Hey friend, let’s have a heart-to-heart about something that can be a little tricky when it comes to love: losing yourself. As a Christian single woman, I know how easy it can be to put someone else’s needs and wants before your own when you’re excited about a relationship. But what happens when you wake up one day and realize you’re not sure who you are anymore? If you’ve ever found yourself bending over backward to please someone, always putting…

So just what are the traits of a good Christian man? As a single Christian woman interested in dating, it’s easy to get caught up in the world’s definitions of a “good man.” We hear so much about how he should look, what kind of job he should have, and how charming or charismatic he needs to be. But as believers, we know that the qualities that truly matter in a man run much deeper than surface-level attributes. They are…

I know of so many single Christians who come to me with grieving hearts over a moral failure in Christian dating relationships.  Are you one of those? I have been there and done that, and I know exactly how it feels. During times like these, those experiencing moral failure need to know that if they are true believers in Christ, there may be broken fellowship, but forgiveness is only a prayer away. The tendency I had when I experienced moral…

Christian Singleness is often viewed as a waiting room—a period of life where we twiddle our thumbs, waiting for that special someone to sweep us off our feet. But what if I told you that this season of singleness is actually a golden opportunity for spiritual growth? Yep, you heard me right! Your solo status isn’t a cosmic joke, but a divine gift wrapped in the glittering paper of self-discovery, spiritual depth, and yes, a good bit of humor. So,…

Ah, relationship status. That phrase that somehow carries the weight of a thousand questions, a million unsolicited pieces of advice, and enough awkward family dinner conversations to last a lifetime. If you’re a single Christian, you’ve probably heard it all: “So, when are you getting married?” “Have you tried online dating?” or the classic, “God has someone special for you, you just have to be patient.” Before you let out a big sigh or roll your eyes into the next…

Ah, dating in your 20s—a time of self-discovery, exploration, and apparently, for some Christian singles, a time of becoming a hermit with a Bible in one hand and a “Do Not Disturb” sign in the other. The topic of why Christian singles in their 20s avoid dating is a fascinating one, combining elements of faith, fear, and, yes, a bit of comedy. So, why are so many Christian 20-somethings and Gen Z singles opting for solo Netflix binges over candlelit…

Okay, you have probably heard a ton of Christian dating behavior advice throughout your Christian dating life. It seems to me that surfing the web for what makes for good Christian dating behavior is fruitless because the advice varies so much. Couple this with the fact that the word “dating” does not appear in the Bible, single Christians out there looking for some real answers could end of getting a little confused. hopefully, therefore, the following Christian dating behavior tips…

What exactly is wife material? In a world dominated by ever-evolving definitions of relationships and partnerships, many single Christian women find themselves pondering: What does it mean to be “good wife material”? The term, often casually thrown around in conversations, can evoke feelings of confusion, pressure, and even insecurity. However, when looked at through the lens of Christian teachings, it becomes clear that being ‘wife material’ is more about embodying the virtues of faith, love, and commitment rather than conforming…

Falling in love is often described as a magical experience. Falling out of love is pure hell.   If you find yourself falling out of love with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend, it can be a confusing and painful process. As a Christian single, navigating this situation requires wisdom, compassion, and a deep understanding of biblical principles. Understanding Why We Fall Out of Love Relationships are dynamic, constantly evolving entities. The initial passion and excitement that characterize the early stages of…

Looking for dating and life advice for 40-something Christian single women? Reaching your fabulous 40s as a single Christian woman can feel like stepping into a new chapter of life, one filled with fresh opportunities, deeper self-awareness, and a stronger connection with your faith. But let’s face it, this journey can also come with its share of challenges and moments of doubt. Fear not, dear sisters, for this stage of life is brimming with potential for joy, growth, and a…

If you’re a single guy, understanding the signs of an emotionally unavailable woman, can save you a bunch of pain. Navigating the complex world of relationships can be a challenging endeavor, especially for Christian singles who are seeking connections that align not only with their personal values but also with their spiritual beliefs. One of the hurdles in this journey is encountering individuals who, for various reasons, might be emotionally unavailable. Recognizing the signs of emotional unavailability, particularly in women,…

Ah, the infamous Friend Zone—a place where your feelings are as obvious as a neon sign, but to the object of your affection, you’re just a really good buddy. If you’re a Christian single who’s head over heels for a Christian guy who doesn’t quite get the memo, don’t despair. The Friend Zone is a land of opportunity, growth, and, surprisingly, a lot of laughs. Let’s dive into how to deal with this unique relationship with humor, warmth, and a…