Posts from August 2025
Should I Date a Godly Person I’m Not Attracted To?
As a Christian singles blogger, I get this question a lot: Should I date a godly person I’m not attracted to? As a Christian single, navigating the world of dating can feel like a delicate balancing act. Faith, values, and attraction all play pivotal roles in the decision-making process. One challenging question that often arises is: Should I date a godly person I’m not attracted to? While this is a deeply personal decision, it’s worth exploring both the pros and…
Christian Dating Advice for Young Adults
Christian dating can be both a beautiful and sometimes comically challenging experience. After all, there’s the mission to honor God while also navigating personal attraction, texting etiquette, and maybe a bit of nervous sweating. So, let’s dig into some practical and funny Christian dating advice that blends faith with a touch of humor. 1. Start with Prayer – And Maybe a Little Patience Before you even think about swiping, liking, or that casual “how are you?” text, take some time…
How to Deal With Emotional Baggage as Single Christians
Many single Christians walk around wondering how to deal with emotional baggage from failed relationships and other experiences that they have gone through in their lives. When people hear the term “emotional baggage” they also think of “damaged goods.” Since very few singles that I know of want to be in a relationship with someone with emotional baggage, it’s important that singles in this situation learn to make peace with their past if they desire a serious, positive Christian dating…
What to Do When You’re Not Sure of God’s Will in a Situation
As a Christian single, you’ve probably found yourself at a crossroads more than once. Maybe you’re facing a significant decision about your career, moving to a new city, or discerning if someone you’re dating is the right person for you. Whatever the situation, one thing is for sure: It can be confusing and overwhelming to figure out what God’s will is in these moments. Should you settle for less? But don’t worry—you’re not alone in this! Even though it might…
How to Ask God for Forgiveness: A Christian’s Journey Through Habitual Sexual Sin
As a Christian single, struggling with habitual sexual sin can be a heavy burden. The guilt, shame, and frustration can feel overwhelming, especially when you love God and want to live according to His Word. You might wonder if He’s even willing to forgive you after falling so many times. Here’s the truth: God is always ready to forgive, no matter how many times we fall. His grace is deeper than our failures, and His love is unconditional. But asking…
Dating People From Different Political Views
In an era marked by significant political polarization, is it possible for Christian singles to successfully date other singles from different political parties? The 2024 election has brought the division to the forefront of our communities, including within Christian circles. By the way, have you heard of the 4BMovement? For Christian singles venturing into the dating world, differing political views can present a unique set of challenges. However, it’s also an opportunity to embody the core Christian values of love,…
How to Deal With a Christian Single Relationship Break Up
Wondering how to deal with a Break Up? Dealing with a relationship breakup can be an incredibly challenging experience, especially for Christian singles who often view relationships through the lens of faith and long-term commitment. In this article, we’ll explore practical and faith-based strategies for navigating the emotional landscape of a post-breakup period. In Christian dating, there’s often a strong emphasis on seeking a lifelong partner and maintaining sexual purity and emotional integrity. When a relationship ends, it can feel…
How to Ask Someone Out on a Date
Ask ten different people how to ask someone out on a date, and no doubt each person’s answer will be a little different than the next one. The following dating tips on how to ask someone out seeks to put together the best from what we’ve accumulated from other Christian singles. In the modern world of dating, finding someone who shares your Christian values and beliefs can be a beautiful journey. Asking someone out on a date, whether it’s the…
How to Overcome FOMO in Christian Dating (Without Losing Your Mind)
Christian dating isn’t exactly known for being stress-free; add FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) to the mix, and it’s a recipe for sleepless nights and endless “Why am I still single?” monologues. It’s easy to feel like everyone else is finding the perfect partner (preferably someone with a deep knowledge of the Bible and excellent barista skills) while you’re on a perpetual quest for “the one.” But take heart! With a humorous and warm approach, we’re diving into practical steps…
Single Parenting Tips for Helping Your Kids
Need Single Parenting Tips? Did you know that over 30% of US families are run by single-parenting households? We all know that single parenting is a difficult job. However, children residing in single-parent homes usually have it more difficult because they are deprived of the full-time guidance and direction of two parents, which is so essential for their moral, spiritual, and character growth. Single Parenting and Risks Having worked in Family Court for several decades as a mediator, consent hearing…
The Top 5 Signs You’re Rushing into a Dating Relationship
Let’s face it: dating as a Christian single can feel like wandering through a labyrinth where every turn leads to questions like, “Have you prayed about it?” or “When are you getting married?” (Thanks, Aunt Karen.) In a rush to escape singleness and dive into a relationship, it’s easy to miss the warning signs that you might be sprinting when you should be strolling. So, grab your Bible and a cup of coffee (preferably decaf—you’ll need your wits about you),…
Looking For Mr. Right: A Guide to Meeting Your Christian Soulmate
Looking for Mr Right? Attracting Mr. Right or Miss Right for a dating relationship that leads toward marriage is a goal of most Christian singles. Although there are a lot of online dating tips for attracting Mr. Right or Miss Right, some singles tend to keep attracting the exact opposite kind of person they need in a relationship. For example, did you ever wonder why abused women keep entering abusive relationships? I do, because I used to see it every…
Top 7 Dating Mistakes Single Christian Men Make
Looking for the top dating mistakes single Christian men make? Many Christian men, myself included, have made dating mistakes. But yo, Christian Men! Can we talk? A lot of you Christian Men out there keep making the same stupid dating mistakes. In fact, I’m really tired of single Christian men whining about not being able to meet any nice girls, when it’s their own goofs that are driving away the promising possibilities. Finding love in today’s digital age can be…
Infatuation vs. Love: A Guide for Christian Singles
Picture this: you meet someone new, and suddenly the world feels brighter, every love song on the radio seems written for you, and you’re pretty sure the angels are arranging mood lighting just for your grocery-store run. Is this love? Or are we paddling in the much shallower waters of infatuation? For Christian singles, the difference between the two can make or break your journey toward a God-centered relationship. Let’s break this down—laughs, lessons, and maybe a few “aha” moments…
Sydney Sweeney Controversy: Unpacking the ‘Good Jeans’ Ad from a Christian Single’s Perspective
Few campaigns have sparked as mumany ch debate as Sydney Sweeney’s recent American Eagle jeans ad. Released in late July 2025, the ad features the Euphoria star in a series of denim looks, with the tagline “Sydney Sweeney Has Great Jeans” – a clever pun playing on “great genes.” I’ve found myself reflecting deeply on this controversy. It’s not just about fashion or fame; it touches on deeper issues of beauty standards, modesty, and how society values women. In this…
How to Start an Online Business as a Christian Single
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, single Christians often face a unique set of challenges. One of the most significant concerns isn’t necessarily romance—it’s finances. Polls consistently show that single Christians worry more about money than finding a soulmate. And let’s face it, financial peace can pave the way for a calmer, more focused life. If you’ve ever wondered how to earn extra income or turn your passions into a purposeful venture, starting an online business or ministry…
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