How do you find the ideal soul mate? As one person told me, in order to find the ideal soul mate, you must be the ideal soul mate for for that special single. What did she mean by that? Simply that as Christian singles there are certain traits that will make it easier to find that ideal Christian soul mate. The following ingredients evident in every healthy marriage relationship, and as singles we must strive to get them in our dating relationships as we seek to find the ideal soul mate for life.
Keys to Finding the Ideal Soul Mate
Besides waitng in patience on God, if we are to connect with another single person to find out if they are the potential ideal soul mate, we must be willing to invest time and effort into the endeavor. As the say, Rome was not built in a night, and neither will a soul mate relationship bud in one or two dates.
If we are to find the ideal soul mate, we must be our true selves and vulnerable if a connection is to occur. Otherwise you or the other person may risk falling in love with a false perception of who you think that person is, rather than who they really are. I can’t tell you the number of singles who have deep regrets for entering into a Christian marriage under such false pretenses. There is a certain fear and risk involved in being truthful about who we really are as people, but in the end it will be worth it if you find that ideal soul mate.
Forgiveness is the healing glue that hold together all great relationships. Why? Because at one time or another we all screw up and have need to either forgive or ask for forgiveness. Arguments will occur, so you need to learn how to deal with fighting early on in a dating relationship. Please don’t be so unrealisitc to think that even if you find that ideal soul mate you’re not going to have trials. As our bible verse of the day states: Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. (Colossians 3:13)
Overall, if you put into practice the above keys, you you will be more apt, with the Lord’s help to find your ideal soul mate.