Posts from November 2025
Christian Counseling for Single Christians
25 years ago as a single Christian, I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term “ Christian counseling” an oxymoron. Well, today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. The journey of singleness, with its joys, challenges, and intricacies, is a unique phase of life. Whether you’re single by choice or circumstance, it’s a time that can…
Early Dating Mistakes Christian Singles Make
Early dating mistakes. We’ve all made them. Dating, dear friends, is like stepping into a dance floor for the first time—terrifying, exciting, and prone to the occasional misstep. Now, if you’re a Christian single navigating this world of modern romance, the stakes may feel even higher. You’re not only trying to find someone who makes your heart sing, but also someone who shares your faith, values, and, ideally, will accompany you on Sunday mornings (without too much grumbling). But hey,…
10 Signs of a Failing Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles
The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
Single at Thanksgiving Dinner: A 2025 Guide for When “So, Are You Seeing Anyone?” Hits the Table
Thanksgiving 2025 is almost here, and for millions of Christian singles, the calendar brings a familiar mix of gratitude and dread. You love your family. You love the turkey, the pie, and the football. What you don’t love? The inevitable interrogation disguised as small talk: “Still single?” “Don’t you want to give Grandma great-grandbabies before she’s gone?” “My friend’s coworker has a nice Christian son/daughter…” “Maybe you’re being too picky.” If you’re a marriage-minded believer who’s actively praying and preparing…
How to Guard Your Heart as a Christian Dating Single
Wondering how to guard your heart as a Christian dating a single person? Navigating the world of dating can be exciting, challenging, and sometimes overwhelming. For the Christian single, dating takes on an additional layer of complexity – guarding one’s heart while seeking a life partner. This task, while daunting, isn’t impossible. By grounding oneself in faith, establishing boundaries, and listening to the Holy Spirit’s guidance, a Christian single can journey through dating with confidence and peace. Here’s how to…
How to Cure Boredom as a Christian Single
Ever wonder how to cure boredom as a Christian single? That pesky little feeling that creeps up when you’ve scrolled through your phone for the 152nd time, checked in on that distant cousin’s Facebook drama, and even reorganized your sock drawer for the thrill of it. Being single as a Christian can sometimes feel like you’ve been given the ultimate time-out—especially when you’re trying to remain intentional about your time and honor God with your life. But the truth is,…
Conquering Holiday Depression: A Christian Single’s Guide
If you’re a Christian single, conquering holiday depression is a thing. The holidays—is a time of joy, twinkling lights, and peppermint-flavored everything. For some, it’s all about cozy family gatherings and finding love under the mistletoe. But for us singles? It’s often a cocktail of loneliness, awkward questions from relatives, and an overwhelming urge to retreat into a blanket fort. If you’re nodding along, welcome to the club. Let’s tackle this together—with a hearty dose of humor, biblical wisdom, and…
Why Christian Singles Should Never Settle for Less
As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a life partner. Waiting for “the one” can be a challenging, emotional,…
Thirty-Something Singles Online Dating
In a world where dating norms are constantly evolving, thirty-something Christian singles face unique challenges in finding love that aligns with their faith and values. This article delves into the complexities of dating in your thirties as a Christian, exploring societal pressures, the role of faith in relationships, and the struggle to find a place within the local church community. In a recent Newsweek report that women in the thirty-something singles age group had at best, only a 20% chance…
What Does Gaslighting Mean in a Christian Dating Relationship?
What does gaslighting mean in a Christian relationship? Gaslighting is a term that has steadily garnered attention over the past few years, particularly in the context of relationships. Derived from the 1944 movie, “Gaslight”, it denotes a manipulative tactic where one person makes another doubt their perception, memory, or reality. As opposed to breadcrumbing, in a dating setting, gaslighting can be particularly harmful, leading to mental distress and an erosion of self-trust. But what does gaslighting mean in the context…
Third Date Tips for Christian Singles
Are you looking for third date tips? The third date will make or break whether your Christian dating relationship will be long-term or short-lived. I know. I know. As a Christian single, you may still be working on getting that first date or second date. But today, we are going to share some third date tips. The first date and the second date are inextricably connected to the third date because if the former ones go badly, your chances of…
How to Tell If Your Christian Date Is Being Insincere (with Humor and Warmth)
Dating within the Christian community can feel like a breath of fresh air. You’re navigating values, faith, and goals, hoping to find that deep, spiritual connection that’s more than just skin-deep. However, as with any dating pool, you might come across people who aren’t quite as sincere as they seem. Maybe it’s subtle—an offhand comment, a questionable reaction during Bible study, or the way they gloss over prayer time. If you’re wondering whether your Christian date is being genuine or…
The Gift of Singleness: 5 Top Reasons Why You Might Have It
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?” You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…
Is It Okay to Stay Friends with a Guy When You’re in a Relationship?
Relationships can feel like walking through a field full of butterflies… and the occasional landmine. You’re navigating romance, friendship, and faith—trying to stay balanced while ensuring no one gets hurt. One of those tricky situations is figuring out whether it’s okay to stay friends with a guy when you’re dating someone else. Let’s dig into this complex question, mix in a little humor, and wrap it up with some faith-based wisdom. The Friendship Dilemma: Can Men and Women Really Just…
Balancing Career, Faith, and Dating as a Single Christian: Tips for Working Professionals
Many Christian singles find themselves juggling demanding careers, a deep commitment to their faith, and the desire for meaningful relationships. As a working professional, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by long hours at the office, church obligations, and the search for a compatible partner who shares your values. But here’s the good news: with intentional Christian singles advice, you can achieve harmony in these areas. This article explores practical Christian dating tips for working professionals, focusing on time management, prioritizing…
Where to Meet Christian Single Women or Men
Situationship Red Flags: Christian Single Situationships Ever wonder where to meet Christian Single women or men? I know some lonely Christian single guys in one of the small groups I lead who sure do. A typical question in our support group goes along these lines: “So how and where do I go about meeting a nice Christian girl?” Since we were curious ourselves (aren’t you guys?), we decided to do some research on the Internet. What we found was quite…
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