Posts by Oasis-Church-NJ.com

Posts by Oasis-Church-NJ.com

teen dating heartbreak

Teen Dating Heartbreak

Have you had your heart broken in a relationship? Being rejected is very painful and at first it may seem that things will never get better. However, in time you will heal and be ready to date another person. In the middle of all these emotions, it is very important to remember Romans 8:28. All things work together for good for those that love the lord. All things; even a breakup. God is all powerful and all knowing, and he…

Flashback: Obama Picks Biden for Vice-President!

Wow! I wrote this article in 2008, and now Biden is running for President.  What are your thoughts now about Biden for President? That’s right, our sources tell us Barak Obama has chosen Sen. Joe Biden of Delaware as his vice-presidential candidate, mainly due to Biden’s foreign policy background. Barak Obama and Joe Biden as running mates in the 2008 Presidential Election! Obama choosing Biden as VP is somewhat surprising to some, who interpreted Biden’s comments about Barak during the…
undoing depression

Undoing Depression and Discouragement in Singles

As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression and stress can crop up at anytime, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some top reasons singles give for having discouragement and depression in their dating lives: Some battle discouragement and depression because they have just…
christians who masturbate

Masturbation and Christian Singles |Christians Who Masturbate

 Let’s talk about the M word and Christian singles. Masturbation and Christian Singles. Male masturbation. Female masturbation. Adolescent masturbation. Chronic masturbation.   Christian Singles and Masturbation. Is masturbation sin? Are you a single person who masturbates? Are you feeling awkward yet? Most pastors apparently are because they avoid the masturbation topic at all costs. This is a little ironic, to say the least, when survey after survey reveals a majority of married and single Christians of all different ages (guys…
heartbreak quotes

Very Sad Heartbreak Quotes

Our Christian singles blog attracts quite a few very sad heartbreak quotes  and other love quotes from singles looking for advice here. We pray for each of the singles who write to us, and we hope you do too. The following very sad heartbreak quote came in today. I thank the Lord that no matter what we go through in life, God promises to walk through it with us: “I feel completely broken. I went out with the most amazing…
single solo

Single, Solo, and Sad

From the beginning of creation God intended for us to have a partner in life. Early on God tells us it is not good for us to be alone. (Genesis 2:18) He makes his intentions very clear that the form this will take is as man and wife. (Genesis 2:24) Each time we meet our next prospect our hearts beat with anticipation. Is this going to be the one? Has God finally answered my prayers and sent my soul mate…
long distance dating relationship tips

Dating Tips for a Long Distance Relationship

Need long distance dating relationship advice for a Christian dating couple?  Long distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long distance relationship is a losing…
single gals

Single Gals and God’s Grace

As a former mediator in family court, I’ve  seen a lot of single gals come through our doors. Not a few of these single gals are pregnant teen girls in great financial, spiritual and emotional need. This thought about single gals got me thinking about Mary, the blessed mother of Jesus, our Saviour. Think about it. She too was a single gal, a pregnant teenager with some heavy needs of her own. Single Gal Problems First of all, she was…
social media for Christian singles

Social Media Networks and Online Christian Dating

snapchatAre you a Christian single member of social media network such as Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat  or Twitter? Social media is an awesome way to connect with other people. In addition to using reputable a  online dating service like eHarmony,  a number of social media dating site applications like Zoosk have popped up on the web. These social media applications are  specially designed  for social networks such as Facebook. Zoosk alleges to have millions of people in their social media membership,…

Dating Chat With God

A dating chat with God? Yeah, I know that sounds strange. Usually when we think of dating chats, we think of online dating chat rooms where flirting and speaking with the opposite sex takes place. Recently, however, several Christian singles mentioned how they were struggling with their faith, and wish they could have a “dating chat” with God on few issues. Like Job, they figured if they could, they would ask the Lord a few questions on some things they…
sexual purity of Christian singles

Sexual Purity and the Bible

That’s right-we are going to talk about sexual purity, the topic that everybody likes to avoid.  Sexual impurity ranges from a lust-full thought to actual acts of perverted behavior.  In today’s modern world, every where you look, there’s sex and very rarely is it between two married people.  If you turn on the TV, you see scantily clad women on MTV, and HBO.  You can go to the super market to see magazines with half naked models and articles about…
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Single Christians and Praying for a Mate

Several single Christians have written us wondering where they can locate a “single Christian’s prayer” on praying for a  Christian soulmate.  I know that many single Christians are tired of waiting on God for that dating match, however, when heartbroken, angry or frustrated over remaining single and alone, these are the times single Christians need to seek the face of God the most. Single Christians and God’s Promises As a minister to single Christians I hear a lot of stories…
letting go of a relationship

Letting Go of a Relationship as a Christian Single

Sometimes letting go of a relationship can can be  harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over feeling guilty or think that that the right person will never come into your life if you break…
accepting singleness

Accepting Singleness as a Christian Single

Do you have difficulty accepting singleness as a Christian single? Many singles I know are depressed  and discouraged because they cant can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their  pursuit of  the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toarward marriage is so all consuming that that lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. Accepting singleness has nothing to do with pursuing  a Christian marriage with the right person.…
valentines day slogans

Valentines Day Slogans

Have any favorite Valentines Day slogans? There are a number of Valentines Day slogans and quotes out there which put singles in a yearning mood for love. After all, this is the day that every body celebrates love, and being together with their significant other. However, some of these Valentines Day slogans can also be very depressing and discouraging  for christian singles who wish that they were in a relationship. If this sounds like you, there’s no need to be…
humorous valentines day poems

Humorous Valentines Day Poems for Christian Singles

I recently noticed a ton of humorous Valentines Day poems, jokes and cartoons. Why the online barrage?  Quite frankly, I think the reason for these humorous Valentines Day poems is that many singles suffer anxiety during this time, and reading and viewing some of this stuff relieves that tension of waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. Are you in this position of dreading Valentines Day? Let me encourage you not to let yourself become hostage to a particular…

Free Singles Advice for the New Year

Free and single as you enter the 2010 New Year?  I know there are many free singles (by free single we mean in no dating relationship) out there on New Year’s Eve who are lonely and discouraged or an angry at being single into another decade. Free Christian Singles Advice for 2019 As you enter 2010 a free single, remember there are 95 million free adult singles in the US alone. You know what that means?  You are in good…
blind support

Should Christian Singles Blindly Support Politicians?

I’m find it extremely concerning how blindly many people follow certain politicians and interest groups on both the LEFT and RIGHT, EVEN when it’s obvious they are demagogues, liars and crooks. If you claim to be a Christian, it’s time to WAKE UP! The moral authority of the church is undercut when we blindly support anyone. It’s also dangerous! We need to speak the TRUTH in love no matter where it leads. No matter if it makes you feel uncomfortable.…
true love test

Love Tests-The Ultimate Love Test

Are you familiar with love tests? You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines. What exactly is a love test? A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it. In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the “he loves me, he…
waiting on God

Christian Dating and Waiting on God

One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married and move on. Loneliness and anxiety starts to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us. Although King David did not have Christian dating in mind when he wrote Psalms 13, many single people waiting for a mate can certainly identify…