Posts by Oasis Singles (Page 3)
Qualities of Best Christian Dating Sites: A Guide for Single Christians
This article centers on common characteristics of “best Christian sites”, Believe it or not, there are 100’s of purported online Christian dating sites worldwide. With so many Christian dating sites to choose from, you couldn’t blame Christian singles for being a little confused as to which Christian dating site to use. Understanding the qualities of the best Christian dating sites is crucial for single Christians to find a platform that aligns with their values and relationship goals. This article explores…
Commitment Phobia and Singles
Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid commiting to long term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from committment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons. However, most commitment phobic men and women truly…
Quotes About Being Single from a Christian Perspective
There are many inspirational and funny quotes about being single. If you hang out with singles as frequently as I do, you’re bound to come up with quotes about being single that will remain with you for quite a while. We have a lot of love quotes on this Christian singles blog. Some of the love quotes and quotes about being single are quite funny, so they are sad. Sometimes, however, I come across a single quote that’s just plain…
Bad Dates-How to End a Bad Date: Christian Singles Guide
Bad dates. Nearly everyone has had a bad date or two. In fact, several singles have written for advice on how to end a bad Christian date. Navigating the dating world as a Christian single can be a journey filled with hope and anticipation. However, not every date turns out as expected. What defines a ‘bad date’ in a Christian context? It could be a lack of shared values, disrespectful behavior, or simply a realization that there’s no spiritual or…
Signs of Lust in Christian Single Men
Do you know the signs of lust in a man? All Christian single men battle the lust of the flesh from time to time. In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian. One single man pal of mine said if his girlfriend ever knew his thoughts, she would never stop slapping him! Listen, men struggle with lust, and any single man who says otherwise is just lying out of…
Long Distance Relationship Tips for Christian Singles
Need long-distance Christian dating tips for a long-distance relationship? These relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there are…
40-Something Christian Singles: Embracing Singleness with Faith and Fulfillment
Are you one of those 40-something Christian singles thinking about how life is passing you by? Navigating the world of 40-something Christian singles can be a unique and challenging journey. This phase often brings a mix of experiences – from the joy of independence to the complexities of loneliness and societal pressures. Many Christian singles in their forties find themselves grappling with questions of purpose, identity, and faith in the context of their singleness. In this comprehensive guide, we explore…
Small Group Bible Studies for Christian Singles
Basically, small group bible studies for Christian singles are support groups or cell groups that include Bible study, but worship, prayer, encouragement, learning more about the Lord, and outreach to the community around them. Here at Oasis Singles we highly encourage Christian singles to hook into small group Bible studies. For many Christian singles, the journey of faith is both personal and deeply communal. While personal devotions and corporate worship have their irreplaceable places in a believer’s life, there’s…
The Importance of Honesty in a Relationship: A Christian Singles Perspective
Why is honesty in a relationship so important? In the journey of finding and nurturing a meaningful relationship, honesty stands as a foundational pillar, especially for Christian singles who are seeking a partnership grounded in faith and trust. Honesty is not just a moral choice but a spiritual commitment that reflects the teachings of Christ and the principles of Christian living. This article explores why honesty is crucial in relationships from a Christian single’s perspective, illuminating its benefits, challenges, and…
Undoing Depression and Discouragement in Singles
As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression and stress can crop up at anytime, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some top reasons singles give for having discouragement and depression in their dating lives: Some battle discouragement and depression because they have just…
How to Let Go of a Toxic Christian Dating Relationship
Sometimes learning how to let go of a toxic Christian dating relationship can be harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person, or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over feeling guilty or think that the right person will never come into…
Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul: Empowering Christian Single Teenagers
I just came across a great book called Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul, which speaks to the heart of the single Christian through inspiring stories. No matter how old you are, Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul is a worthwhile read for the simple fact that it is so uplifting. In the bustling journey of adolescence, “Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul” emerges as a beacon of hope and guidance. As an older Christian single, I’ve traversed the rocky…
When God Doesn’t Make Sense as a Christian Single
When God doesn’t make sense to you because all your Christian single friends have met someone, but you have not, does your faith waver? As Christian singles, maybe it’s a Christian dating relationship that’s gone awry, or some other event in your life that’s got you thinking about “the why” of it all. Why did God allow this? What’s God’s plan? Where do I go from here? Navigating the treacherous waters of singleness can often leave one feeling like a…
How to Stop Worrying About Money: A Christian Single’s Guide
Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money? We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that? So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actual meaning of the word “worry in Greek actually…
Sexual Purity in the Bible and Christian Singles
That’s right we are going to talk about sexual purity in the Bible, the topic that everybody likes to avoid. Sexual impurity ranges from lustful thoughts to actual acts of perverted behavior. In today’s modern world, everywhere you look, there’s sex and very rarely is it between two married people. If you turn on the TV, you see scantily clad women on MTV and HBO. You can go to the supermarket to see magazines with half-naked models and articles about…
How to Get a Christian Guy to Ask You Out
Wondering how to get a Christian guy to ask you out? In the realm of Christian dating, the journey to a meaningful relationship is often paved with shared faith and values. For many Christian women, understanding how to encourage a Christian guy to ask them out is not just about romantic interest, but also about fostering a bond that resonates with their spiritual principles. This guide delves into the nuances of forming such connections, respecting the faith-based dynamics that are…