Posts by Oasis Singles
Dealing with Regret as a Christian Single
Dealing with regret as a Christian single can be a deeply transformative experience, providing both spiritual growth and personal enlightenment. This article explores effective strategies rooted in Christian beliefs to navigate and overcome feelings of regret, turning them into stepping stones for a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. Understanding Regret from a Christian Perspective Regret can be defined as a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity.…
How to Deal with an Addictive Personality: A Christian Singles Perspective
So, you’ve realized you have an “addictive personality.” First off, welcome to the club—members are growing daily, and while we don’t have snacks (we’d eat them too quickly), we do have grace and a game plan? Whether it’s binge-watching 17 episodes of your favorite Christian drama in one sitting, obsessively scrolling dating apps to find “The One,” or inhaling that gallon of double-churned ice cream while contemplating your singleness—addictive tendencies can feel like a mountain you’re perpetually circling. But before…
Hobbies for Single Women This Christmas
Looking for hobbies for single women this Christmas? The twinkling lights and Hallmark movies can only go so far, right? One of the best ways to embrace the season and nurture your spirit as a Christian single woman is by diving into hobbies. Why? Because hobbies aren’t just a way to kill time—they’re a way to thrive, find purpose, and maybe even discover gifts you didn’t know God had placed within you. So, grab some cocoa and let’s explore why…
Fitness & Wellness: A Christian Single’s Guide
Let’s face it: being a Christian single during the holiday season is like being a snowflake at a Christmas cookie bake-off—you’re unique, appreciated, but somehow lost in the sugar-coated madness. Between church potlucks, family gatherings, and the inevitable barrage of Hallmark movies, staying fit and maintaining your wellness can feel like a Herculean (or dare I say, Samson-like) task. But fear not, my single friends! With a little humor, some divine inspiration, and practical tips, you’ll cruise through the holidays…
Sweet Things to Say to a Christian Girl
Are you a single guy looking for sweet things to say to a Christian girl? What are sweet things to say to a girl you like? Many single guys, whether they are Christian or not, have true feelings of warmth deep inside their hearts. However, some not only have a difficult time thinking of sweet things to say to their girlfriends, they also get “tongue-tied” when trying to express them as well. Where’s Cyrano de Bergerac when we really need…
Signs He’ll Never Marry You – A Christian Single’s Perspective
Looking for signs he’ll never marry you? In the journey of Christian dating and relationships, understanding the commitment level of your partner is crucial. For many Christian singles, marriage is not just a union but a sacred covenant. It’s essential to discern the signs that might indicate a partner is not inclined toward marriage. This article explores key indicators from a Christian single’s perspective, helping you understand if your partner might never be ready to take the vows of marriage.…
How to Know God’s Will for Your Life as a Christian Single
Wondering how to know God’s will for your life? Being single provides both unique challenges and unparalleled opportunities to draw closer to God. As Christian singles navigate their personal journeys, they often wonder, “What is God’s will for my life?” Here’s a guide to help you discern His voice amidst the noise of daily life. 1. Prayer: The Direct Line to God Begin every decision-making process with prayer. James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask…
Christian Singles Events and Conferences : How to Publicize
Does your church, singles site, or ministry have Christian singles events or single Christian conferences you’d like to promote? Did you do a search for “Christian singles events near me?” We’d be happy to publicize your Christian singles event right here because we consider that part of our mission at Christian Dating Service Plus! is to encourage other single Christians to edify and encourage one another by meeting regularly together for fellowship. It’s tough living a Christlike single life in…
Undoing Depression and Discouragement in Singles
As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression and stress can crop up at anytime, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some top reasons singles give for having discouragement and depression in their dating lives: Some battle discouragement and depression because they have just…
Unrequited Love: How to Get Over Unrequited Love as a Christian
How does one get over unrequited love as a Christian Single? In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse. Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings. Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love, or being ghosted by the one you love? At least in death, a Christian single is done with pain. In unrequited love,…
How to Stop Worrying About Money: A Christian Single’s Guide
Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money? We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that? So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actual meaning of the word “worry in Greek actually…
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living: A Guide for Christian Singles
Hey there, friend! If you’re reading this, chances are you’re tired of worry weighing you down. Maybe it’s the stress of relationships, the job you’re not thrilled about, or the future that seems like a big blank page. Whatever it is, worrying is exhausting, and as singles, we often feel like we’re facing these concerns alone. But here’s the truth: as a Christian, you’re never truly alone, and God never meant for you to carry these burdens by yourself. In…
Christian Dating and Waiting on God
What does the Bible say about waiting on God? More specifically, how to wait on the Lord for a husband or wife? One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating and marriage is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married, and move on. Loneliness and anxiety start to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us. Although…
Top 10 Classic Romance Movies for Christian Singles Guide
If you’re a Christian single, romance movies can be a bittersweet escape. On one hand, there’s the delight of seeing love blossom, and on the other, there’s the longing for that special someone to share these moments. But hey, who says you can’t laugh, cry, and enjoy some timeless love stories while waiting for “the one”? Here’s a list of the top 10 classic romance movies perfect for Christian singles who love romance with a dose of laughter and values.…
10 Ways to Tell If Someone Is Married (with a Christian Twist)
If you’ve been out there in the dating world, especially as a Christian single, you know things can get a little tricky. You’re trying to stay pure, uphold biblical values, and—let’s face it—figure out whether that charming person sitting across from you at church is already someone else’s “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). So, how do you tell if someone is married? Here are the top 10 ways, with a little humor and solid biblical advice, to tell if someone is…
10 Qualities of a Good Man to Marry: A Christian Single’s Viewpoint
Are you a single Christian girl wondering what the qualities of a good Christian man to marry are? In the realm of Christian dating, the quest to find a suitable life partner often revolves around identifying a man whose qualities align with biblical principles. As Christian singles navigate the challenging waters of dating, there are specific attributes they ought to seek, echoing the teachings and values of their faith. Here’s a guide to the qualities of a good man to…