How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a Christian Dating Single
In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face a hidden obstacle that can hinder their path to finding a loving, God-centered relationship: imposter syndrome. This psychological phenomenon, characterized by persistent self-doubt and a fear of being exposed as a “fraud” despite evident success, can be particularly challenging in the sensitive context of dating. However, with faith as a cornerstone, Christian singles can navigate through these feelings, turning imposter syndrome from a roadblock into a stepping stone toward genuine connections…
Embracing Singleness: A Christian Perspective
Do you have difficulty embracing singleness as a Christian single guy or woman Many singles I know are depressed and discouraged because they can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their pursuit of the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage is so all-consuming that they lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. Accepting singleness has nothing to do with pursuing a Christian marriage with the right…
Long Distance Relationship Tips for Christian Singles
Need long-distance Christian single dating tips for a long-distance relationship? These long-distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long-distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long-distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there are…
Top Fears of Christian Singles Post-Election
Elections often bring hope, change, and, let’s be honest, a fair bit of stress. For Christian singles, post-election life can spark unique fears that go beyond political affiliations. These concerns may intertwine faith, relationships, and an ever-changing cultural landscape. Let’s explore these fears with warmth, humor, and practical advice rooted in Scripture. 1. Fear of Increased Division Post-election, the political divide can feel as wide as the Red Sea. This division often seeps into churches, friendships, and yes, even potential…
7 Tips for Graduating College Singles
Thousands of college singles will be graduating in 2025. The bittersweet cocktail of relief, joy, and a generous splash of “what-now” panic. As a single Christian stepping out into the big, wide world, you’re probably juggling job applications, figuring out post-grad life, and, let’s face it, wondering about your romantic future. Fear not! This journey is not just survivable—it’s winnable, with faith, determination, and a dash of humor. Here are seven tips tailored just for you. 1. Face the Fear…
Christian Dating and Waiting on God
What does the Bible say about waiting on God? More specifically, how to wait on the Lord for that special Christian date, or husband or wife? One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating and marriage is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married, and move on. Loneliness and anxiety start to creep in as we wonder when God…
Why Christian Single 20-Somethings Avoid Dating
Ah, dating in your 20s—a time of self-discovery, exploration, and apparently, for some Christian singles, a time of becoming a hermit with a Bible in one hand and a “Do Not Disturb” sign in the other. The topic of why Christian singles in their 20s avoid dating is a fascinating one, combining elements of faith, fear, and, yes, a bit of comedy. So, why are so many Christian 20-somethings and Gen Z singles opting for solo Netflix binges over candlelit…
Commitment Phobia and Singles
Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid commiting to long term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from committment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons. However, most commitment phobic men and women truly…
The Great Commission and Single Adults
In a previous article related to the Great Commission and single adults, we mentioned that single adults are one of the most unchurched groups of people. Although the Great Commission commands us to preach the gospel to every creature, million of singles are unreached and still living in spiritual darkness. Why is this? The sad but true story is that many churches and individual Christians do not take the great Commission seriously. For example, in his influential book, The Disciple-Making…
How to Know God’s Will for Your Life as a Christian Single
Wondering how to know God’s will for your life? Being single provides both unique challenges and unparalleled opportunities to draw closer to God. As Christian singles navigate their personal journeys, they often wonder, “What is God’s will for my life?” Here’s a guide to help you discern His voice amidst the noise of daily life. 1. Prayer: The Direct Line to God Begin every decision-making process with prayer. James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask…
Dealing with Regret as a Christian Single
Dealing with regret as a Christian single can be a deeply transformative experience, providing both spiritual growth and personal enlightenment. This article explores effective strategies rooted in Christian beliefs to navigate and overcome feelings of regret, turning them into stepping stones for a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. Understanding Regret from a Christian Perspective Regret can be defined as a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity.…
How to Deal with an Addictive Personality: A Christian Singles Perspective
So, you’ve realized you have an “addictive personality.” First off, welcome to the club—members are growing daily, and while we don’t have snacks (we’d eat them too quickly), we do have grace and a game plan? Whether it’s binge-watching 17 episodes of your favorite Christian drama in one sitting, obsessively scrolling dating apps to find “The One,” or inhaling that gallon of double-churned ice cream while contemplating your singleness—addictive tendencies can feel like a mountain you’re perpetually circling. But before…
Hobbies for Single Women This Christmas
Looking for hobbies for single women this Christmas? The twinkling lights and Hallmark movies can only go so far, right? One of the best ways to embrace the season and nurture your spirit as a Christian single woman is by diving into hobbies. Why? Because hobbies aren’t just a way to kill time—they’re a way to thrive, find purpose, and maybe even discover gifts you didn’t know God had placed within you. So, grab some cocoa and let’s explore why…
Fitness & Wellness: A Christian Single’s Guide
Let’s face it: being a Christian single during the holiday season is like being a snowflake at a Christmas cookie bake-off—you’re unique, appreciated, but somehow lost in the sugar-coated madness. Between church potlucks, family gatherings, and the inevitable barrage of Hallmark movies, staying fit and maintaining your wellness can feel like a Herculean (or dare I say, Samson-like) task. But fear not, my single friends! With a little humor, some divine inspiration, and practical tips, you’ll cruise through the holidays…
Sweet Things to Say to a Christian Girl
Are you a single guy looking for sweet things to say to a Christian girl? What are sweet things to say to a girl you like? Many single guys, whether they are Christian or not, have true feelings of warmth deep inside their hearts. However, some not only have a difficult time thinking of sweet things to say to their girlfriends, they also get “tongue-tied” when trying to express them as well. Where’s Cyrano de Bergerac when we really need…
Signs He’ll Never Marry You – A Christian Single’s Perspective
Looking for signs he’ll never marry you? In the journey of Christian dating and relationships, understanding the commitment level of your partner is crucial. For many Christian singles, marriage is not just a union but a sacred covenant. It’s essential to discern the signs that might indicate a partner is not inclined toward marriage. This article explores key indicators from a Christian single’s perspective, helping you understand if your partner might never be ready to take the vows of marriage.…