Posts from September 2025
What Can Christian Couples Do Sexually Before Marriage?
Christian singles ask us this often: What can Christian couples do sexually before marriage? Is masturbation together ok? Another question I hear often is: Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? In today’s age of modern relationships, many Christian couples find themselves navigating the intricate boundaries of intimacy before marriage. Traditional Christian teachings emphasize the importance of preserving sexual purity, and not why Christian couples should not live together before marriage. And when Christian couples falter, is a…
How to Control Desire for Sex as a Christian Single: A Warm, Witty Guide
So, you’re a single Christian trying to stay holy while navigating a world that seems determined to throw temptation at you from every direction. It’s like walking through a dessert buffet when you’re on a strict diet. Except instead of desserts, it’s a never-ending stream of, well… you get the idea. Fear not, friend. This guide is here to help you keep your focus on God while keeping your sense of humor intact. Let’s dive into some practical, warm, and…
How to Deal with the Pain of Being a Christian Single
Let’s be real: being a single Christian can feel like a lifelong membership to the Waiting Room Club, where the chairs are a little too hard, the magazines are way outdated, and the receptionist keeps saying, “He’ll be with you shortly.” We wait, we pray, and sometimes we even feel a little bit lost. So, if you’re feeling the pinch (or maybe even the pain) of being a single Christian, this article is for you. We’ll dive into some biblical…
Loving a Dismissive-Avoidant Christian Single
Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent…
Dating After Divorce as a Christian Single
Dating after divorce for Christian single men and women is wrought with theological and emotional minefields. So before discussing dating tips for the newly divorced, let us express our simple views on what we feel the Bible teaches about divorce and remarriage. A future article will discuss this in depth. The bottom line is God hates divorce (Mal. 2:16), and desires couples to reconcile if at all possible. However, under certain circumstances where there has been unrepentant infidelity, the offended…
Christian Single Women Dating Mistakes
Christian single women dating mistakes are avoidable, but it’s easy to see how single Christian girls can ( and guys for that matter too!) can make dating mistakes. Part of the problem is that Christian single women could find 1000s of different dating tips for single women, and some would be totally contradictory to one another. So what we’re going to do with this article is post the top dating mistakes single Christian women make. After that, we give some…
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser as a Christian Single
Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate…
How to Stop Worrying About Everything: A Christian Single’s Guide
Having personal experience in this area, it’s easy for Christians, especially singles, to fall into the trap of constant worrying. This concern can pertain to aspects of daily life, relationships, future plans, and even spiritual growth. However, the Bible provides profound wisdom and practical advice on how to release these anxieties and find peace in God’s promises. Understanding Worry Through a Christian Lens Worry is often a reaction to the uncertainties and potential problems that we might face. But as…
Marriage Advice for Christian Singles
Marriage is one of the most sacred institutions designed by God, symbolizing the union between Christ and the Church. As Christian singles, it’s natural to desire a spouse who aligns with your values and deepens your walk with God. However, navigating singleness with a Christ-centered focus can be challenging in today’s world. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or considering engagement, this guide provides marriage advice tailored to Christian singles seeking to honor God in their relationships. 1. Embrace Singleness as a Season…
Single Parent Dad Advice
Being a single dad is a bit like starring in your own reality show—complete with the chaos, triumphs, and plenty of snack-time drama. Add to that the desire to raise your kids with biblical principles, and you’ve got a role that requires faith, patience, and a sense of humor sharper than a toddler’s “why” phase. Let’s unpack the joys and challenges of being a single Christian dad, with some laughs along the way, because, let’s face it, we all need…
Thin Line Between Love and Hate: A Christian Dating Perspective
Have you ever heard of the saying, “There’s a thin line between love and hate?” Have you ever been in a love-hate dating relationship? In the realm of Christian dating, navigating the intricate dynamics between love and hate can be a delicate endeavor. This dichotomy, often as slender and fragile as a thread, warrants a profound understanding and discernment, especially when it comes to building relationships that honor both personal values and spiritual beliefs. Below, we delve into the nuanced…
Christian Dating Advice for Couples Who Argue Regularly
Relationships, even the most God-centered ones, can sometimes be challenging. Arguments and disagreements are part of every relationship but for Christian couples, navigating these conflicts with grace, patience, and biblical wisdom is essential. If you and your partner argue regularly, don’t be discouraged—there are ways to communicate more effectively, grow closer to each other, and strengthen your relationship with Christ. In this article, we’ll explore Christian dating advice for couples who argue often, backed by biblical principles and practical solutions.…
Remembering Charlie Kirk: Political Assassination and a Call for Faith Among Christian Singles
In the wake of one of the most shocking political assassinations in modern American history, the nation mourns the loss of Charlie Kirk, the fiery conservative activist, proponent of free speech, and founder of Turning Point USA. On September 10, 2025, during a vibrant campus event at the University of Utah, Kirk was fatally shot in what Utah Governor Spencer Cox unequivocally described as a “political assassination.” This heartbreaking event has sent ripples through the conservative movement, the Christian community,…
5 Things Christian Single Women Should Know Before Tying the Knot
Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. In the midst of butterflies, dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that warm, fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it’s easy to gloss over some of the finer details. As a Christian woman, you’re called to think carefully about this commitment, not just as a partnership but as a covenant with God. So, if you’re single and considering marriage, here are five wise (and hopefully a bit humorous) pieces of…
Top 5 Ways Gen Z Christian Singles Can Gain Financial Independence
Financial independence is a goal that resonates deeply with many, including Gen Z Christian singles navigating today’s complex economic landscape. It’s a pursuit of freedom—freedom from financial stress, from reliance on others, and from the burden of debt. Yet, as followers of Christ, we are reminded that financial wealth is not the ultimate measure of our lives. It is God who grants us the ability to accumulate wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18), and with that blessing comes the responsibility of stewardship. As…
Understanding Burnout in Christian Singles: Signs, Symptoms, and Steps to Healing
Burnout is an increasingly prevalent issue in today’s fast-paced world, affecting people across various life stages and vocations. For Christian singles, the challenges of balancing faith, relationships, work, ministry, and personal goals can lead to unique stressors. This article explores the signs and symptoms of burnout among Christian singles, providing compassionate insights and steps toward healing. What is Burnout? Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged and excessive stress. It often manifests when someone…
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