Posts by Oasis-Church-NJ.com

Posts by Oasis-Church-NJ.com

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Should Christian Singles Blindly Support Politicians?

I’m find it extremely concerning how blindly many people follow certain politicians and interest groups on both the LEFT and RIGHT, EVEN when it’s obvious they are demagogues, liars and crooks. If you claim to be a Christian, it’s time to WAKE UP! The moral authority of the church is undercut when we blindly support anyone. It’s also dangerous! We need to speak the TRUTH in love no matter where it leads. No matter if it makes you feel uncomfortable.…
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Christian Dating and Waiting on God

One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married and move on. Loneliness and anxiety starts to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us. Although King David did not have Christian dating in mind when he wrote Psalms 13, many single people waiting for a mate can certainly identify…

Love Tests-The Ultimate Love Test

Are you familiar with love tests? You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines. What exactly is a love test? A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it. In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the “he loves me, he…
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Masturbation and Christian Singles

 Let’s talk about the M word and Christian singles. Masturbation and Christian Singles. Male masturbation. Female masturbation. Adolescent masturbation. Chronic masturbation.   Christian Singles and Masturbation. Is masturbation sin? Are you a single person who masturbates? Are you feeling awkward yet? Most pastors apparently are because they avoid the masturbation topic at all costs. This is a little ironic, to say the least, when survey after survey reveals a majority of married and single Christians of all different ages (guys…
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Christian Single Men and Lust

All Christian single men battle lust of the flesh from time to time. In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian. One single man pal of mine said if his girlfriend ever knew his thoughts, she would never stop slapping him! Listen, men struggle with lust, and any single man who says otherwise is just lying out of fear, manipulative motives, embarrassment or a combination of the three. The…

Social Media Networks and Online Christian Dating

Are you a member of social media network such as Facebook  or Twitter? Social media is an awesome way to connect with other people. In addition to using reputable a  online dating service like eHarmony,  a number of social media dating site applications like Zoosk have popped up on the web. These social media applications are  specially designed  for social networks such as Facebook. Zoosk alleges to have millions of people in their social media membership, but I have found…

What’s True Love Got To Do With It?

Most human beings are looking for a true love that lasts forever. I know some uf us may not admit it, but deep down, that thirst for true love is there. Perhaps your search for a true love relationship is one of the reasons you’re visiting this site today. True Love-What it’s Not Unfortunately, in our quest to find it, many of us have been, like the 80’s love song says, looking for true love in all the wrong places.…

Rebound Relationships and the Pain

Many singles seem to go from one rebound relationship to the next in search of that ultimate relationship. The only problem is that the vast majority of rebound relationships end as well, which makes daters feel worse then the previous relationship. As someone who worked in the Family Court system, I saw the sad effects of rebound relationships everyday. The Thinking Behind  Rebound Relationships The thinking behind rebound relationships goes like this: “Although my previous relationship failed, this one will…

Christian Single Dating for Single Christians

Our vision for this Christian single dating site has never been to be simply a Christian dating service. Rather, our goal has always been to be a Christian singles “resource hub” where one can find Christian single dating reviews, spiritual encouragement, dating advice, singles groups and interaction with other singles by the writing and sharing of articles. Christian Single Dating Tips Many have written asking us what Christian single dating advice we could give in order to help singles enjoy…
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Money Saving Worries and Singles

Many singles have a hard time saving money, for the simple reason that they don’t have much money to save. This lack of money saving has caused many single worry over what they will do in their day of need. Money Saving Worries for Christian Singles Does money saving concerns of single people shock you? It shouldn’t because financial debt and being single goes hand in hand. Singles of all types (never married, divorced, widowed or single parents) collectively have…

Holiday Gifts-The Greatest Holiday Gift of All

Well, the holiday gift season is upon us once again. Oh Joy! Can you believe that in my area (New York) businesses had holiday gift displays with Christmas trees lit as early as the beginning of September? Unbelievable! Although poll after poll in the US, UK, Europe and Australia consistently show a substantial majority of people would like to see less spending on holiday gifts, each year folks spend more and and more on gifts. Holiday Gifts and Christian Singles…

Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents

Receiving child support payments is a major worry for Christian single parents, who often struggle to keep their kids well fed and clothed. It’s no wonder then that custodial single parents rank collecting child support payments ahead of concerns like single parent dating with kids. Of course, when it comes to child support payments, these single parents are not alone. Skirting Child Support Payments: A Worldwide Problem According to ACES (The Association for Children for Enforcement of Support) only half…