Posts by Oasis Singles
How Should Christian College Students Respond to Anti-Semitic and Anti-Israel Sentiments?
As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University, I see firsthand the heated political and social conflicts brewing among the students. For Christian college students, the emergence of anti-Semitic and anti-Israel protests can be particularly troubling. This blog post aims to explore how Christian students can respond to such situations in a way that aligns with biblical teachings, promoting peace, understanding, and compassion. Understanding the Context Anti-Semitic and anti-Israel sentiments on college campuses often stem from complex geopolitical, historical,…
Embracing Singleness: A Christian Perspective
Do you have difficulty embracing singleness as a Christian single guy or woman Many singles I know are depressed and discouraged because they can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their pursuit of the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage is so all-consuming that they lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. Accepting singleness has nothing to do with pursuing a Christian marriage with the right…
Masturbation and Christian Singles | Christians Who Masturbate
Let’s talk about Masturbation and Christian singles. The M-word and Christian singles. Masturbation and single Christians. Single Christians who masturbate. Male masturbation. Female masturbation. Adolescent masturbation. Chronic masturbation. Christian Singles and Masturbation. I think you get the picture. There are many Christian single guys who masturbate. There are many Single Christian girls who masturbate. Are you a single person who masturbates? Christian Masturbation and Singles Questions I have gotten hundreds of emails and many comments on our site from Single…
Should Christian Singles Blindly Support Politicians?
I’m find it extremely concerning how blindly many people follow certain politicians and interest groups on both the LEFT and RIGHT, EVEN when it’s obvious they are demagogues, liars and crooks. If you claim to be a Christian, it’s time to WAKE UP! The moral authority of the church is undercut when we blindly support anyone. It’s also dangerous! We need to speak the TRUTH in love no matter where it leads. No matter if it makes you feel uncomfortable.…
Long Distance Relationship Tips for Christian Singles
Need long-distance Christian dating tips for a long-distance relationship? These relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long-distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long-distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there are many dating…
Undoing Depression and Discouragement in Singles
As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression and stress can crop up at anytime, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some top reasons singles give for having discouragement and depression in their dating lives: Some battle discouragement and depression because they have just…
Unrequited Love: How to Get Over Unrequited Love as a Christian
How does one get over unrequited love? In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse. Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings. Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love? At least in death a Christian single is done with pain. In unrequited love the pain just goes on and on. Sigh. If it’s really true…
Commitment Phobia and Singles
Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid commiting to long term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from committment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons. However, most commitment phobic men and women truly…
Sexual Purity as a Single Christian: A Path From Impurity
Sexual purity is a difficult topic for Christian singles. It doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or man, or whether you believe in courtship or traditional dating. Yes, remaining sexually pure as a single Christian is a real battle, a tug-o-war between our raging hormones and desires, and our Lord’s plan for our lives in this area: “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn…
Dealing with Regret as a Christian Single
Dealing with regret as a Christian single can be a deeply transformative experience, providing both spiritual growth and personal enlightenment. This article explores effective strategies rooted in Christian beliefs to navigate and overcome feelings of regret, turning them into stepping stones for a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. Understanding Regret from a Christian Perspective Regret can be defined as a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity.…
Christian Dating and Waiting on God
What does the Bible say about waiting on God? More specifically, how to wait on the Lord for a husband or wife? One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating and marriage is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married, and move on. Loneliness and anxiety start to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us. Although…
Sweet Things to Say to a Christian Girl
Are you a single guy looking for sweet things to say to a Christian girl? What are sweet things to say to a girl you like? Many single guys, whether they are Christian or not, have true feelings of warmth deep inside their hearts. However, some not only have a difficult time thinking of sweet things to say to their girlfriends, they also get “tongue-tied” when trying to express them as well. Where’s Cyrano de Bergerac when we really need…
How to Redirect Your Focus from Dating as a Christian Single
As a Christian single, it can be challenging to navigate the world of dating, especially when societal norms and peer pressures emphasize the importance of finding a romantic partner. However, it’s essential to remember that your worth and identity are rooted in Christ, not in your relationship status. This article explores strategies for Christian singles to shift their focus from dating and cultivate a more fulfilling, balanced life. Embrace Your Singlehood as a Divine Season 1. Deepen Your Spiritual Connection…
Best Careers for Single Christian Moms
As a single Christian mom, the journey of selecting the best career path is not just about financial stability, but also about finding work that resonates with your values, offers flexibility, and provides the opportunity to lead a fulfilling life while raising children. Balancing motherhood with career aspirations can be challenging, yet it’s a journey that can lead to immense personal growth and satisfaction. This comprehensive guide aims to empower single Christian mothers by exploring career options that align with…
How to Grow Spiritually as a Christian Single
In the journey of faith, being single offers a unique opportunity for spiritual growth and self-discovery. As Christian singles, the pursuit of a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with God can lead to a life of purpose, joy, and contentment. This article delves into practical and effective ways to grow spiritually, embracing the singleness season as a time of divine preparation and personal transformation. 8 Steps on How to grow Spiritually as a Christian Single 1. Embrace Solitude as a Gift…
Latin Christian Singles in the USA and How to Meet Them
In recent years, the United States has witnessed a notable surge in the population of Latin Christian singles. This demographic shift is not just a testament to the growing diversity within the country but also highlights the vibrant faith community among Latin Americans. As more individuals seek partners who share their cultural and spiritual values, understanding the dynamics of this trend and exploring effective ways to meet Latin Christian singles becomes essential for fostering meaningful relationships. This article delves into…