Posts from June 2025
First Date Do’s and Don’t’s
Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on our…
Widowed and Dating Again: A Christian’s Honest Take on Love After Loss
Losing a spouse is like having your heart torn in half. The silence, the empty side of the bed, the moments you instinctively reach for someone who’s no longer there—it all aches. For many widowed Christians, the thought of dating again feels like crossing a fragile, holy line. You’re grieving, you’re praying, and somewhere deep inside, you’re wondering if it’s okay to love again. Let’s talk about it. Informally. Honestly. Like two friends sitting on the porch with coffee. Whether…
Life in Iran as a Single Christian in June 2025
Since Israel struck key Iranian military and nuclear sites on June 13, 2025, and the U.S. joined with B2 missions on June 22, Iran’s single Christians have been living under the shadow of war. Iranian Christians—many practicing underground—now face amplified danger. According to one pastor, Shahrokh Afshar, fears have surged: “hundreds of civilians have died … one church member decided to stay in Tehran … she described a scene of fear and suffering” 1. Difficult Daily Realities Air raids and…
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys
Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. ? One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find…
Fears That Keep Women And Men Single
Many fears keep women and men single and alone. Did you know that fear of being alone and single throughout life is one of the greatest fears of Christian single women and men? Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from entering into a relationship. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some…
God’s Plan or Your Desire? How to Tell the Difference
We all crave clarity—especially when faced with big life decisions: a new relationship, a career shift, a move across the country, or starting a new chapter altogether. But sometimes, our emotions can cloud our judgment. What feels good might not be God. So, how can we know whether we’re following God’s plan or our own desire? Discerning God’s will doesn’t require mystical insight—it requires spiritual maturity, honest self-reflection, and an intimate relationship with Him. This article will help you evaluate…
How to Pray for the Person God Has for You
Praying for the person God has for you is not just an act of hope—it’s an act of faith. Whether you’re waiting for your future spouse, newly dating, or even healing from past relationships, lifting your desires to the Lord in prayer can bring peace, clarity, and purpose. Scripture calls us to trust in God’s timing and sovereignty, even in matters of the heart. In this article, we’ll explore how to pray for your future spouse with intentionality, scriptural depth,…
Christian Matchmaking Services: The Pros and Cons
In a world where technology has transformed the way we connect with one another, it’s no surprise that matchmaking services have made their way into the realm of Christian dating. As a single Christian who has explored the world of online dating and matchmaking, I want to share my perspective on the pros and cons of Christian matchmaking services. These platforms promise to help us find a compatible partner who shares our faith and values. But are they really worth…
Top Lies Single Christians Believe That Keep Them Single
For those committed to their faith, the journey to finding love isn’t just about compatibility—it’s also about conviction. Unfortunately, many single Christians unknowingly hold onto false beliefs that sabotage their chances of building meaningful, godly relationships. In this article, we’ll expose the top lies single Christians believe that keep them single, and offer practical, biblical truth to break free from these myths. Whether you’re seeking a spouse, healing from past heartache, or trying to discern God’s timing, this is for…
Christian Single Moms and Dating Tips
Single moms have it rough. Christian single moms who are dating may have it even worse: Not only do Christian single moms have to deal with all the responsibilities that go along with being a custodial single parent, they also have to battle the stigma of being a single mom in the church. Whether we admit it not, more than a few women in the church look at single moms (especially if they’re hot looking) with subtle suspicion. Translation: Is…
When Should a Christian Single Stop Seeking a Relationship?
In today’s culture, the pursuit of romantic relationships is often portrayed as an essential part of fulfillment and identity. For Christian singles, however, the journey of seeking love and companionship is deeply spiritual and must be guided by faith, discernment, and trust in God’s timing. While Scripture affirms the beauty of marriage, it also celebrates singleness and the unique purpose it carries. This article explores when a Christian single should consider stopping their active pursuit of a relationship, providing spiritual…