Posts from November 2025 (Page 2)
Thirty-Something Singles Online Dating
In a world where dating norms are constantly evolving, thirty-something Christian singles face unique challenges in finding love that aligns with their faith and values. This article delves into the complexities of dating in your thirties as a Christian, exploring societal pressures, the role of faith in relationships, and the struggle to find a place within the local church community. In a recent Newsweek report that women in the thirty-something singles age group had at best, only a 20% chance…
What Does Gaslighting Mean in a Christian Dating Relationship?
What does gaslighting mean in a Christian relationship? Gaslighting is a term that has steadily garnered attention over the past few years, particularly in the context of relationships. Derived from the 1944 movie, “Gaslight”, it denotes a manipulative tactic where one person makes another doubt their perception, memory, or reality. As opposed to breadcrumbing, in a dating setting, gaslighting can be particularly harmful, leading to mental distress and an erosion of self-trust. But what does gaslighting mean in the context…
Third Date Tips for Christian Singles
Are you looking for third date tips? The third date will make or break whether your Christian dating relationship will be long-term or short-lived. I know. I know. As a Christian single, you may still be working on getting that first date or second date. But today, we are going to share some third date tips. The first date and the second date are inextricably connected to the third date because if the former ones go badly, your chances of…
Is it a Sin to Have Sex Before Marriage?
Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? Is sex before marriage still a sin if you love each other? These two questions are some of the most asked questions I get at Oasis Singles. Sex sin is a huge issue for Christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least are tempted in this particular area. Let’s lay aside masturbation for a moment. The question “Is it…
How to Tell If Your Christian Date Is Being Insincere (with Humor and Warmth)
Dating within the Christian community can feel like a breath of fresh air. You’re navigating values, faith, and goals, hoping to find that deep, spiritual connection that’s more than just skin-deep. However, as with any dating pool, you might come across people who aren’t quite as sincere as they seem. Maybe it’s subtle—an offhand comment, a questionable reaction during Bible study, or the way they gloss over prayer time. If you’re wondering whether your Christian date is being genuine or…
The Gift of Singleness: 5 Top Reasons Why You Might Have It
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?” You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…
Military Christian Singles: Navigating Faith and Love on the Front Lines
Being a Military Christian single man or woman is one of the most difficult things I can imagine. While many single Christians are just worrying about how to find their next online Christian date, some military singles are simply praying to stay alive. Military singles who also happen to be Christians also have to deal more intensely with that fuzzy intersection of “giving unto Caesar what is Caesar’s, and giving unto God what is God’s.” Serving in the military is…
Is It Okay to Stay Friends with a Guy When You’re in a Relationship?
Relationships can feel like walking through a field full of butterflies… and the occasional landmine. You’re navigating romance, friendship, and faith—trying to stay balanced while ensuring no one gets hurt. One of those tricky situations is figuring out whether it’s okay to stay friends with a guy when you’re dating someone else. Let’s dig into this complex question, mix in a little humor, and wrap it up with some faith-based wisdom. The Friendship Dilemma: Can Men and Women Really Just…
Balancing Career, Faith, and Dating as a Single Christian: Tips for Working Professionals
Many Christian singles find themselves juggling demanding careers, a deep commitment to their faith, and the desire for meaningful relationships. As a working professional, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by long hours at the office, church obligations, and the search for a compatible partner who shares your values. But here’s the good news: with intentional Christian singles advice, you can achieve harmony in these areas. This article explores practical Christian dating tips for working professionals, focusing on time management, prioritizing…
Where to Meet Christian Single Women or Men
Situationship Red Flags: Christian Single Situationships Ever wonder where to meet Christian Single women or men? I know some lonely Christian single guys in one of the small groups I lead who sure do. A typical question in our support group goes along these lines: “So how and where do I go about meeting a nice Christian girl?” Since we were curious ourselves (aren’t you guys?), we decided to do some research on the Internet. What we found was quite…
Fear of Being Alone Forever as Single Christians
Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of being alone The fear of being alone forever is…
Practical Advice for Widowed Christian Singles: A Warm, Honest Guide
If you are seeking practical advice for widowed Christian singles, you came to the right site. But let’s get one thing straight: Being a widow is hard. No one enters a marriage thinking it will end that way, especially when you’re someone who holds faith close to your heart. But as life can sometimes be messy, so too can our relationships. So here you are: a widowed Christian single. And you know what? That’s okay. Life didn’t turn out how…