Posts from 2024 (Page 2)

Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent…

Being a Christian single trying to discern God’s voice can feel like trying to hear a whisper in a rock concert. Between the noise of everyday life, unsolicited advice from well-meaning friends, and your own inner doubts, tuning into God’s voice may seem like an impossible task. But fear not! This warm (and slightly humorous) guide is here to help. Why Hearing from God is Crucial Let’s face it: life is already full of choices—do you want oat milk or…

Not including the large level  of support of support for Luigi Mangione, the suspected shooter of  UnitedHealthcare’s CEO. in recent years, the rise of protests against corporate America has seen significant support from college students, particularly singles. This demographic, characterized by its dynamic energy and forward-thinking ideals, is uniquely positioned at the intersection of societal awareness and personal growth. By examining the underlying motivations behind this support, we can uncover the values and aspirations that fuel their advocacy. 1. Economic…

The question of “how long should Christian couples date before getting engaged?” is one that sparks plenty of debate. Some might say, “As long as it takes to learn their favorite pizza topping,” while others might suggest a timeline that feels more like the gestation period of an elephant. Here’s the truth: there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every relationship is unique, but there are some principles, milestones, and, yes, laughable moments to consider. Let’s dive into this topic with warmth, wisdom,…

Financial independence is a goal that resonates deeply with many, including Gen Z Christian singles navigating today’s complex economic landscape. It’s a pursuit of freedom—freedom from financial stress, from reliance on others, and from the burden of debt. Yet, as followers of Christ, we are reminded that financial wealth is not the ultimate measure of our lives. It is God who grants us the ability to accumulate wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18), and with that blessing comes the responsibility of stewardship. As…

So, you’re a single Christian guy looking to dive into the world of dating, huh? Let me start by saying: Godspeed, my brother. Finding love in the era of dating apps, text abbreviations, and coffee dates where “Netflix and chill” is considered a personality trait can be…let’s call it, “character building.” But fear not! With a bit of faith, humor, and some handy tips, you’ll be on your way to navigating the dating world like a pro—or at least without…

Looking for self-care ideas for Christian singles?  Being single during the holidays can feel like you’re the odd ornament on an otherwise perfectly curated tree. But guess what? You’re not alone. (Literally, Jesus is always with you. Can I get an amen?) ? Whether you’re navigating Christmas as a solo flier or dodging mistletoe like it’s a dodgeball tournament, there’s one thing you can absolutely own this season: self-care. So, grab your peppermint mocha, cozy up in that onesie, and…

Marriage is one of the most sacred institutions designed by God, symbolizing the union between Christ and the Church. As Christian singles, it’s natural to desire a spouse who aligns with your values and deepens your walk with God. However, navigating singleness with a Christ-centered focus can be challenging in today’s world. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or considering engagement, this guide provides marriage advice tailored to Christian singles seeking to honor God in their relationships. 1. Embrace Singleness as a Season…

Why is searching for available singles so difficult?  As a Christian single, let me tell you, the search for that special soulmate can feel like a scavenger hunt where the map is upside down, the compass points nowhere, and everyone else is sprinting ahead with a partner in hand. It’s funny how in a world teeming with people, finding the right person feels more complicated than solving a Rubik’s cube while blindfolded. Why does it seem so hard to find…

As a Christian single, you’ve probably found yourself at a crossroads more than once. Maybe you’re facing a significant decision about your career, moving to a new city, or discerning if someone you’re dating is the right person for you. Whatever the situation, one thing is for sure: It can be confusing and overwhelming to figure out what God’s will is in these moments. Should you settle for less? But don’t worry—you’re not alone in this! Even though it might…

Ah, the life of a mature Christian single! It’s a landscape filled with coffee dates that feel more like job interviews, family gatherings where everyone from Grandma to your seven-year-old niece is keen to play matchmaker, and sermons that gently (or not so gently) nudge you toward marriage. If you’ve ever felt like an extra jigsaw puzzle piece at a family game night, rest assured—you’re not alone. Let’s navigate this season with wisdom, humor, and most importantly, hope rooted in…

If you’re a Christian single, conquering holiday depression is a thing. The holidays—is a time of joy, twinkling lights, and peppermint-flavored everything. For some, it’s all about cozy family gatherings and finding love under the mistletoe. But for us singles? It’s often a cocktail of loneliness, awkward questions from relatives, and an overwhelming urge to retreat into a blanket fort. If you’re nodding along, welcome to the club. Let’s tackle this together—with a hearty dose of humor, biblical wisdom, and…