Posts from September 2024
Waiting on God for a Spouse: The Rollercoaster Journey of Patience
Are you one of the thousands of people waiting on God for a spouse? It’s a delightful mix of faith, prayer, a touch of confusion, and maybe the occasional “Lord, did You hear me?” moment. As Christian singles, we know the Bible has a lot to say about patience, trust, and the whole shebang when it comes to waiting on God’s timing. So let’s dive into this exciting (and sometimes amusing) rollercoaster ride of waiting on God to provide a…
How to Take Care of Your Metal Health as a Christian Single
Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…
Meeting the Right Person at the Wrong Time: A Christian Single’s Journey
Ah, the classic conundrum: meeting Mr. or Ms. Right at what seems like the wrong time. We’ve all heard it: “I met the right person, but it was the wrong time.” Or, if you’re a Christian single, it may sound more like, “God sent this amazing person, but I’m just not in the right season to receive it!” Cue the dramatic sigh, longing looks at the sky, and perhaps a prayer asking, “Why, Lord, why?!” But let’s take a moment…
Why Christian Singles Should Never Settle for Less
As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a life partner. Waiting for “the one” can be a challenging, emotional,…
The Gift of Singleness: 5 Top Reasons Why You Might Have It
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?” You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…
Why Is Searching for Available Singles So Difficult? (From a Christian Single’s Perspective)
Why is searching for available singles so difficult? As a Christian single, let me tell you, the search for that special soulmate can feel like a scavenger hunt where the map is upside down, the compass points nowhere, and everyone else is sprinting ahead with a partner in hand. It’s funny how in a world teeming with people, finding the right person feels more complicated than solving a Rubik’s cube while blindfolded. Why does it seem so hard to find…
What to Do When You’re Not Sure of God’s Will in a Situation
As a Christian single, you’ve probably found yourself at a crossroads more than once. Maybe you’re facing a significant decision about your career, moving to a new city, or discerning if someone you’re dating is the right person for you. Whatever the situation, one thing is for sure: It can be confusing and overwhelming to figure out what God’s will is in these moments. Should you settle for less? But don’t worry—you’re not alone in this! Even though it might…
Christian Dating Advice: Those Who Have Been Sexually Abuse
When you’re dating someone who has been sexually abused, the relationship requires deep levels of compassion, understanding, and patience. As Christians, we are called to love one another deeply (1 Peter 4:8), and that love extends to helping our partner heal from past wounds, especially those as profound as sexual abuse. This journey can be challenging, but it is also one of profound grace, and your relationship can grow stronger through Christ. Let’s talk about the biblical approach to dating…
Embracing Your Identity in Christ as a Christian Single
Do you embrace your identity in Christ as a Christian single? How does your identity in Christ affect you as a Christian Single? When you think about being single, it can sometimes feel like you’re in some kind of waiting room—waiting for that special someone to walk into your life and sweep you off your feet. For Christian singles, that waiting room can feel even more complex. There’s the usual dating landscape, but then there’s also this whole added layer…
Signs of a Healthy Relationship For Christian Boyfriends/Girlfriends
Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember,…
Christian Singles Secrets
Do you have Christian singles secrets bottled up in your heart? Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences, or totally whacked-out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind for intimate fellowship with no room for secrets. Adam’s hiding from God after eating the…
Overcoming Societal Pressures to Marry as a Christian Single
Ah, societal pressure—the invisible weight that somehow finds its way into our holiday dinners, church pews, and even Facebook comments. If you’re a Christian single, you probably know the drill. “So, when are you going to settle down?” comes right after “Pass the mashed potatoes.” Society seems to have this unspoken checklist: graduate, get a job, get married, have kids—and do it all before 30! But what if God has other plans, or maybe you’re just not rushing? Here’s a…
Christian Dating Advice for Christian Single College Students
Looking for Christian dating advice for college single college students? Let’s be real—college dating is a wild ride. Between classes, late-night study sessions, and figuring out what to eat that’s not ramen, adding dating into the mix can feel like juggling fire. Now, throw in your desire to honor God while dating, and suddenly it feels like you’re navigating a maze in the dark! But hey, don’t panic—I’m here to help. As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University…
Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys?
I get this question asked a lot: Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys? As a Christian single girl, navigating the complexities of dating can be a perplexing journey, particularly when you find yourself repeatedly drawn to unavailable guys. This pattern can be emotionally draining and spiritually challenging. Understanding the underlying reasons for this tendency can shed light on healthier relationship paths aligned with Christian values. This article explores why some Christian single women might repeatedly find themselves…
How to Ask God for Forgiveness: A Christian’s Journey Through Habitual Sexual Sin
As a Christian single, struggling with habitual sexual sin can be a heavy burden. The guilt, shame, and frustration can feel overwhelming, especially when you love God and want to live according to His Word. You might wonder if He’s even willing to forgive you after falling so many times. Here’s the truth: God is always ready to forgive, no matter how many times we fall. His grace is deeper than our failures, and His love is unconditional. But asking…
How to Forgive Myself as a Christian Single
Life as a single Christian can feel like walking a tightrope at times. There’s an unspoken pressure, especially from ourselves, to live up to certain standards. Whether it’s about relationships, purity, or just being the “perfect” believer, we often set the bar impossibly high and end up being our harshest critic. And when we fall short of these expectations, self-forgiveness can feel like a mountain we don’t know how to climb. So, how can we forgive ourselves, especially when we…
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