Posts from 2017

Posts from 2017

Sweet Things to Say to your Girlfriend

< Are you a single guy looking for sweet things to say to your girlfriend? Many single guys, whether they’re Christian or not, have true feelings of warmth deep inside. However, some not only have a difficult time thinking of sweet things to say to their girlfriends, they also get “tongue-tied” when trying to express them as well. Where’s Cyrano de Bergerac when we really need him? Sweet Things to Say to Your Girlfriend Difficulties Hey, no one has ever…

Christian Single Dating for Single Christians

Our vision for this Christian single dating site has never been to be simply a Christian dating service. Rather, our goal has always been to be a Christian singles “resource hub” where one can find Christian single dating reviews, spiritual encouragement, dating advice, singles groups and interaction with other singles by the writing and sharing of articles. Christian Single Dating Tips Many have written asking us what Christian single dating advice we could give in order to help singles enjoy…

What’s True Love Got To Do With It?

Most human beings are looking for a true love that lasts forever. I know some uf us may not admit it, but deep down, that thirst for true love is there. Perhaps your search for a true love relationship is one of the reasons you’re visiting this site today. True Love-What it’s Not Unfortunately, in our quest to find it, many of us have been, like the 80’s love song says, looking for true love in all the wrong places.…

Rebound Relationships and the Pain

Many singles seem to go from one rebound relationship to the next in search of that ultimate relationship. The only problem is that the vast majority of rebound relationships end as well, which makes daters feel worse then the previous relationship. As someone who worked in the Family Court system, I saw the sad effects of rebound relationships everyday. The Thinking Behind  Rebound Relationships The thinking behind rebound relationships goes like this: “Although my previous relationship failed, this one will…
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Money Saving Worries and Singles

Many singles have a hard time saving money, for the simple reason that they don’t have much money to save. This lack of money saving has caused many single worry over what they will do in their day of need. Money Saving Worries for Christian Singles Does money saving concerns of single people shock you? It shouldn’t because financial debt and being single goes hand in hand. Singles of all types (never married, divorced, widowed or single parents) collectively have…

Holiday Gifts-The Greatest Holiday Gift of All

Well, the holiday gift season is upon us once again. Oh Joy! Can you believe that in my area (New York) businesses had holiday gift displays with Christmas trees lit as early as the beginning of September? Unbelievable! Although poll after poll in the US, UK, Europe and Australia consistently show a substantial majority of people would like to see less spending on holiday gifts, each year folks spend more and and more on gifts. Holiday Gifts and Christian Singles…

Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents

Receiving child support payments is a major worry for Christian single parents, who often struggle to keep their kids well fed and clothed. It’s no wonder then that custodial single parents rank collecting child support payments ahead of concerns like single parent dating with kids. Of course, when it comes to child support payments, these single parents are not alone. Skirting Child Support Payments: A Worldwide Problem According to ACES (The Association for Children for Enforcement of Support) only half…

20-Something Singles:How to Evangelize Millennials

As any 20-something Christian single could tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, 20-somethings , or millennials as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about 20-something singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunities by not communicating the Gospel to 20-something singles in ways that make sense to them. In fact…

Romance Relationship Hope for Christian Singles

Spending New Years Eve minus a romance relationship usually spells loneliness and depression. I know many Christian singles reading this watched the Ball drop last night without a romance relationship in sight. Sigh. Under these circumstances it’s very easy to lull ourselves into a self-pity party, especially as we observe other couples enjoying their romance relationships. Romance Relationship Hope for the Future Last night as I watched the record crowd during the Times Square New Year’s Eve celebration, it dawned…

Christian Marriage Vows and Submission

Discussing Christian marriage vows can be one of the hardest parts of planning a wedding ceremony. A lot of Christian single engaged couples stumble over Christian marriage vows because of one simple word: submission. Christian Marriage Vows Controversy Many traditional Christian marriage vows, in an attempt to express what was thought to be the Bible’s teaching on wives submitting to their husbands, include one little phrase where the bride pledges to “love honor and obey” her mate. Today, most Christian…

Forgiveness and Dating Relationships

There is an amazing connection between forgiveness and healing in the Bible. Forgiveness has amazing benefits. Forgiveness can heal broken relationships, broken hearts and even bring health to one’s body. Only recently have secular psychologists and doctors begun speaking of the healing power of forgiveness in one’s life. The Forgiveness and Dating Relationships Problem Many Christian singles have problems with their health and the relationships in their lives because they have a major issue with forgiveness. For example, some singles…

Thankfulness and Being Single

Thanksgiving Day is a time of thankfulness and being thankful for all our blessings. However, for many singles it’s simply another holiday to survive, and a reminder of how lonely and frustrating life can be without the emotional and physical intimacy of a mate. That’s why showing thankfulness is difficult for many of my Christian single solo friends, especially during this time of year. Do you feel the same way? A Tradition of Thankfulness In answer to this need, each…

Matchmaker Dating, Faith and Christian Singles

Certain online dating services are what we call matchmaker dating sites. Matchmaker dating is different from other types of online dating service (like Christian Mingle, for example) in that the person using them has less control over the dating process. Instead of you choosing your own potential dating match, the dating matchmaker service will choose a partner for you, usually after you complete an indepth compatibility test unique to the particular service. We referred to this type of dating matchmaker…

Christian Woman-Biblical Advice on How to be Attractive

Are you are Christian Woman looking for biblical advice on how to be attractive? The average Christian woman does her best to be as attractive as possible. Unfortunately, many Christian women are under temendous pressure to conform to the world’s standard of attractive, rather than what God’s word says is appealing. The Christian Woman and Media Culture Christian women are exposed to a constant media barrage of what the “perfect woman ” is supposed to look like. The only problem…

How to Find a Christian Wife

Ever wonder how to find a Christian wife? I would think many Christian single women in the market for a husband would be interested in knowing the number of Christian men hoping to find a Christian wife. Well we are too, and that’s one reason why our up and coming singles survey will try to quantify the different number of Christian single men looking to find a Christian wife, those looking to simply find a date and those not seeking…
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Internet Romance Scams

Internet romance scams are something to be on the lookout for. What is an Internet romance scam? This kind of scam has to do with a person who is interested in finding love. Now enter another person, usually from a different country, who contact s this person via email and initiates an online relationship that makes the other person think that they are the best thing since Swiss cheese. Internet Romance Spam Strategy Once the scammer has the trust of the person he/she starts spamming in earnest. They often start with a sob story about some great need of needing money to pay for bills or a sick mom’s operation. By the time the victim realizes what’s going on, and that the person who they met online is never going to meet them face to face, they will have been chumped for tons of money. Not fun. Avoiding Internet Romance Spams The very best way to not being a victim is to practice good online dating safety and to use reputable Christian dating sites that screens it’s clients. In fact, one of the reasons we started This Christian dating review and advice website was to help people stay away from Internet dating scams. Remember, as Christian singles, we need to “test the spirits” to make sure the person we are interested in is truly compatible with our faith and lifestyle. Bible Verse of Day ~Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world~1John 4:1   Famous Movie Love…

Commitment Phobia and Singles

Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid commiting to long term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from committment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons. However, most commitment phobic men and women truly…

Love Horoscope Singles

Sad but true, there are many love horoscope Christian singles out in the world. What are love horoscope Christian singles? These are single Christian  people who check their daily horoscopes in search of love.  As one single gal told me recently, ” It’s not that I don’t believe in Jesus or anything like that, it’s just that  waiting on God for my special soulmate has gotten me nowhere. I’m just curious  about what my love horoscope has to say.” Love…

Anger at Being Single-Dealing with Anger in Relationships

Many single women and men walk around with a lot of anger because they are still single long past the time they thought they would be married. Does being single at this time in your life make you angry? Target of Anger in Relationships One target of a single person’s anger is directed at God Himself because He has not brought that one true love into their lives. Frustration, jealousy and discouragement cuts deep into them as their closest friends…

Christian Singles and Sexual Impurity

One of the hardest things for Christian singles is remaining sexually pure. It doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or man, or whether you believe in courtship or traditional dating. Yes, remaining sexually pure as a single Christian is a real battle, a tug-o-war between our raging hormones and desires, and our Lord’s plan for our lives in this area: “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of…
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