Posts by Oasis Singles (Page 8)

Posts by Oasis Singles (Page 8)

addicted to dating apps

Addicted to Christian Dating Apps? How to Deal With Dating Addictions

Are you addicted to dating apps? In today’s digital age, it’s hardly surprising that many individuals, including Christian singles, are turning to dating apps to find a loving wife or husband Apps specifically tailored to Christian users, like Christian Mingle or Christian Connection, promise faith-based relationships, ensuring compatibility in spiritual beliefs. However, like any online dating tool, these platforms can be both a blessing and a curse. This article dives deep into the world of Christian dating apps, examining the…
christian spiritual journey

Christian Spiritual Journey of Singles

According to our survey results, most Christian singles agree that they are on a Christian spiritual journey. Unfortunately, most admit that they are clueless as to where that spiritual journey may lead. Therefore many seek guidance for their spiritual journey. Some seek spiritual gurus from Eastern religions. Others go to fortune tellers for help with their spiritual journey. It seems some people will try anything except a relationship with the one true God as found in the Holy Bible. The…
single adults and the great commission

The Great Commission and Single Adults

In a previous article related to the Great Commission and single adults, we mentioned that single adults are one of the most unchurched groups of people. Although the Great Commission commands us to preach the gospel to every creature, million of singles are unreached and still living in spiritual darkness. Why is this? The sad but true story is that many churches and individual Christians do not take the great Commission seriously. For example, in his influential book, The Disciple-Making…
single gals

Single Gals and God’s Grace

As a former mediator in family court, I’ve  seen a lot of single gals come through our doors. Not a few of these single gals are pregnant teen girls in great financial, spiritual and emotional need. This thought about single gals got me thinking about Mary, the blessed mother of Jesus, our Saviour. Think about it. She too was a single gal, a pregnant teenager with some heavy needs of her own. Single Gal Problems First of all, she was…

Dating Chat With God

A dating chat with God? Yeah, I know that sounds strange. Usually when we think of dating chats, we think of online dating chat rooms where flirting and speaking with the opposite sex takes place. Recently, however, several Christian singles mentioned how they were struggling with their faith, and wish they could have a “dating chat” with God on few issues. Like Job, they figured if they could, they would ask the Lord a few questions on some things they…
christian marriage vows

Christian Marriage Vows and Submission

Discussing Christian marriage vows can be one of the hardest parts of planning a wedding ceremony. A lot of Christian single engaged couples stumble over Christian marriage vows because of one simple word: submission. Christian Marriage Vows Controversy Many traditional  vows, in an attempt to express what was thought to be the Bible’s teaching on wives submitting to their husbands, include one little phrase where the bride pledges to “love honor and obey” her mate. Today, most Christian marriage vows…
DISABILITY DATING AND CHRISTIAN SINGLES

Disability Dating and Singles Dating with Disabilities

Have you heard about those disability dating sites that exist to help disabled singles the chance to meet other singles with similar issues? Some people use disability dating sites because they feel it is harder for them to find a date on a regular dating site. I know of several Christian singles who have physical disabilities, and they with disability dating services. The main reason they use online disability dating is because they feel “normal” singles in the church and…
fitness singles

Fitness Singles-Are You Christian Single and Into Fitness?

Are you a fitness single? A Christian single into fitness? What a strange term that is! But that’s the term somebody coined for a single person who’s into fitness. There are even dating sites dedicated entirely to fitness singles. Unbelievable! Christian Fitness Go to any work out club like Ballys or LA Fitness, and will you  find a substantial majority of the people fit? Of course! Our bodies are the temple of the Spirit, and we should take good care…
tiny single women

Tiny Single Women

Based on what we see from our readers, 70% of whom are female, a lot of single women  out there think men are “into” tiny single women. Nothing could be further from the truth. Ib fat survey after survey has shown that while single women feel they need to be a size 4  or less to get and keep a man, men feel just the opposite. Looking at pictures of various women and choosing what they considered to be attractive,…
How to end a bad date

Girl Rules for Dating Guys

Depending on who you speak with, girl rules for dating guys differ in content and emphasis. The following girl rules for dating guys come from several Christian single guys who have had tons of experience with both online dating sites like eHarmony and offline dating. The above girl rules for dating guys are not necessarily our views, but I thought them worth sharing. By the way, if you have any Christian dating rules you would like to share, just fire…
single solo

Single, Solo, and Sad

From the beginning of creation God intended for us to have a partner in life. Early on God tells us it is not good for us to be alone. (Genesis 2:18) He makes his intentions very clear that the form this will take is as man and wife. (Genesis 2:24) Each time we meet our next prospect our hearts beat with anticipation. Is this going to be the one? Has God finally answered my prayers and sent my soul mate…
humorous valentines day poems

Humorous Valentines Day Poems for Christian Singles

I recently noticed a ton of humorous Valentines Day poems, jokes and cartoons. Why the online barrage?  Quite frankly, I think the reason for these humorous Valentines Day poems is that many singles suffer anxiety during this time, and reading and viewing some of this stuff relieves that tension of waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. Are you in this position of dreading Valentine’s Day? Let me encourage you not to let yourself become hostage to a particular…
true love test

Love Tests-The Ultimate Love Test

Are you familiar with love tests? You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines. What exactly is a love test? A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it. In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the “he loves me, he…
Single Loving

Single and Loving It?

Are you single and loving it? I have taken a poll of hundreds of single Christians regarding whether that are content in their single lives? Not surprisingly the results were mixed. 53% stated that they were  loving being single, while 35% were discouraged and frustrated with singlehood. The remaining 12% of Christian singles stated they were tolerating being single but looked forward to finding that special soulmate. The number one reason for putting off marriage? Career. Where are you in…
letting go of a relationship

Letting Go of a Relationship

Most of us know that letting go of a relationship, even if it’s a toxic relationship, is one of the most difficult thing to do. In a previous article we mentioned when it might be a good idea to let go of a relationship However,  many single Christians have communicated to us that simply knowing letting go of a relationship is not enough. One single Christian girl wrote that her cheating boyfriend has her under his power, and try as…
sovereign grace

Sovereign Grace Singles

Did you know there is actually a “Sovereign Grace Singles” dating site for Christian singles? Oh, wait a minute, Sovereign Grace Singles (sovereigngracesingles.com) is not for all single Christians, but only for those who hold to a Reformed theological point of view. Sovereign Grace Singles even uses this Scripture from Amos 3:3 to back up their point of view: ‘Can two walk together except they be agreed?’ How outrageous, sad…and unbiblical!   Check out this quote on the Sovereign Grace…