Posts from 2024 (Page 5)

Let’s face it, navigating the world of dating as a Christian single can sometimes feel like trying to solve a Rubik’s cube blindfolded. You know there’s a formula, but half the time you wonder if you’re even in the right room! What does it take to find the one God has for you, without compromising on faith, standards, or…your sanity? Fear not, dear reader! We’re going to unlock seven keys to successful romantic relationships for Christian singles, and we’ll do…

Ever wonder how to cure boredom as a Christian single? That pesky little feeling that creeps up when you’ve scrolled through your phone for the 152nd time, checked in on that distant cousin’s Facebook drama, and even reorganized your sock drawer for the thrill of it. Being single as a Christian can sometimes feel like you’ve been given the ultimate time-out—especially when you’re trying to remain intentional about your time and honor God with your life. But the truth is,…

So, you’ve made it to the third date! Congratulations! In the world of Christian dating, the third date is kind of a big deal. You made it through the first date and second date, and now, you’re in the sweet spot where you can get to know each other on a deeper level without things feeling rushed. But what do you do for a third date that aligns with your faith, is fun, and doesn’t involve just sitting across from…

Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…

Ah, the classic conundrum: meeting Mr. or Ms. Right at what seems like the wrong time. We’ve all heard it: “I met the right person, but it was the wrong time.” Or, if you’re a Christian single, it may sound more like, “God sent this amazing person, but I’m just not in the right season to receive it!” Cue the dramatic sigh, longing looks at the sky, and perhaps a prannnnnknnkknoinno;njk;jknjnkyer asking, “Why, Lord, why?!” But let’s take a moment…

As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a life partner. Waiting for “the one” can be a challenging, emotional,…

Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?”  You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…

When you’re dating someone who has been sexually abused, the relationship requires deep levels of compassion, understanding, and patience. As Christians, we are called to love one another deeply (1 Peter 4:8), and that love extends to helping our partner heal from past wounds, especially those as profound as sexual abuse. This journey can be challenging, but it is also one of profound grace, and your relationship can grow stronger through Christ. Let’s talk about the biblical approach to dating…

Ah, societal pressure—the invisible weight that somehow finds its way into our holiday dinners, church pews, and even Facebook comments. If you’re a Christian single, you probably know the drill. “So, when are you going to settle down?” comes right after “Pass the mashed potatoes.” Society seems to have this unspoken checklist: graduate, get a job, get married, have kids—and do it all before 30! But what if God has other plans, or maybe you’re just not rushing? Here’s a…

Looking for Christian dating advice for college single college students?  Let’s be real—college dating is a wild ride. Between classes, late-night study sessions, and figuring out what to eat that’s not ramen, adding dating into the mix can feel like juggling fire. Now, throw in your desire to honor God while dating, and suddenly it feels like you’re navigating a maze in the dark! But hey, don’t panic—I’m here to help. As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University…

I get this question asked a lot: Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys? As a Christian single girl, navigating the complexities of dating can be a perplexing journey, particularly when you find yourself repeatedly drawn to unavailable guys. This pattern can be emotionally draining and spiritually challenging. Understanding the underlying reasons for this tendency can shed light on healthier relationship paths aligned with Christian values. This article explores why some Christian single women might repeatedly find themselves…

As a Christian single, struggling with habitual sexual sin can be a heavy burden. The guilt, shame, and frustration can feel overwhelming, especially when you love God and want to live according to His Word. You might wonder if He’s even willing to forgive you after falling so many times. Here’s the truth: God is always ready to forgive, no matter how many times we fall. His grace is deeper than our failures, and His love is unconditional. But asking…

Life as a single Christian can feel like walking a tightrope at times. There’s an unspoken pressure, especially from ourselves, to live up to certain standards. Whether it’s about relationships, purity, or just being the “perfect” believer, we often set the bar impossibly high and end up being our harshest critic. And when we fall short of these expectations, self-forgiveness can feel like a mountain we don’t know how to climb. So, how can we forgive ourselves, especially when we…