Posts by Oasis Singles (Page 5)

Posts by Oasis Singles (Page 5)

how to find a christian wife

How to Find a Christian Wife

Ever wonder how to find a Christian wife? I would think many Christian single women in the market for a husband would be interested in knowing the number of Christian men hoping to find a Christian wife.  Well, we are too, and that’s one reason why our up-and-coming singles survey will try to quantify the different numbers of Christian single men looking to find a Christian wife, those looking to simply find a date and those not seeking a mate…
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Christian Dating Advice: Dating a Friend-Should Friends Date?

Thinking about dating a friend? Should I confess to my crush? But should friends date? A Christian single guy wrote us asking if it’s a good idea if best friends to date one another.  So what do you think? Should friends date each other? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “that a man and a woman can’t really be just friends.” But that’s the topic of another article. Let’s get…
Anger at Being Single

Anger at Being Single-Dealing with Anger in Relationships

Do you have anger at being single? Many single women and men walk around with a lot of anger because they are still single long past the time they thought they would be married. Does being single at this time in your life make you angry? Target of Anger at being single One target of a single person’s anger is directed at God Himself because He has not brought that one true love into their lives. Frustration, jealousy, and discouragement…
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How Should Christian College Students Respond to Anti-Semitic and Anti-Israel Sentiments?

As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University, I see firsthand the heated political and social conflicts brewing among the students. For Christian college students, the emergence of anti-Semitic and anti-Israel protests can be particularly troubling. This blog post aims to explore how Christian students can respond to such situations in a way that aligns with biblical teachings, promoting peace, understanding, and compassion. Understanding the Context Anti-Semitic and anti-Israel sentiments on college campuses often stem from complex geopolitical, historical,…
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Embracing Singleness: A Christian Perspective

Do you have difficulty embracing singleness as a Christian single guy or woman Many singles I know are depressed and discouraged because they can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their pursuit of the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage is so all-consuming that they lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. Accepting singleness has nothing to do with pursuing a Christian marriage with the right…
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Should Christian Singles Blindly Support Politicians?

I’m find it extremely concerning how blindly many people follow certain politicians and interest groups on both the LEFT and RIGHT, EVEN when it’s obvious they are demagogues, liars and crooks. If you claim to be a Christian, it’s time to WAKE UP! The moral authority of the church is undercut when we blindly support anyone. It’s also dangerous! We need to speak the TRUTH in love no matter where it leads. No matter if it makes you feel uncomfortable.…
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Sexual Purity as a Single Christian: A Path From Impurity

Sexual purity is a difficult topic for Christian singles. It doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or man, or whether you believe in courtship or traditional dating. Yes, remaining sexually pure as a single Christian is a real battle, a tug-o-war between our raging hormones and desires, and our Lord’s plan for our lives in this area: “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn…
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How to Redirect Your Focus from Dating as a Christian Single

As a Christian single, it can be challenging to navigate the world of dating, especially when societal norms and peer pressures emphasize the importance of finding a romantic partner. However, it’s essential to remember that your worth and identity are rooted in Christ, not in your relationship status. This article explores strategies for Christian singles to shift their focus from dating and cultivate a more fulfilling, balanced life. Embrace Your Singlehood as a Divine Season 1. Deepen Your Spiritual Connection…
Best Careers for Single Moms

Best Careers for Single Christian Moms

As a single Christian mom, the journey of selecting the best career path is not just about financial stability, but also about finding work that resonates with your values, offers flexibility, and provides the opportunity to lead a fulfilling life while raising children. Balancing motherhood with career aspirations can be challenging, yet it’s a journey that can lead to immense personal growth and satisfaction. This comprehensive guide aims to empower single Christian mothers by exploring career options that align with…
How to Grow Spiritually as a Christian Single

How to Grow Spiritually as a Christian Single

In the journey of faith, being single offers a unique opportunity for spiritual growth and self-discovery. As Christian singles, the pursuit of a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with God can lead to a life of purpose, joy, and contentment. This article delves into practical and effective ways to grow spiritually, embracing the singleness season as a time of divine preparation and personal transformation. 8 Steps on How to grow Spiritually as a Christian Single 1. Embrace Solitude as a Gift…
Latin Christian Singles

Latin Christian Singles in the USA and How to Meet Them

In recent years, the United States has witnessed a notable surge in the population of Latin Christian singles. This demographic shift is not just a testament to the growing diversity within the country but also highlights the vibrant faith community among Latin Americans. As more individuals seek partners who share their cultural and spiritual values, understanding the dynamics of this trend and exploring effective ways to meet Latin Christian singles becomes essential for fostering meaningful relationships. This article delves into…
How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome

How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a Christian Dating Single

In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face a hidden obstacle that can hinder their path to finding a loving, God-centered relationship: imposter syndrome. This psychological phenomenon, characterized by persistent self-doubt and a fear of being exposed as a “fraud” despite evident success, can be particularly challenging in the sensitive context of dating. However, with faith as a cornerstone, Christian singles can navigate through these feelings, turning imposter syndrome from a roadblock into a stepping stone toward genuine connections…
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Short Cute Love Quotes for Christian Dating Singles

It’s amazing how many people find our site searching for short cute love quotes. Ironically, many singles who look for short cute love quotes also fear love at the same time. They go through life yearning for a dating relationship leading toward marriage but shy away from love at the same time. How sad and frustrating! The realm of Christian dating is filled with the exhilarating highs of newfound love, and the hopeful journey towards a love rooted in faith.…
How to deal With Valentine's Day When You're Single

How to Deal With Valentine’s Day When You’re Single

Valentine’s Day, with its emphasis on romantic love, can sometimes feel isolating for those who are single. However, as a Christian single, this day offers a unique opportunity to reflect on and celebrate love in its myriad forms, beyond just the romantic. Here’s a guide to embracing Valentine’s Day, focusing on self-love, God’s love, and love for others, fostering a sense of fulfillment and joy regardless of your relationship status. Tips to deal with Valentine’s Day when you’re a Christian…
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Valentine’s Day Slogans for Christian Singles

Have any favorite Valentine’s Day slogans? There are a number of Valentine’s Day slogans and quotes out there that put Christian singles in a yearning mood for love. Valentine’s Day, with its universal theme of love, often conjures images of romantic dinners, heartfelt gifts, and couples basking in their affection for one another. However, for Christian singles, this day can evoke a myriad of emotions, from joy in celebrating all forms of love to a sense of longing or reflection…
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Steps Lonely Christian Single Women Can Take to Battle Loneliness

Would you label yourself as one of those lonely Christian single women?  I met a single lonely woman today. She said she had no one  with whom to share the burdens of her heart.  If you feel like you too are a lonely single woman, you’re not alone. Lonely Single Christian women Facts According to a Duke University study, 25% of the US population feels like they have no one with whom to share their pains of life. The vast…