should I confess to my crush?  It’s a situation many of us have faced, and the answer often varies based on personal circumstances and beliefs. For the Christian single person, the answer may be further influenced by biblical teachings, personal convictions, and the importance of faith in decision-making. Let’s dive into the considerations of confessing feelings to a crush from a Christian perspective. Understanding Love and Emotion First, it’s important to understand that having a crush or…
dating during separation

Is Dating While Separated Ok?

Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue,  and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
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