Posts from November 2025
Christian Counseling for Single Christians
25 years ago as a single Christian, I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term “ Christian counseling” an oxymoron. Well, today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. The journey of singleness, with its joys, challenges, and intricacies, is a unique phase of life. Whether you’re single by choice or circumstance, it’s a time that can…
Early Dating Mistakes Christian Singles Make
Early dating mistakes. We’ve all made them. Dating, dear friends, is like stepping into a dance floor for the first time—terrifying, exciting, and prone to the occasional misstep. Now, if you’re a Christian single navigating this world of modern romance, the stakes may feel even higher. You’re not only trying to find someone who makes your heart sing, but also someone who shares your faith, values, and, ideally, will accompany you on Sunday mornings (without too much grumbling). But hey,…
10 Reasons to Be Thankful Being Single
There are many reasons to be thankful being single. Thanksgiving Day is a time of thankfulness and being thankful for all our blessings. However, for many singles it’s simply another holiday to survive, and a reminder of how lonely and frustrating life can be without the emotional and physical intimacy of a mate. That’s why showing thankfulness is difficult for many of my Christian single solo friends, especially during this time of year. Do you feel the same way? Being…
10 Signs of a Failing Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles
The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
Single at Thanksgiving Dinner: A 2025 Guide for When “So, Are You Seeing Anyone?” Hits the Table
Thanksgiving 2025 is almost here, and for millions of Christian singles, the calendar brings a familiar mix of gratitude and dread. You love your family. You love the turkey, the pie, and the football. What you don’t love? The inevitable interrogation disguised as small talk: “Still single?” “Don’t you want to give Grandma great-grandbabies before she’s gone?” “My friend’s coworker has a nice Christian son/daughter…” “Maybe you’re being too picky.” If you’re a marriage-minded believer who’s actively praying and preparing…
Dating Skills and Rules for Middle-aged Christians Singles
For many middle-aged Christians, the dating rules have changed dramatically since their younger years. Whether they’re venturing back into the world of romance after a long relationship or simply choosing to find love later in life, the fusion of faith and modern dating can be daunting. This article delves into essential dating skills and rules tailored specifically for middle-aged Christians, ensuring their journey is both spiritually fulfilling and contemporary. Understanding the Middle-aged Christian Dating Landscape The middle-aged demographic, generally encompassing…
How to Guard Your Heart as a Christian Dating Single
Wondering how to guard your heart as a Christian dating a single person? Navigating the world of dating can be exciting, challenging, and sometimes overwhelming. For the Christian single, dating takes on an additional layer of complexity – guarding one’s heart while seeking a life partner. This task, while daunting, isn’t impossible. By grounding oneself in faith, establishing boundaries, and listening to the Holy Spirit’s guidance, a Christian single can journey through dating with confidence and peace. Here’s how to…
Short Cute Love Quotes for Christian Dating Singles
It’s amazing how many people find our site searching for short cute love quotes. Ironically, many singles who look for short cute love quotes also fear love at the same time. They go through life yearning for a dating relationship leading toward marriage but shy away from love at the same time. How sad and frustrating! The realm of Christian dating is filled with the exhilarating highs of newfound love, and the hopeful journey towards a love rooted in faith.…
How to Cure Boredom as a Christian Single
Ever wonder how to cure boredom as a Christian single? That pesky little feeling that creeps up when you’ve scrolled through your phone for the 152nd time, checked in on that distant cousin’s Facebook drama, and even reorganized your sock drawer for the thrill of it. Being single as a Christian can sometimes feel like you’ve been given the ultimate time-out—especially when you’re trying to remain intentional about your time and honor God with your life. But the truth is,…
Conquering Holiday Depression: A Christian Single’s Guide
If you’re a Christian single, conquering holiday depression is a thing. The holidays—is a time of joy, twinkling lights, and peppermint-flavored everything. For some, it’s all about cozy family gatherings and finding love under the mistletoe. But for us singles? It’s often a cocktail of loneliness, awkward questions from relatives, and an overwhelming urge to retreat into a blanket fort. If you’re nodding along, welcome to the club. Let’s tackle this together—with a hearty dose of humor, biblical wisdom, and…
Why Christian Singles Should Never Settle for Less
As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a life partner. Waiting for “the one” can be a challenging, emotional,…
Bad Dates-How to End a Bad Date: Christian Singles Guide
Bad dates. Nearly everyone has had a bad date or two. In fact, several singles have written for advice on how to end a bad Christian date. Navigating the dating world as a Christian single can be a journey filled with hope and anticipation. However, not every date turns out as expected. What defines a ‘bad date’ in a Christian context? It could be a lack of shared values, disrespectful behavior, or simply a realization that there’s no spiritual or…