Undoing Depression and Discouragement in Singles
As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression and stress can crop up at anytime, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some top reasons singles give for having discouragement and depression in their dating lives: Some battle discouragement and depression because they have just…
How to Stop Worrying About Money: A Christian Single’s Guide
Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money? We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that? So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actual meaning of the word “worry in Greek actually…
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living: A Guide for Christian Singles
Hey there, friend! If you’re reading this, chances are you’re tired of worry weighing you down. Maybe it’s the stress of relationships, the job you’re not thrilled about, or the future that seems like a big blank page. Whatever it is, worrying is exhausting, and as singles, we often feel like we’re facing these concerns alone. But here’s the truth: as a Christian, you’re never truly alone, and God never meant for you to carry these burdens by yourself. In…
Top 10 Classic Romance Movies for Christian Singles Guide
If you’re a Christian single, romance movies can be a bittersweet escape. On one hand, there’s the delight of seeing love blossom, and on the other, there’s the longing for that special someone to share these moments. But hey, who says you can’t laugh, cry, and enjoy some timeless love stories while waiting for “the one”? Here’s a list of the top 10 classic romance movies perfect for Christian singles who love romance with a dose of laughter and values.…
10 Ways to Tell If Someone Is Married (with a Christian Twist)
If you’ve been out there in the dating world, especially as a Christian single, you know things can get a little tricky. You’re trying to stay pure, uphold biblical values, and—let’s face it—figure out whether that charming person sitting across from you at church is already someone else’s “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). So, how do you tell if someone is married? Here are the top 10 ways, with a little humor and solid biblical advice, to tell if someone is…
10 Qualities of a Good Man to Marry: A Christian Single’s Viewpoint
Are you a single Christian girl wondering what the qualities of a good Christian man to marry are? In the realm of Christian dating, the quest to find a suitable life partner often revolves around identifying a man whose qualities align with biblical principles. As Christian singles navigate the challenging waters of dating, there are specific attributes they ought to seek, echoing the teachings and values of their faith. Here’s a guide to the qualities of a good man to…
Christian Dating Principles For Single Christians
Many singles write us asking for Christian dating principles or Christian dating rules to guide their dating lives. Well, listen. I don’t claim to be a Christian dating expert, but I do know that the Scriptures have some wonderful stuff from which we can cobble some general Christian dating principles. The pursuit of love is universal, yet for Christian singles, this journey is not merely about finding a compatible partner. It’s about aligning the heart’s desires with God’s plan and…
The Role of Prayer in a Christian Singles Dating Relationship
When it comes to dating as a Christian, there’s one essential factor that holds it all together like duct tape on a leaky pipe: prayer. Yup, that’s right. We’re talking about bringing your relationship before God and asking for His guidance, wisdom, and maybe a little patience (especially when they keep leaving their socks on the floor). But why is prayer so important in a Christian singles dating relationship? Let’s dive into the role it plays and why it should…
Time Management and Living Single
Are you a time saver? A time waster? Do you have trouble prioritizing tasks? For whatever reason, time management and living single and alone don’t mix too well. Many single Christians, especially recently single again men and women, seem to be short on time. Many I know tell me the problem is they don’t prioritize their time efficiently. That’s what we call poor time management. Maybe one of the reasons some of us have time management issues is because we…
Why is it so Hard to Meet Someone?
If you’re reading this as a single Christian, let me first say, welcome! You and I are in the same boat—an ark, if you will, floating aimlessly across the sea of singlehood. Some of us have been navigating these waters for years, while others are fresh out of the harbor. Either way, it’s hard out here, right? But why exactly is it so difficult to meet someone? To explore this, let’s dive into some of the main reasons why modern…
Why God Created Eve: A Comical but Biblically-Sound Reflection for Christian Singles
Ah, the age-old question. Why did God create Eve? The answer, as we know, is embedded deep in the Book of Genesis, but let’s be honest: we’ve all wondered about this from time to time, especially when you’re navigating the single life. Was it really necessary for Adam to have a companion? Wasn’t he living the dream, chilling in the Garden of Eden, naming animals, and eating all the organic fruit his heart desired? But no, God looked at Adam…
When God Doesn’t Make Sense as a Christian Single
When God doesn’t make sense to you because all your Christian single friends have met someone, but you have not, does your faith waver? As Christian singles, maybe it’s a Christian dating relationship that’s gone awry, or some other event in your life that’s got you thinking about “the why” of it all. Why did God allow this? What’s God’s plan? Where do I go from here? Navigating the treacherous waters of singleness can often leave one feeling like a…
Rediscovering Purpose as a Christian Single Post-Breakup
Breakups are tough. Whether it was a long-term relationship or a short one, the end of a romantic connection can leave us feeling lost, lonely, and confused. When you’ve invested so much of your heart into someone else, it’s normal to feel disoriented when that bond breaks. However, as a Christian single navigating life post-breakup, there is an incredible opportunity to rediscover your purpose and grow closer to God during this season of your life. It’s not just about surviving;…
Signs of Lust in Christian Single Men
Do you know the signs of lust in a man? All Christian single men battle the lust of the flesh from time to time. In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian. One single man pal of mine said if his girlfriend ever knew his thoughts, she would never stop slapping him! Listen, men struggle with lust and masturbation, and any single man who says otherwise is just lying…
Generation Z Christian Singles
As Generation Z Christian singles can tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles and college singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, Generations Z Singles as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about Gen singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunities by not communicating the Gospel to 20-something singles in ways that make sense to them.…
Stuck in the Friend Zone as a Christian Single
Ah, the infamous Friend Zone—a place where your feelings are as obvious as a neon sign, but to the object of your affection, you’re just a really good buddy. If you’re a Christian single who’s head over heels for a Christian guy who doesn’t quite get the memo, don’t despair. The Friend Zone is a land of opportunity, growth, and, surprisingly, a lot of laughs. Let’s dive into how to deal with this unique relationship with humor, warmth, and a…