Posts from November 2024

Why is searching for available singles so difficult?  As a Christian single, let me tell you, the search for that special soulmate can feel like a scavenger hunt where the map is upside down, the compass points nowhere, and everyone else is sprinting ahead with a partner in hand. It’s funny how in a world teeming with people, finding the right person feels more complicated than solving a Rubik’s cube while blindfolded. Why does it seem so hard to find…

As a Christian single, you’ve probably found yourself at a crossroads more than once. Maybe you’re facing a significant decision about your career, moving to a new city, or discerning if someone you’re dating is the right person for you. Whatever the situation, one thing is for sure: It can be confusing and overwhelming to figure out what God’s will is in these moments. Should you settle for less? But don’t worry—you’re not alone in this! Even though it might…

Ah, the life of a mature Christian single! It’s a landscape filled with coffee dates that feel more like job interviews, family gatherings where everyone from Grandma to your seven-year-old niece is keen to play matchmaker, and sermons that gently (or not so gently) nudge you toward marriage. If you’ve ever felt like an extra jigsaw puzzle piece at a family game night, rest assured—you’re not alone. Let’s navigate this season with wisdom, humor, and most importantly, hope rooted in…

If you’re a Christian single, conquering holiday depression is a thing. The holidays—is a time of joy, twinkling lights, and peppermint-flavored everything. For some, it’s all about cozy family gatherings and finding love under the mistletoe. But for us singles? It’s often a cocktail of loneliness, awkward questions from relatives, and an overwhelming urge to retreat into a blanket fort. If you’re nodding along, welcome to the club. Let’s tackle this together—with a hearty dose of humor, biblical wisdom, and…

Christian stewardship might sound like one of those heavy, grown-up topics best left for pastors and church treasurers, but let’s face it—stewardship is for all of us! Yes, even you, single and thriving (or surviving). In fact, being single offers unique opportunities to practice stewardship in ways that honor God and make life richer—not to mention a bit more fun. Let’s dive into how you, as a single Christian, can embrace stewardship with warmth, humor, and a little creativity. What…

Being a Christian single in today’s world is like playing a never-ending round of dodgeball—with society, culture, and sometimes even yourself throwing curveballs. But lurking behind the scenes is Satan, whispering lies to sow doubt, fear, and discouragement. Don’t worry though; we’re about to unmask these lies like unwrapping a stale granola bar you didn’t want anyway. Let’s break down the top five lies Satan tells Christian singles and laugh a little while we learn. Lie #1: “You’re Not Complete…

As a Christian singles blogger, I get this question a lot: Should I date a godly person I’m not attracted to? As a Christian single, navigating the world of dating can feel like a delicate balancing act. Faith, values, and attraction all play pivotal roles in the decision-making process. One challenging question that often arises is: Should I date a godly person I’m not attracted to? While this is a deeply personal decision, it’s worth exploring both the pros and…

Hope in hard time times. It’s that elusive spark that keeps us moving, even when the path feels like it’s covered in Legos, sharp stones, and the occasional banana peel. For Christian singles, hope often feels like a delicate balance between trusting God’s perfect timing and navigating the reality of waiting. And let’s be honest, waiting can sometimes feel like being stuck in the world’s longest elevator ride. One verse that resonates deeply in times like these is Proverbs 13:12:…

Having personal experience in this area, it’s easy for Christians, especially singles, to fall into the trap of constant worrying. This concern can pertain to aspects of daily life, relationships, future plans, and even spiritual growth. However, the Bible provides profound wisdom and practical advice on how to release these anxieties and find peace in God’s promises. Understanding Worry Through a Christian Lens Worry is often a reaction to the uncertainties and potential problems that we might face. But as…

Hey there, Christian singles! Let’s talk relationships—those mysterious, emotional mazes that sometimes feel like an escape room where God holds the key. If you’ve ever found yourself praying, “Lord, give me a sign,” while overanalyzing a text message, you’re in good company. Here are the top 5 lessons to navigate the dating world with faith, humor, and maybe even some grace (fingers crossed). Lesson 1: God’s Timing is Better Than Netflix Timing You know the feeling: it’s a Friday night,…

The 4B movement has created a ripple through the world of Christian singles, and if you’re reading this, you might be wondering how you, as a Christian single, should respond to it. You’re not alone! Let’s dive into what the 4B movement is all about, its core messages, and a biblical response that will leave you feeling rooted in your faith and purpose. In today’s world, the landscape of relationships, marriage, and family is constantly evolving. Among the latest trends…

Christian dating isn’t exactly known for being stress-free; add FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) to the mix, and it’s a recipe for sleepless nights and endless “Why am I still single?” monologues. It’s easy to feel like everyone else is finding the perfect partner (preferably someone with a deep knowledge of the Bible and excellent barista skills) while you’re on a perpetual quest for “the one.” But take heart! With a humorous and warm approach, we’re diving into practical steps…

Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. In the midst of butterflies, dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that warm, fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it’s easy to gloss over some of the finer details. As a Christian woman, you’re called to think carefully about this commitment, not just as a partnership but as a covenant with God. So, if you’re single and considering marriage, here are five wise (and hopefully a bit humorous) pieces of…