Posts from October 2024

If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy or girl who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s dive into…

If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. It’s painful being single. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s…

How do you If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably encountered someone who checks all the boxes—charming, confident, smooth-talking… but something just doesn’t add up. Chances are, if you’re dealing with this type of personality, you might have run into a narcissist. Narcissists can be challenging, and, unfortunately, they’re masters of mind games. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back! Let’s dive into 14 classic signs that a narcissist might be trying to manipulate you—and let’s laugh a…

There’s something irresistible about Christian romance novel and romance movies. Whether you’re a longtime fan or new to the genre, these stories of faith-based love have a way of pulling at heartstrings and bringing a smile to the face. Between the small-town settings, earnest protagonists, and “could-this-be-God’s-plan?” moments, Christian romance novels offer readers a wholesome and heartwarming journey toward love and happily-ever-afters. But, like any genre, Christian romance novels come with their own set of pros and cons. So, if…

Ah, the hopeless romantic. You’ve probably heard the term, and if you’re single and dating in the Christian world, you may even be one. But what exactly is a hopeless romantic, especially from a Christian perspective? Is it a bad thing? A good thing? Or just something that requires a little guidance and prayer? Let’s dive in. A hopeless romantic is someone who absolutely loves the idea of love. They often dream about the perfect relationship, the fairy-tale ending, and,…

Why Marrying an Older Man Might Be Your Best Move:  Ladies, gather ‘round, because we’re about to break down one of the most surprising yet beneficial relationship dynamics out there: marrying an older man! Yes, you heard me right! If you’ve been praying about your future spouse and keep wondering why God keeps leading you toward a man with a few extra years of wisdom (and maybe a few extra gray hairs), you’re in the right place. Now, before you say,…

Looking for godly advice for single women? Being a single woman in today’s world can feel like being in the middle of a never-ending reality show. You’ve got your friends getting married, social media flaunting perfect couples, and family members dropping not-so-subtle hints at every holiday gathering. But hey, who said singlehood isn’t a blessing in disguise? Think of it as a divine opportunity—a sabbatical, if you will—where you get to discover who you are, embrace your quirks, and figure…

Dating within the Christian community can feel like a breath of fresh air. You’re navigating values, faith, and goals, hoping to find that deep, spiritual connection that’s more than just skin-deep. However, as with any dating pool, you might come across people who aren’t quite as sincere as they seem. Maybe it’s subtle—an offhand comment, a questionable reaction during Bible study, or the way they gloss over prayer time. If you’re wondering whether your Christian date is being genuine or…

Being a single Christian can sometimes feel like you’re on a solo road trip with God in the passenger seat, offering directions. But the twist? You have no map, the GPS is God’s Word, and sometimes it feels like you’re driving in circles. When it comes to your career, the stakes feel even higher. What if I pick the wrong job? What if I never find my purpose? What if I end up living in my parents’ basement forever, with…

I received this question from a Christian single woman who asked the question, “How many dates should I wait before having sex?”  Coming from a Christian single person, it’s a question that sparks controversy and curiosity, especially when society seems to place an increasing emphasis on physical intimacy early in relationships. But when you’re striving to follow biblical principles, the answer is about more than just numbers or timing—it’s about honoring God’s design for intimacy. So, let’s approach this with…