Posts from January 2026
How to Take Care of Your Mental Health as a Christian Single
Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…
What to Do If You Fall in Love With Your Dating Partner’s Best Friend?
Falling in love is rarely neat and tidy. Even when we’re trying to do things “the right way,” emotions don’t always follow a straight line. One of the most painful and confusing situations Christian singles can face is realizing they’ve developed feelings—not just attraction, but real emotional attachment—for their dating partner’s best friend. If that’s you, take a breath. You’re not a terrible person. You’re not automatically sinful. And you’re not alone. What matters most now is how you respond—with…
Christian Dating Site Cons
Christian Dating Site Cons? In a previous article, we wrote about some pros of using a Christian dating site. However, like most anything else in life, involving yourself with a Christian dating site has its negative side. Christian Dating Site Cons Christian Dating Site Users Can Lie Of course, lying can occur in any forum, whether it’s through an online Christian dating site, or in a Christian singles group. Pathological liars who date make the rounds everywhere. But it is…
Creative Date Ideas for Christian Singles
New and creative date ideas for Christian singles are difficult to come by, but essential in order to keep your dating relationship with your potential christian soul mate fresh and exciting. When you’re navigating the world of Christian dating, it’s essential to find activities that align with your values while also providing a platform to get to know your potential partner better. Cultivating a bond built on faith and mutual interests can make for a fulfilling relationship. Here are some…
What’s the Best Christian Singles Relationship Advice
What’s the best Christian singles relationship advice you may ask? Christian singles often find themselves navigating the treacherous waters of dating in an increasingly secular world. They seek companionship, love, and understanding, just like everyone else. But, there’s an added layer of faith that can make this journey uniquely challenging and, at the same time, incredibly rewarding. This article offers relationship advice tailored for Christian singles, helping them to align their love lives with their faith. Best Christian Singles Relationship…
Toxic Masculinity Test for Christian Single Guys
Are you looking for a toxic masculinity test for Christian single men? In the evolving landscape of Christian dating, the concept of toxic masculinity has emerged as a contentious topic. This article explores the notion of toxic masculinity, offers a reflective test for Christian men, and discusses why some Christian singles may be skeptical about its existence. Toxic masculinity has become a prevalent topic in discussions about gender dynamics and societal norms. In a Christian context, understanding and addressing this…
Dating a Fearful-Avoidant Christian Woman Signs
Are you dating a fearful-avoidant Christian woman? Dating can be a beautiful and rewarding journey, especially when approached with faith and a Christian perspective. It’s an opportunity to grow together in love, patience, and understanding. However, just like any other aspect of life, it comes with its share of challenges. One of these challenges may involve recognizing and understanding the attachment style of your partner. In this article, we will explore the signs that you may be dating a fearful-avoidant…
Fears That Keep Women And Men Single
Many fears keep women and men single and alone. Did you know that fear of being alone and single throughout life is one of the greatest fears of Christian single women and men? Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from entering into a relationship. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some…
5 Ways to Tell Your Crush Is Not Ready for a Relationship – A Christian Singles Perspective
Are you crushing hard on someone but sensing something is off? As Christian singles, it’s important to be wise and discerning when it comes to romantic feelings. The Bible tells us to “guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life” (Proverbs 4:23). Here are 5 honest signs that your crush may not be ready for a healthy, godly relationship right now: 1. They Openly Say They’re “Not Ready for a Relationship” This is the…
Codependency Relationships and Christian Singles
Are you in a codependent dating relationship? Whether you are a Christian single or not, codependent relationships can happen to anyone. What qualifies for a codependent relationship? If you are in a codependent relationship you will feel like that famous 60’s song line: “Can’t live, if living is without you…” In addition to those feelings, another sign of a codependent relationship in dating is that one or both daters will be seeking constant approval from the other, and feel worthless…
Benefits of Seeking a Soulmate Online
A little over a decade ago, most Christian were searching for singles through more traditional means. Looking for a soulmate online was taboo, and dating services had not yet grown into the $1 Billion dollar business industry it is today. Back then, if a Christian guy or girl did not find their Christian soulmate through church singles groups, friends, colleagues, or relatives, the only other options would have been to try out the bar scene (never a good idea). While…
Christian Dating Site Pros
Folks ask us: “What are some Christian dating site pros?” Each year dating sites are getting more and more popular, as many Christian singles have found success finding their Christian dating site online match. The first boon in Christian dating site use occurred in the USA in the mid-1990s, and has since spread to Australia, Asia, Russia, the UK and the rest of the European Union. Presently, Europe and Asia are experiencing a great expansion of Christian dating site growth.…
Life Advice for Mature Christian Singles
Ah, the life of a mature Christian single! It’s a landscape filled with coffee dates that feel more like job interviews, family gatherings where everyone from Grandma to your seven-year-old niece is keen to play matchmaker, and sermons that gently (or not so gently) nudge you toward marriage. If you’ve ever felt like an extra jigsaw puzzle piece at a family game night, rest assured—you’re not alone. Let’s navigate this season with wisdom, humor, and most importantly, hope rooted in…
Signs of Flirting-Signs of a Flirting Woman
Recognizing signs of flirting from Christian single gals is an important skill to master if you’re a guy are interested in dating. One clueless single Christian guy (every church has a few) told me he didn’t think he needed to know the signs of flirting because he didn’t think Christian girls flirted. Yeah, okay. Signs of Flirting Women Since most gals give subtle signs of flirting, it’s important for a guy, especially if they’re love shy or lacking in confidence,…
Top Lies Single Christians Believe That Keep Them Single
For those committed to their faith, the journey to finding love isn’t just about compatibility—it’s also about conviction. Unfortunately, many single Christians unknowingly hold onto false beliefs that sabotage their chances of building meaningful, godly relationships. In this article, we’ll expose the top lies single Christians believe that keep them single, and offer practical, biblical truth to break free from these myths. Whether you’re seeking a spouse, healing from past heartache, or trying to discern God’s timing, this is for…
Signs of a Narcissist Boyfriend: A Christian Single’s Guide
I wish all Christian singles were able to recognize the signs of a narcissist boyfriend or girlfriend. They would have saved themselves so much pain if they could have avoided such people. in the journey of Christian dating, it’s crucial to recognize traits that align with Christ’s teachings of love, humility, and respect. Unfortunately, in today’s dating world, it’s not uncommon to encounter individuals who exhibit narcissistic tendencies, which starkly contrast these values. Understanding what narcissism is and recognizing the…
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