Posts by Oasis Singles (Page 2)
Traits of a Good Christian Man: A Single Woman’s Perspective
So just what are the traits of a good Christian man? As a single Christian woman interested in dating, it’s easy to get caught up in the world’s definitions of a “good man.” We hear so much about how he should look, what kind of job he should have, and how charming or charismatic he needs to be. But as believers, we know that the qualities that truly matter in a man run much deeper than surface-level attributes. They are…
Moral Failure in Christian Dating Relationships: A Path to Healing and Redemption
I know of so many single Christians who come to me with grieving hearts over a moral failure in Christian dating relationships. Are you one of those? I have been there and done that, and I know exactly how it feels. During times like these, those experiencing moral failure need to know that if they are true believers in Christ, there may be broken fellowship, but forgiveness is only a prayer away. The tendency I had when I experienced moral…
How to Grow Spiritually During Singleness as a Christian
Christian Singleness is often viewed as a waiting room—a period of life where we twiddle our thumbs, waiting for that special someone to sweep us off our feet. But what if I told you that this season of singleness is actually a golden opportunity for spiritual growth? Yep, you heard me right! Your solo status isn’t a cosmic joke, but a divine gift wrapped in the glittering paper of self-discovery, spiritual depth, and yes, a good bit of humor. So,…
Relationship Status: Why Single Christians Should Not Obsess Over It
Ah, relationship status. That phrase that somehow carries the weight of a thousand questions, a million unsolicited pieces of advice, and enough awkward family dinner conversations to last a lifetime. If you’re a single Christian, you’ve probably heard it all: “So, when are you getting married?” “Have you tried online dating?” or the classic, “God has someone special for you, you just have to be patient.” Before you let out a big sigh or roll your eyes into the next…
Why Christian Single 20-Somethings Avoid Dating
Ah, dating in your 20s—a time of self-discovery, exploration, and apparently, for some Christian singles, a time of becoming a hermit with a Bible in one hand and a “Do Not Disturb” sign in the other. The topic of why Christian singles in their 20s avoid dating is a fascinating one, combining elements of faith, fear, and, yes, a bit of comedy. So, why are so many Christian 20-somethings and Gen Z singles opting for solo Netflix binges over candlelit…
Christian Dating Behavior
Okay, you have probably heard a ton of Christian dating behavior advice throughout your Christian dating life. It seems to me that surfing the web for what makes for good Christian dating behavior is fruitless because the advice varies so much. Couple this with the fact that the word “dating” does not appear in the Bible, single Christians out there looking for some real answers could end of getting a little confused. hopefully, therefore, the following Christian dating behavior tips…
Please Don’t Date Him Girl Tips for Christian Singles
Some single Christian women wish someone had warned them with the words: “Please Don’t date him girl!”, before they took the plunge into a bad dating relationship. So when is it a bad idea to date? The following “don’t date him girl tips are written in hopes of helping some of us avoid this date trap. If you answer yes to any of the following questions, please consider this advice: Don’t date him, girl! Please Don’t Date Him Girl Quiz…
What is Wife Material from a Christian Single Girl’s Perspective
What exactly is wife material? In a world dominated by ever-evolving definitions of relationships and partnerships, many single Christian women find themselves pondering: What does it mean to be “good wife material”? The term, often casually thrown around in conversations, can evoke feelings of confusion, pressure, and even insecurity. However, when looked at through the lens of Christian teachings, it becomes clear that being ‘wife material’ is more about embodying the virtues of faith, love, and commitment rather than conforming…
Commitment Phobia and Singles
Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid commiting to long term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from committment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons. However, most commitment phobic men and women truly…
Falling Out of Love in Christian Dating Relationship
Falling in love is often described as a magical experience. Falling out of love is pure hell. If you find yourself falling out of love with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend, it can be a confusing and painful process. As a Christian single, navigating this situation requires wisdom, compassion, and a deep understanding of biblical principles. Understanding Why We Fall Out of Love Relationships are dynamic, constantly evolving entities. The initial passion and excitement that characterize the early stages of…
Life Advice for 40-Something Christian Single Women
Looking for dating and life advice for 40-something Christian single women? Reaching your fabulous 40s as a single Christian woman can feel like stepping into a new chapter of life, one filled with fresh opportunities, deeper self-awareness, and a stronger connection with your faith. But let’s face it, this journey can also come with its share of challenges and moments of doubt. Fear not, dear sisters, for this stage of life is brimming with potential for joy, growth, and a…
How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Emotionally
Learning how to forgive someone who hurt you emotionally is difficult. Have you ever felt the need to forgive your boyfriend or girlfriend? Learning how to forgive in a Christian dating relationship is essential because as Christian singles, God calls us to practice forgiveness if we ourselves wish to be forgiven. forgive the homo. In the world of Christian dating, emotional injuries can sometimes be as impactful as physical ones. Whether it’s betrayal, disappointment, or heartbreak, the scars left behind…
Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Woman: Insights for Christian Singles
If you’re a single guy, understanding the signs of an emotionally unavailable woman, can save you a bunch of pain. Navigating the complex world of relationships can be a challenging endeavor, especially for Christian singles who are seeking connections that align not only with their personal values but also with their spiritual beliefs. One of the hurdles in this journey is encountering individuals who, for various reasons, might be emotionally unavailable. Recognizing the signs of emotional unavailability, particularly in women,…
Positive Singles and Christian Singles
Have you ever heard of positive singles? Simply put, positive singles are those folks who suffer from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) like HPV, Herpes, or HIV and AIDS. Did you know that over 60 million people ( many of whom are Christian singles) suffer from the stigma associated with having an STD? Additionally, a recent survey showed that one in four (25%) of Teenage girls are positive singles suffering from Herpes. Christian Dating and Finding Support for Positive STD Singles…
How to Stop Worrying About Money: A Christian Single’s Guide
Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money? We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that? So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actual meaning of the word “worry in Greek actually…
Long Distance Relationship Tips for Christian Singles
Need long-distance Christian dating tips for a long-distance relationship? These long-distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long-distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long-distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there are many…