Posts by Oasis-Church-NJ.com

Posts by Oasis-Church-NJ.com

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Masturbation and Christian Singles

 Let’s talk about the M word and Christian singles. Masturbation and Christian Singles. Male masturbation. Female masturbation. Adolescent masturbation. Chronic masturbation.   Christian Singles and Masturbation. Is masturbation sin? Are you a single person who masturbates? Are you feeling awkward yet? Most pastors apparently are because they avoid the masturbation topic at all costs. This is a little ironic, to say the least, when survey after survey reveals a majority of married and single Christians of all different ages (guys…
letting go of a relationship

Letting Go of a Relationship as a Christian Single

Sometimes letting go of a relationship can can be  harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over feeling guilty or think that that the right person will never come into your life if you break…
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Accepting Singleness as a Christian Single

Do you have difficulty accepting singleness as a Christian single? Many singles I know are depressed  and discouraged because they cant can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their  pursuit of  the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toarward marriage is so all consuming that that lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. Accepting singleness has nothing to do with pursuing  a Christian marriage with the right person.…
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Should Christian Singles Blindly Support Politicians?

I’m find it extremely concerning how blindly many people follow certain politicians and interest groups on both the LEFT and RIGHT, EVEN when it’s obvious they are demagogues, liars and crooks. If you claim to be a Christian, it’s time to WAKE UP! The moral authority of the church is undercut when we blindly support anyone. It’s also dangerous! We need to speak the TRUTH in love no matter where it leads. No matter if it makes you feel uncomfortable.…
true love test

Love Tests-The Ultimate Love Test

Are you familiar with love tests? You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines. What exactly is a love test? A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it. In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the “he loves me, he…
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Christian Dating and Waiting on God

One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married and move on. Loneliness and anxiety starts to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us. Although King David did not have Christian dating in mind when he wrote Psalms 13, many single people waiting for a mate can certainly identify…
Single Loving

Single and Loving It?

Are you single and loving it? I have taken a poll of hundreds of single Christians regarding whether that are content in their single lives? Not surprisingly the results were mixed. 53% stated that they were  loving being single, while 35% were discouraged and frustrated with singlehood. The remaining 12% of Christian singles stated they were tolerating being single but looked forward to finding that special soulmate. The number one reason for putting off marriage? Career. Where are you in…
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Christian Single Men and Lust

All Christian single men battle lust of the flesh from time to time. In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian. One single man pal of mine said if his girlfriend ever knew his thoughts, she would never stop slapping him! Listen, men struggle with lust, and any single man who says otherwise is just lying out of fear, manipulative motives, embarrassment or a combination of the three. The…

Sexy Singles and the Bible

Sexy Christian singles? Gulp! This is dangerous territory. Is it ok to be a sexy single and still be an obedient Christ follower?  What do you think single Christians? Hmm. I just looked up “sexy” in Websters and gave me back the following two definitions: Sexy Singles According to Webster 1. Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. 2. Slang for highly appealing or interesting; attractive. Seems to me that definition number 2 is cool. I mean, most…

Social Media Networks and Online Christian Dating

Are you a member of social media network such as Facebook  or Twitter? Social media is an awesome way to connect with other people. In addition to using reputable a  online dating service like eHarmony,  a number of social media dating site applications like Zoosk have popped up on the web. These social media applications are  specially designed  for social networks such as Facebook. Zoosk alleges to have millions of people in their social media membership, but I have found…

Christian Single Dating for Single Christians

Our vision for this Christian single dating site has never been to be simply a Christian dating service. Rather, our goal has always been to be a Christian singles “resource hub” where one can find Christian single dating reviews, spiritual encouragement, dating advice, singles groups and interaction with other singles by the writing and sharing of articles. Christian Single Dating Tips Many have written asking us what Christian single dating advice we could give in order to help singles enjoy…

What’s True Love Got To Do With It?

Most human beings are looking for a true love that lasts forever. I know some uf us may not admit it, but deep down, that thirst for true love is there. Perhaps your search for a true love relationship is one of the reasons you’re visiting this site today. True Love-What it’s Not Unfortunately, in our quest to find it, many of us have been, like the 80’s love song says, looking for true love in all the wrong places.…