Posts from 2024 (Page 9)
Stress Reducers for Single Parents
Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. Especially if you are a solo parent. The following stress reducers for single parents may help give you some…
How to Ask Someone Out on a Date
Ask ten different people how to ask someone out on a date, and no doubt each person’s answer will be a little different than the next one. The following dating tips on how to ask someone out seeks to put together the best from what we’ve accumulated from other Christian singles. In the modern world of dating, finding someone who shares your Christian values and beliefs can be a beautiful journey. Asking someone out on a date, whether it’s the…
Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?
Are you a single Christian in an abusive dating relationship? In 2024, Christian abusive dating relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not realize it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article, we will designate the victim as a “she”,…
10 Signs of a Failing Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles
The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater
Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time…
How to Prepare for Marriage: Christian Dating Tips
As a Single Christian man or woman, are you curious about how to prepare for marriage? The process of preparing for marriage can be a mix of excitement and nervousness. As someone who’s been in your shoes, I totally get it! In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips to help you get ready for the adventure of a lifetime. How to get prepared for marriage Steps Know Your Identity Before you can share your life with someone else, it’s…
When and How to Introduce Your Child to a Significant Other
“I don’t like them! I’m never going to like them!” That exchange might be what your child says and what you think after you’ve tried to introduce them to your new significant other. If you’ve already introduced them and it hasn’t gone well, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle, so this article is more for when you are considering introducing the new person at all. is the timing Right How long has it been since you were…
A Sign a Christian Guy Likes You
Do you know a sign a good Christian guy likes you? The journey of discovering whether someone holds special feelings for you can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Amid the modern dating landscape with its nuances and complexities, Christian singles might often wonder: What are the signs that a guy is genuinely interested? While signs of attraction can vary widely, let’s dive deep into deciphering these signs with an emphasis on Christian values. 1. He Respects Your Boundaries Christian dating…
Christian Dating Someone with Kids
When embarking on a new relationship, especially as a Christian single, dating someone with kids presents a unique set of experiences that can enrich your life in unexpected ways. It’s a journey that requires compassion, understanding, and a heart open to the blessings and challenges that come with it. Here’s a warm, personal look at what you can expect when you find yourself in this beautifully complex situation. Entering a Ready-Made Family Dating someone with children means that you’re not…
Should I Confess to My Crush? The Christian Perspective
The age-old question: Should I confess to my crush? It’s a situation many of us have faced, and the answer often varies based on personal circumstances and beliefs. For the Christian single person, the answer may be further influenced by biblical teachings, personal convictions, and the importance of faith in decision-making. Let’s dive into the considerations of confessing feelings to a crush from a Christian perspective. Understanding Love and Emotion First, it’s important to understand that having a crush or…
Is Dating While Separated Ok?
Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue, and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
How Do I Make My Christian Dating Relationship Last?
I get a lot of emails asking questions like: “How do I make my Christian dating relationship last? When you’re dating in the Christian single scene with marriage as the goal, you’re essentially trying to find someone who’s not just your better half but your better three-quarters. It’s about finding that partner with whom you can not only share your favorite Bible verses but also your Wi-Fi password. So, how do you make a relationship last in such a setting?…
Signs of a Humble Christian Single Man
Looking for a humble Christian single man? Finding a genuine, down-to-earth partner can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. For those in the Christian community, this search often focuses not just on mutual interests or physical attractions, but on deeper, spiritual qualities like humility. A humble Christian single man can be a rare gem—quietly impressive and rich in the fruits of the Spirit. 1. He’s Modest About His Achievements A humble Christian man doesn’t trumpet his own…
Dealing with Jealousy as a Christian Single When Friends Are Getting Married
I have a problem dealing with jealousy. I admit it. when I saw my friends getting married, I felt a weird mix of emotions, including happiness for them but also jealousy. I hated feeling this way and made me feel guilty. Can any of you identify? Understanding and navigating these feelings of jealousy from a Christian perspective is essential for maintaining peace of mind and spiritual growth. how to Deal with Jealousy as a Christian Single When Friends Are Getting…
How to Tell Someone You Don’t Want to Date Them
Learning how to tell someone you don’t want to date them without hurting them is a tough order. This is especially true within the Christian singles community where values and intentions often take a front seat. If you find yourself in a situation where you need to communicate that you’re not interested in dating someone, doing so with kindness and honesty is crucial. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to gently break the news without causing undue hurt, all while…
Practical Advice for Divorced Christian Singles
Divorce can be a deeply challenging experience, especially for individuals within the Christian community where marriage is often viewed as a lifelong commitment. For Christian singles who are navigating the waters of divorce, the journey can feel isolating and fraught with emotional and spiritual turmoil. However, this period also presents an opportunity for personal growth, renewed faith, and a deeper understanding of one’s path. This article offers practical advice for divorced Christian singles, providing strategies to heal, rebuild, and thrive…