Dating Chat With God
A dating chat with God? Yeah, I know that sounds strange. Usually when we think of dating chats, we think of online dating chat rooms where flirting and speaking with the opposite sex takes place. Recently, however, several Christian singles mentioned how they were struggling with their faith, and wish they could have a “dating chat” with God on few issues. Like Job, they figured if they could, they would ask the Lord a few questions on some things they…
Christian Marriage Vows and Submission
Discussing Christian marriage vows can be one of the hardest parts of planning a wedding ceremony. A lot of Christian single engaged couples stumble over Christian marriage vows because of one simple word: submission. Christian Marriage Vows Controversy Many traditional vows, in an attempt to express what was thought to be the Bible’s teaching on wives submitting to their husbands, include one little phrase where the bride pledges to “love honor and obey” her mate. Today, most Christian marriage vows…
Disability Dating and Singles Dating with Disabilities
Have you heard about those disability dating sites that exist to help disabled singles the chance to meet other singles with similar issues? Some people use disability dating sites because they feel it is harder for them to find a date on a regular dating site. I know of several Christian singles who have physical disabilities, and they with disability dating services. The main reason they use online disability dating is because they feel “normal” singles in the church and…
Christian Singles Events and Conferences : How to Publicize
Does your church, singles site, or ministry have Christian singles events or single Christian conferences you’d like to promote? Did you do a search for “Christian singles events near me?” We’d be happy to publicize your Christian singles event right here because we consider that part of our mission at Christian Dating Service Plus! is to encourage other single Christians to edify and encourage one another by meeting regularly together for fellowship. It’s tough living a Christlike single life in…
Fitness Singles-Are You Christian Single and Into Fitness?
Are you a fitness single? A Christian single into fitness? What a strange term that is! But that’s the term somebody coined for a single person who’s into fitness. There are even dating sites dedicated entirely to fitness singles. Unbelievable! Christian Fitness Go to any work out club like Ballys or LA Fitness, and will you find a substantial majority of the people fit? Of course! Our bodies are the temple of the Spirit, and we should take good care…
Tiny Single Women
Based on what we see from our readers, 70% of whom are female, a lot of single women out there think men are “into” tiny single women. Nothing could be further from the truth. Ib fat survey after survey has shown that while single women feel they need to be a size 4 or less to get and keep a man, men feel just the opposite. Looking at pictures of various women and choosing what they considered to be attractive,…
Girl Rules for Dating Guys
Depending on who you speak with, girl rules for dating guys differ in content and emphasis. The following girl rules for dating guys come from several Christian single guys who have had tons of experience with both online dating sites like eHarmony and offline dating. The above girl rules for dating guys are not necessarily our views, but I thought them worth sharing. By the way, if you have any Christian dating rules you would like to share, just fire…
Single, Solo, and Sad
From the beginning of creation God intended for us to have a partner in life. Early on God tells us it is not good for us to be alone. (Genesis 2:18) He makes his intentions very clear that the form this will take is as man and wife. (Genesis 2:24) Each time we meet our next prospect our hearts beat with anticipation. Is this going to be the one? Has God finally answered my prayers and sent my soul mate…
Humorous Valentines Day Poems for Christian Singles
I recently noticed a ton of humorous Valentines Day poems, jokes and cartoons. Why the online barrage? Quite frankly, I think the reason for these humorous Valentines Day poems is that many singles suffer anxiety during this time, and reading and viewing some of this stuff relieves that tension of waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. Are you in this position of dreading Valentine’s Day? Let me encourage you not to let yourself become hostage to a particular…
Love Tests-The Ultimate Love Test
Are you familiar with love tests? You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines. What exactly is a love test? A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it. In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the “he loves me, he…
Single and Loving It?
Are you single and loving it? I have taken a poll of hundreds of single Christians regarding whether that are content in their single lives? Not surprisingly the results were mixed. 53% stated that they were loving being single, while 35% were discouraged and frustrated with singlehood. The remaining 12% of Christian singles stated they were tolerating being single but looked forward to finding that special soulmate. The number one reason for putting off marriage? Career. Where are you in…
Letting Go of a Relationship
Most of us know that letting go of a relationship, even if it’s a toxic relationship, is one of the most difficult thing to do. In a previous article we mentioned when it might be a good idea to let go of a relationship However, many single Christians have communicated to us that simply knowing letting go of a relationship is not enough. One single Christian girl wrote that her cheating boyfriend has her under his power, and try as…
Sovereign Grace Singles
Did you know there is actually a “Sovereign Grace Singles” dating site for Christian singles? Oh, wait a minute, Sovereign Grace Singles (sovereigngracesingles.com) is not for all single Christians, but only for those who hold to a Reformed theological point of view. Sovereign Grace Singles even uses this Scripture from Amos 3:3 to back up their point of view: ‘Can two walk together except they be agreed?’ How outrageous, sad…and unbiblical! Check out this quote on the Sovereign Grace…
What’s True Love Got To Do With It?
Most human beings are looking for a true love that lasts forever. I know some uf us may not admit it, but deep down, that thirst for true love is there. Perhaps your search for a true love relationship is one of the reasons you’re visiting this site today. True Love-What it’s Not Unfortunately, in our quest to find it, many of us have been, like the 80’s love song says, looking for true love in all the wrong places.…
Rebound Relationships and the Pain
Many singles seem to go from one rebound relationship to the next in search of that ultimate relationship. The only problem is that the vast majority of rebound relationships end as well, which makes daters feel worse then the previous relationship. As someone who worked in the Family Court system, I saw the sad effects of rebound relationships everyday. The Thinking Behind Rebound Relationships The thinking behind rebound relationships goes like this: “Although my previous relationship failed, this one will…
Money Saving Worries and Singles
Many singles have a hard time saving money, for the simple reason that they don’t have much money to save. This lack of money saving has caused many single worry over what they will do in their day of need. Money Saving Worries for Christian Singles Does money saving concerns of single people shock you? It shouldn’t because financial debt and being single goes hand in hand. Singles of all types (never married, divorced, widowed or single parents) collectively have…