Posts from 2024 (Page 3)
Is “Playing the Field” in Christian Dating Biblical?
When it comes to the world of dating, the term “playing the field” brings to mind someone casually seeing multiple people, weighing options, and generally enjoying a bit of variety in their romantic pursuits. It’s not the exclusive “one-and-only” approach; rather, it’s more like “let’s see where things go with different people.” But in the context of Christian dating, this practice can bring up a few eyebrows—and maybe even an awkwardly raised hand from someone asking, “Is this biblical?” 1.…
How to Choose a Book on Christian Singleness
Navigating the world of Christian singleness is like attempting to assemble a jigsaw puzzle with some pieces missing and no picture on the box. You might know where you want to go, but not quite how to get there. For Christian singles, finding a book that speaks to this journey, with guidance, encouragement, and a dash of humor, can feel like finding a treasure. But with so many books out there, each promising to be the one to help you…
Top 4 Ways Satan Tempts Christian Singles – and How to Laugh Your Way Through It!
Being single as a Christian often comes with its own set of challenges. While relationships and marriage are revered, we singles often find ourselves navigating life with pep talks from friends and prayers from parents about “finding the one.” But it’s not all sunshine and roses. Sometimes, being single as a Christian can feel like a battlefield, with temptations sneaking in, wearing all kinds of disguises. The good news? Once we identify these temptations, we’re halfway to laughing them off…
How to Deal with the Pain of Being a Christian Single
Let’s be real: being a single Christian can feel like a lifelong membership to the Waiting Room Club, where the chairs are a little too hard, the magazines are way outdated, and the receptionist keeps saying, “He’ll be with you shortly.” We wait, we pray, and sometimes we even feel a little bit lost. So, if you’re feeling the pinch (or maybe even the pain) of being a single Christian, this article is for you. We’ll dive into some biblical…
How to Deal with Passive-Aggressive People: A Christian Single’s Guide
Let’s be real: dealing with a passive-aggressive person can feel like navigating a minefield in flip-flops. They say one thing but mean the exact opposite, and by the time you’ve decoded the first sentence, they’ve hit you with another “bless your heart” disguised as a compliment. So, as a Christian single who may encounter a few passive-aggressive folks along the journey, how do you handle this with grace, patience, and maybe a sprinkle of humor? Here’s a lighthearted guide filled…
Signs Someone has Feelings for You Over Text
Texting—the modern equivalent of passing notes in class, only with emojis and GIFs. As a Christian single navigating the digital world of romance, it’s natural to wonder: does this person actually like me, or are they just being polite? While we all wish for some grand heavenly revelation, most of us are left to decipher the cryptic world of texts. But fear not, because God gave us wisdom, discernment, and a little humor to help us along the way. So,…
Fear of Being Alone Forever as Single Christians
Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of being alone The fear of being alone forever is…
Breaking Soul Ties with Your Ex: A Guide for Christian Singles
Look, I know why you’re here. Breaking a soul tie sounds a little like “cutting the invisible strings” tethering your heart to someone who—let’s be honest—was not exactly the love of your life. Maybe you’ve tried deleting their number, muting them on social media, or even scrolling past every playlist that reminds you of that one road trip, but still, there’s a magnetic pull. What gives? Well, friend, it sounds like you’re dealing with a soul tie. Let’s dive into…
How to Surrender Your Love Life to God
If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy or girl who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s dive into…
The Single Man’s Guide to Embracing Life with Humor and Faith
If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. It’s painful being single. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s…
14 Signs a Narcissist is Playing Mind Games with You
How do you If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably encountered someone who checks all the boxes—charming, confident, smooth-talking… but something just doesn’t add up. Chances are, if you’re dealing with this type of personality, you might have run into a narcissist. Narcissists can be challenging, and, unfortunately, they’re masters of mind games. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back! Let’s dive into 14 classic signs that a narcissist might be trying to manipulate you—and let’s laugh a…
Christian Dating Advice for Young Adults
Christian dating can be both a beautiful and sometimes comically challenging experience. After all, there’s the mission to honor God while also navigating personal attraction, texting etiquette, and maybe a bit of nervous sweating. So, let’s dig into some practical and funny Christian dating advice that blends faith with a touch of humor. 1. Start with Prayer – And Maybe a Little Patience Before you even think about swiping, liking, or that casual “how are you?” text, take some time…
Christian Romance Novels: Pros and Cons of Reading These Stories
There’s something irresistible about Christian romance novel and romance movies. Whether you’re a longtime fan or new to the genre, these stories of faith-based love have a way of pulling at heartstrings and bringing a smile to the face. Between the small-town settings, earnest protagonists, and “could-this-be-God’s-plan?” moments, Christian romance novels offer readers a wholesome and heartwarming journey toward love and happily-ever-afters. But, like any genre, Christian romance novels come with their own set of pros and cons. So, if…
Fear of Commitment in Christian Dating Singles
Are you a Christian single man or woman suffering from fear of commitment, especially when it comes to dating? The journey towards finding a life partner is an intimate voyage, filled with moments of joy, introspection, and sometimes, anxiety. One of the more daunting feelings that some Christian singles grapple with is the ‘fear of commitment.’ But what exactly does that mean, and how can a Christ-centered approach help to overcome it? What is the Fear of Commitment? At its…
The 10 Signs of a Hopeless Romantic (Christian Singles Edition)
Ah, the hopeless romantic. You’ve probably heard the term, and if you’re single and dating in the Christian world, you may even be one. But what exactly is a hopeless romantic, especially from a Christian perspective? Is it a bad thing? A good thing? Or just something that requires a little guidance and prayer? Let’s dive in. A hopeless romantic is someone who absolutely loves the idea of love. They often dream about the perfect relationship, the fairy-tale ending, and,…
The Case for Marrying an Older Man
Why Marrying an Older Man Might Be Your Best Move: Ladies, gather ‘round, because we’re about to break down one of the most surprising yet beneficial relationship dynamics out there: marrying an older man! Yes, you heard me right! If you’ve been praying about your future spouse and keep wondering why God keeps leading you toward a man with a few extra years of wisdom (and maybe a few extra gray hairs), you’re in the right place. Now, before you say,…